07/2014 - Anyone going to Santiago in Mid August?

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Originally Posted by Sandcobra

I stayed at Hotel Matum last year and I would never stay there again. It sounds like you will be spending a bit of your time with a nice chica, unless you want to pay 900 pesos for a visitor fee you might want to stay somewhere else. I recently stayed at Hodelpa Centro Plaza and it was 100x better than Matum IMO

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besides the crappy decor Matum was extremely lenient towards chicas. A friend of mine had chicas going in and out every hour of the day. No extra charge. The only problem were the girls that work the front desk during the day.They gave their disapproving looks but even they gave their numbers to my friend before we left. Also my friends have been staying there quite a bit in the past and knows quite a few people that work there so maybe that's why there were no problems at all.in fact the staff encouraged it and cheered him on lol.

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Originally Posted by Señor JDR of Medellin

Yea everyone.:corky:

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Should I make a new thread or just post it here?

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Originally Posted by BrooklynBeas

I'll hold back and leave him alone... But, beyond the wall, you do know that this is your vacation and you can choose to do what you want and when you want.... Of course they are going to be super-jealous.. You are their meal ticket or possibly more if they can lock you down... Which, looks like she is doing pretty well..


Unless you're getting in her pants at no charge, I wouldnt feel as if I had to sneak around on the DL,and that is highly unlikely, don't worry about it, cause that the norm.... If you feel funny about it, don't worry about that either, cause after a few trips under your belt, you will get used to the business relationship...

Jut don't fall in love and understand its all about business.....................

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ok before you guys rip me a new one I would like to say that I've read up on this quite a bit. Yes I gave her money but I honest to god believe she likes me. in fact I am planning to test this next time by not giving her a dime. I'll explain what I think and why I think in my more in depth trip report. But I can read people pretty well and the friends I was with have gone to DR probably 30 times between them. They confirmed that the way she acts around me is not normal for just being a chica. now I'm not going to take things for granted and im not going to let it get to my head as I do plan to treat her as a chica(primary) and I do plan to expand my number.

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

ok before you guys rip me a new one I would like to say that I've read up on this quite a bit. Yes I gave her money but I honest to god believe she likes me. in fact I am planning to test this next time by not giving her a dime. I'll explain what I think and why I think in my more in depth trip report. But I can read people pretty well and the friends I was with have gone to DR probably 30 times between them. They confirmed that the way she acts around me is not normal for just being a chica. now I'm not going to take things for granted and im not going to let it get to my head as I do plan to treat her as a chica(primary) and I do plan to expand my number.

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Why do you think you know more than all of us?

She is Dominican, end of debate.

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Originally Posted by Hunter

chica friendly?

did you get lowest room cost one? Not cheap hotel but looks nice...rooms start at 90 USD in august...

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Yes they are chica friendly, the doorman kindly escorted my lady friend up to my room when she arrived at 2am. Gotta love that room service :)

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

ok before you guys rip me a new one I would like to say that I've read up on this quite a bit. Yes I gave her money but I honest to god believe she likes me. in fact I am planning to test this next time by not giving her a dime. I'll explain what I think and why I think in my more in depth trip report. But I can read people pretty well and the friends I was with have gone to DR probably 30 times between them. They confirmed that the way she acts around me is not normal for just being a chica. now I'm not going to take things for granted and im not going to let it get to my head as I do plan to treat her as a chica(primary) and I do plan to expand my number.

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I bet she will like you less.

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

..........ok before you guys rip me a new one I would like to say that I've read up on this quite a bit. Yes I gave her money but I honest to god believe she likes me. in fact I am planning to test this next time by not giving her a dime. I'll explain what I think and why I think in my more in depth trip report. But I can read people pretty well and the friends I was with have gone to DR probably 30 times between them. They confirmed that the way she acts around me is not normal for just being a chica. now I'm not going to take things for granted and im not going to let it get to my head as I do plan to treat her as a chica(primary) and I do plan to expand my number.

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BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA


Boom ,. there it is...

i didnt even highlight the " i give her $$ part" ,,cuz you entitled to give her whatever you want, noone should Judge another man on how he spends his Money...


but

the " I honest to god think she really likes me" part..

dude, thats PURE COMEDY...

gonna show you a video, of a dude crying at the Airport....
not because he has to go home
but because he thinks SHE is heartbroken that he had to go back home..
and in his words he says " If im feeling this way, I cant imagine what she is feeling right now"
LOL

Ya wanna see it ??


dont be THAT dude

LOL.

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Originally Posted by Sandcobra

Yes they are chica friendly, the doorman kindly escorted my lady friend up to my room when she arrived at 2am. Gotta love that room service :)

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How much was your room a night?

