Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
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Originally Posted by
greydread
It's not just a Dominican thing. I've had Jamaicans, Colombians, Venezuelans, Phillipinas, Tanzanians.......all ask for money or bring them a $500 cell phonI e or a $400 camera or a $900 laptop or some other such nonsense. A couple even asked me to put them up in $200/month apartments. I always say yes. If I see them again and if they bring it up I just explain to them how my Grandmother got sick and needed a major organ transplant.
Exactly the point....... this is not strictly a Dominicana thing, they all do it, especially those that work in the sex business. Just like they can ask, you can say no, ignore them or give them an excuse if you want. Bottom line is still the same,,,,,, don't take it personal, it really isn't about you, it is what they do, it is how they survive. It is what it is.
Some will give it to them, they won't know which ones will give it to them, until they ask.
My advice is not to be one that does it, but I am not foolish enough to think my words, will change someone's behaviour, especially when matched against the powerful pussy that some of these lovielies possess. Just know that the majority of those that you meet, will say the same thing to every other gringo that they meet. So the chicas are playing the percentages. If one out of every ten says yes, they are ahead of the game. .... And they know it!
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
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Originally Posted by
PapiQueRico
I've never had one ask! Of course it helps to not give out your contact information very much!!!!!!
same here:iconTU::iconTU::corky:
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
Life has taught me that in order to win (at anything) one must play by the rules. The #1 rule in this game that we play is "She who has the Pum-Pum makes the rules".
I am not a pathological liar but when a Chica presents her rules as inclusive of lying like a Dominican Perro at Noon on a hot & sunny day then how could I not follow suit?
"Aye, Papi I luuv you so muuucho, por fabor me uno Blackberry?"
"Si, Mami I luuv you so muuucho, uno Blackberry from de Stays for yoooo!" (gently guiding her head to ground Zero).
It's a form of foreplay, really.
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
Yes, sir. As I've always said about the chicas, "you wanna play the game? Let's play". Some guys think that attitude is a bit harsh, but if you don't stay on your toes with them they will eat you up. There are plenty of carcasses lying around to prove it.
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
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Originally Posted by
greydread
Life has taught me that in order to win (at anything) one must play by the rules. The #1 rule in this game that we play is "She who has the Pum-Pum makes the rules".
I am not a pathological liar but when a Chica presents her rules as inclusive of lying like a Dominican Perro at Noon on a hot & sunny day then how could I not follow suit?
"Aye, Papi I luuv you so muuucho, por fabor me uno Blackberry?"
"Si, Mami I luuv you so muuucho, uno Blackberry from de Stays for yoooo!" (gently guiding her head to ground Zero).
It's a form of foreplay, really.
And it works too!!!
Ever hear the story about the old guy that goes into a jewelry store with a hot young chick, and starts looking at big rocks.
She finally finds one she's crazy about. He asks her if that the one she wants, and she squeals "YES YES"
So the old guy pays for it with a check, and tells the clerk they'll be back to pick up the rock as soon as the check clears.
A few days later, the old guy gets a call from the clerk, who tells him the check bounced.
The old guys laughs and says "Do you think I care??????"
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I never refuse to send money. After the introduction, I take their cedula and write down all the info so as not to make any mistakes when I go to WU. Im the #1 Novio !!! :rofl: :rofl:
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Originally Posted by
vpchill
I never refuse to send money. After the introduction, I take their cedula and write down all the info so as not to make any mistakes when I go to WU. Im the #1 Novio !!! :rofl: :rofl:
April Fool's day is still a couple of days away :wink: :rofl:.
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
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Originally Posted by
MrHappy
Requesting money is nothing more than a "What the hell, the worst that can happen is they'll say no" attempt to get you to send money.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
For those of you that DO send money(and there are TONS of you), could you please pm me your email address? My mother just died again.
LOL - I have heard that many of times... I have told one "Why am I going to send you money to buy you a outfit or something, for the next Gringo to take off of you"....
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Originally Posted by
Jimmydr
I just ignore the request.
The true beauty of "keeping it simple."
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
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Originally Posted by
JDR
I was thinking and I was perplexed by a few topics so I am starting this one. In the past 10 years, I have hung up a few times when a request for money was brought up. When I arrived, I called and she came over, none the less.
classic.....