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Originally Posted by BrooklynBeas

I'll hold back and leave him alone... But, beyond the wall, you do know that this is your vacation and you can choose to do what you want and when you want.... Of course they are going to be super-jealous.. You are their meal ticket or possibly more if they can lock you down... Which, looks like she is doing pretty well..


Unless you're getting in her pants at no charge, I wouldnt feel as if I had to sneak around on the DL,and that is highly unlikely, don't worry about it, cause that the norm.... If you feel funny about it, don't worry about that either, cause after a few trips under your belt, you will get used to the business relationship...

Jut don't fall in love and understand its all about business.....................

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Wait a minute. Weren't you the guy that was wifed up and had to sneak out to FOD one day to bang a different chica? Why did you feel like you had to sneak around and now telling this guy that he shouldn't have to? I think there is a double standard at work here.:rofl::rofl:

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Originally Posted by JDR

Why do you think you know more than all of us?

She is Dominican, end of debate.

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Dominicanas are incapable of truly being into a guy, without interest in any sort of financial compensation? Cause I got a bunch of chicks in the rotation this trip who only see me when I call them to come over, and fuck, they come over, they fuck, I put them in a taxi back home, and no pesos exchange hands.

Some of you guys are way to cynical, unless the chick is in the P4P business (Unless I didn't catch the part where he mentioned her being a hooker, I don't recall seeing him mention that about his chick.) I always give her the benefit of the doubt, sometimes you need to remove yourself from your prism of viewing things, just because you can't imagine, or believe that a "gorgeous" Dominicana is with you because she actually likes being with you, and the time you spend together, doesn't mean that standard applies to everyone.


I'm not saying this dudes chick ain't a gold digger, but without more facts regarding what she does, where they met, and so forth, I wouldn't be so quick to judge, and bust this guys balls. I'm sure if I just came on this site, and told ya I fuck all these Dominicanas for nothing at all, without providing any insight, yall would tear me a new one, but it wouldn't change the fact, that it's the truth.

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

I just got back from there in June but now I realized I have more vacation days than I expected so might as well go back. Last time I was with a couple friends(my first time in DR) and I was locked down by this girl the entire time. I had to cancel on quite a few girls some I really wanted to see. I'm not complaining the girl I was with was gorgeous and was always available while the other girls had work. I do plan on seeing her again. But this time I'm going alone and have a few chicas lined up. I know once I see the girl from the first time she will lock me down for the remainder of the trip. So I was just wondering if anyone is up for something the first couple nights I'm there(8/13). All I have booked so far is a one way plane ticket lol.....

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Does anyone have experience with booking on airbnb.com? It looks like a cheaper option than hotels. I do plan on staying Camp David maybe 2 nights. But I'm also looking for a place in the city so I dont have to drive to the clubs or bars. It a BnB place a good choice?

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Originally Posted by Hanzo

Some of you guys are way to cynical, unless the chick is in the P4P business (Unless I didn't catch the part where he mentioned her being a hooker, I don't recall seeing him mention that about his chick.) I always give her the benefit of the doubt, sometimes you need to remove yourself from your prism of viewing things, just because you can't imagine, or believe that a "gorgeous" Dominicana is with you because she actually likes being with you, and the time you spend together, doesn't mean that standard applies to everyone.


I'm not saying this dudes chick ain't a gold digger, but without more facts regarding what she does, where they met, and so forth, I wouldn't be so quick to judge, and bust this guys balls. I'm sure if I just came on this site, and told ya I fuck all these Dominicanas for nothing at all, without providing any insight, yall would tear me a new one, but it wouldn't change the fact, that it's the truth.

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Although what you say is factually correct, for Dominicans, going to the DR, and meeting Dominican Women, who are NOT p4p, or working in the TOURIST areas.

.. yes



but
which part of the highlighted section makes us way too "cynical" about this Guys scenario, Mr Hanzo ?

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Originally Posted by JD426

Although what you say is factually correct, for Dominicans, going to the DR, and meeting Dominican Women, who are NOT p4p, or working in the TOURIST areas.

.. yes



but
which part of the highlighted section makes us way too "cynical" about this Guys scenario, Mr Hanzo ?

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She is not P4P. We never discussed money and I did not meet her in a tourist area(are there even any in Santiago?). I met her on Dominican Cupid and I was locked down by choice because I was into her and she made me happy enough that I didnt really have a giant urge to see someone else. I'm not starving for sex as I did just get out of a long term relationship. Again we did not discuss money, she never asked, not even to pay for her cab fare to and from home or bus fare to meet me in Sosua and going back(different story). Everything I did pay I volunteered. Being this is my first time I'm sure I missed some stuff that I probably should have paid for but she never brought up money. And the only reason I offered to give her a little something is because I hear from my friends and also seeing for myself how hard life really is there.

But none of this even matters because I'm a very realistic person. I know not to fall in love and get attached. I'm not letting it get in my head. I do what I want on my vacation. If I dont feel like hanging with her I wont hesitate to find something else. But right now I do enjoy her company very much. And no I'm not going to be some dude crying at an airport lol...and yes I've read enough of these stories you were referring to keep an even keel.

Keep in mind I'm not a 65 year old gringo in Sosua(no offense :X). I'm relatively young (30) and at least look mildly attractive(though that is debatable :D) I ran into a girl at Club Level that I had been previously talking to on Tagged but it wasn't really going anywhere. But that night after seeing me and my chica she blew up my phone and is offering to see me next time I come down. These girls I'm meeting are not P4P, just wanted to reiterate that. Obviously some kind of money/benefits are in play no different than anywhere else in the world really.

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Originally Posted by j_d66

I bet she will like you less.

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we'll see :D doesn't matter either way.

Are you FLUENT in Spanish ?

or does she speak your language / english I assume ?

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Originally Posted by JD426

Are you FLUENT in Spanish ?

or does she speak your language / english I assume ?

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She speaks no English, and I have kindergarten level Spanish lol...I have no idea how but it works...though my spanish has gotten a lot better in the last couple months. I think I'm at 1st grade level now. I really wish I had paid attention in Spanish class.

Is nobody in Santiago right now or plan to be soon? Was really hoping to meet some members.

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

She speaks no English, and I have kindergarten level Spanish lol...I have no idea how but it works...though my spanish has gotten a lot better in the last couple months. I think I'm at 1st grade level now. I really wish I had paid attention in Spanish class.

Is nobody in Santiago right now or plan to be soon? Was really hoping to meet some members.

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Very few go there and some just keep to themselves.

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

She is not P4P. We never discussed money and I did not meet her in a tourist area(are there even any in Santiago?). I met her on Dominican Cupid

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Sorry but that is populated by hookers as well as regular women.

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

Keep in mind I'm not a 65 year old gringo in Sosua(no offense :X). I'm relatively young (30) and at least look mildly attractive(though that is debatable :D) I ran into a girl at Club Level that I had been previously talking to on Tagged but it wasn't really going anywhere. But that night after seeing me and my chica she blew up my phone and is offering to see me next time I come down. These girls I'm meeting are not P4P, just wanted to reiterate that. Obviously some kind of money/benefits are in play no different than anywhere else in the world really.

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Its very different. In America, most jobs are 50% men and 50% women, earning equal pay.


Women in America can make a million dollars just as easy as a man.


Only 5% of Domincans are rich and I am guessing 95% are men.


If you amiga is lucky she may end up making 10,000 pesos a month at a job.

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

But none of this even matters because I'm a very realistic person. I know not to fall in love and get attached. I'm not letting it get in my head. I do what I want on my vacation. If I dont feel like hanging with her I wont hesitate to find something else. But right now I do enjoy her company very much. And no I'm not going to be some dude crying at an airport lol...and yes I've read enough of these stories you were referring to keep an even keel.

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You used the word lockdown.

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Originally Posted by beyondthewall

She is not P4P. We never discussed money and I did not meet her in a tourist area(are there even any in Santiago?). I met her on Dominican Cupid and I was locked down by choice because I was into her and she made me happy enough that I didnt really have a giant urge to see someone else. I'm not starving for sex as I did just get out of a long term relationship. Again we did not discuss money, she never asked, not even to pay for her cab fare to and from home or bus fare to meet me in Sosua and going back(different story). Everything I did pay I volunteered. Being this is my first time I'm sure I missed some stuff that I probably should have paid for but she never brought up money. And the only reason I offered to give her a little something is because I hear from my friends and also seeing for myself how hard life really is there.

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Do you know what a house cost there? 99% of them will never get a house on their own. In america, Most women that work can end up with a condo or Co - Op.

So on a weekday in January, I met her going to the bank with her cousin. She works 3 days a week in the Capital.


I returned in June and she came over 9 of my ten days.


I gave her 1,200 when I banged her and she stayed 4-5 hours a day.


She was e mailing me on facebook where she has 100's of Dominican friends both male and female.


Her only way out is a gringo.



I asked about all those amigos and she said they were FB only.


Today she had me remove all pictures from her facebook because she is not a puta.


That 1,200 a session was well spent.