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Had many girls ask me for money from AC. I refused all of them. Some had some creative or maybe true stories. but I tell them I NEVER send money.
All are still friendly to me and still fuck me.
Only one girl ever asked me for money in DR. and she is probaby not going to fuck me and I could care less. She was playimhg the long game with me and when she realized I was not that guy, she asked for money and I ignored her. She even dropped me on her FB page.LOL
One girl from Negril asked me twice. First time i ignored her. Second time I told her I never do that. funny how she has not called in quite a few days!!! But I bet she will fuck me if i go back.
the girl is stupid if she will not still fuck you. OK, she took a chance and asked for cash and you refused. she should see you and pretend it never happened.
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Originally Posted by
Rubicon
Yes, sir. As I've always said about the chicas, "you wanna play the game? Let's play". Some guys think that attitude is a bit harsh, but if you don't stay on your toes with them they will eat you up. There are plenty of carcasses lying around to prove it.
LOL. Straight to the point.
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Originally Posted by
sporthobbyist
One girl from Negril asked me twice. First time i ignored her. Second time I told her I never do that. funny how she has not called in quite a few days!!! But I bet she will fuck me if i go back.
of course she will........lol
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
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Originally Posted by
greydread
Life has taught me that in order to win (at anything) one must play by the rules. The #1 rule in this game that we play is "She who has the Pum-Pum makes the rules".
I am not a pathological liar but when a Chica presents her rules as inclusive of lying like a Dominican Perro at Noon on a hot & sunny day then how could I not follow suit?
"Aye, Papi I luuv you so muuucho, por fabor me uno Blackberry?"
"Si, Mami I luuv you so muuucho, uno Blackberry from de Stays for yoooo!" (gently guiding her head to ground Zero).
It's a form of foreplay, really.
I've never done this and am thinking about going this way, since it is reciprocal so to speak .. did it ever land you in hot water later on?
Up till now I've always gone the no contact; no money; no regalos route and have been upfront about that too. But like Yayow said that is measuring oneself by N-A standards...
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Originally Posted by
continentalmike
I've never done this and am thinking about going this way, since it is reciprocal so to speak .. did it ever land you in hot water later on?
Up till now I've always gone the no contact; no money; no regalos route and have been upfront about that too. But like Yayow said that is measuring oneself by N-A standards...
That's the beauty of it. In order to remember our lies they'd have to remember their own.
It's a reset and a fresh start every trip.
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They understand that they are asking for what amounts to extreme generosity. Simply saying we do not have the type of relationship that would support me buying you a Blackberry will suffice. If you don't comply to their request regardless of how often they ask they will not expect compliance. That won't keep them from taking your money and breaking you off a piece. This is one good thing about these girls living in the here and now.
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
I had my first request for a phone this trip and of course it ended negatively in her favor.
A "friend" I've known for a few trips sought me out fairly quickly this trip and it became known early on that she did not have a phone. Her last one was apparently stolen shortly after the end of my last trip. Well, the conversation came up a few times throughout the trip and I just kept basically putting it off. One day on the beach, a fellow monger overheard the conversation and offered up an old piece of sh*t Alcatel he had from several trips previous that he no longer used. There was no quick acceptance on her part which was a none issue since the phone was back in his room.
Fast forward to a couple of mornings later when she and I awaken after a TLN. She asks me to go with her to the store around the corner with her to look at phones. I tell her I've got things to do, so no. She responds with she has found one she wants for 4000 pesos. I remind her that mi amigo has one she can have for free. Her eyes roll and tells me it has no internet. The conversation escalated to the point that I just shut down, opened the door, and said my final goodbye to her..........much to her displeasure.
Oh well.......I'm not sure about her, but life went on just fine for me. :corky:
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
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Originally Posted by
MrHappy
Requesting money is nothing more than a "What the hell, the worst that can happen is they'll say no" attempt to get you to send money.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
For those of you that DO send money(and there are TONS of you), could you please pm me your email address? My mother just died again.
I am very sorry for your loss....
Re: She hung up the phone on me!!!!!
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Originally Posted by
DRCowboy
I am very sorry for your loss....
The Man said "send money".
Have you no heart?