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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Another thing to remember: hardly any of the girls understand the concept of a tip.

    When all is said and done, they look at how much money they have in their hand. They don't think, "Wow, I did a great job, and he gave me a 500 peso tip!" Not by any stretch of the imagination.

    All they think is "I got some extra money to spend from this guy"

    The concept of a tip is foreign to more folks here than you'll ever understand.
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    Let me add clarity ,When I spoke with her she told me that guys give her 4000p TLN .I countered with 2500p.It was agreed that I will do ST.As she stared her shit I let her know that she fucked up the situation and that I don't tolerate a chica who is demanding ,dictating ,gaming.etc.. There is too too many who will do it for less. This happened early in the day while I was walking.She approached me .

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by moshy2k View Post
    To all new guys:

    This result is not typical. Many times a chica will refuse to leave or even try to damage stuff. Sometimes it is easy to get rid of them and sometimes you are faced with major drama when changing your mind.

    To make things less dramatic you might want to suggest running out to get a bit to eat and have her get dressed and come with you. Once you are outside you can tell her you changed your mind. You may still be faced with drama and a loud chica however, you outside of your apartment and can better resolve the situation (walking away or giving her 1k pesos to go away).

    Often times security does not make the situation go away as the security guard probably does not really want to get involved. And it is much better to resolve the sotuation without the police as you will probably be paying at least 1k pesos to the cops.
    I hope people pay careful attention this as I wish I knew this on my first trip to Sosua. If your going to break the deal or once your finished offering breakfast or using any method to give payment outside the room so you can walk away in the case of trouble is EXTREMELY important. Chicas think they can rob your shit or break stuff if they don't get their way which makes some people get violent then you have bigger problems.

    Using your brain to solve the problem can end up being far less costly. Plenty of scamming chicas around so you have be on guard.
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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by eastcoastallstar View Post
    That's true Seeka, some chicas are glad to make that 1000 pesos, but there are many chicas that get way above that anytime they are on the grind. I'm sure we have all met some serious money makers out there, that would laugh at your little 1000 pesos.

    I think 1500 ST is the going rate now, 2500-3000 Max TLN. If the newbies stay in that range they should be cool. What you want to give as a propina is up to you.
    Wow these are the prices now?? I think these are reasonable but I would think that from what other members are telling me, the price should be lower since there's a "gringo drought"
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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    I think a fool and his money are soon parted, this sounds kind of strange that grown men do not know how to do business,, when your buying a product do not start thinking the product is going to like you and give you a huge discount.
    The owner of that product is going to get as much as he or she possibly can, if that means playing on your ignorance or trying to upsale you that is what is going to happen.
    We all have chica friends who give us discount toto, but remember no one dose anything without motive,nothing in life is free

    These are not! i repeat not! inocent school girls tring to make a few bucks, these chicas know the game better than half of the men here and are daily exposed to the tallents of thier piers unlike us

    Trust in no one, never admit to anything,make counter acusations and never pay alot for somthing you can get cheeper
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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Beads View Post
    I hope people pay careful attention this as I wish I knew this on my first trip to Sosua. If your going to break the deal or once your finished offering breakfast or using any method to give payment outside the room so you can walk away in the case of trouble is EXTREMELY important. Chicas think they can rob your shit or break stuff if they don't get their way which makes some people get violent then you have bigger problems.

    Using your brain to solve the problem can end up being far less costly. Plenty of scamming chicas around so you have be on guard.
    I made a lot of mistakes as a newbie on my first trips in July and August, but one I did NOT make was paying the chica or doing final money transactions while the chica was alone in the hotel room with me. One of the few lessons of other mongers from which I benefitted most - from the little I had then already read in reports here - was that I should take the chica out of my room and to a place where I would have at least a modicum of control of the situation, and would not automatically set myself up for a he said-she said dispute. Before leaving the hotel room, I always got the cash I was going to pay the chica and put it into my pocket, and left my wallet and rest of my cash and other stuff back in the hotel room, then escorted the chica out of my room, locked the door, and either took the chica to my rental car if I was going to give her a ride somewhere, or outside in the general area of the hotel, or otherwise somewhere else, where there would be other third-party witnesses around, and preferably a few other gringos or hotel management people, rather than simply Dominican motoconcho guys, LOL, in case anything went awry and a chica was tempted to go crazy. Of course, I still had some problems, but no chica stole from me, broke anything of mine, or otherwise caused a scene after I paid her, and that was so even when I paid less because she had refused to perform as originally agreed. The worst problem I had was a chica wouldn't get out of my car right away. But she eventually did, and it was only a momentary delay.

    The wisdom here of Beads, moshy2K, bentwire et al. should be followed as best as possible by newbies. I appreciate their advice much more after my first set of trips this past summer.

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Those are in line for sure with a fair rate for today's prices.....

    Quote Originally Posted by eastcoastallstar View Post
    That's true Seeka, some chicas are glad to make that 1000 pesos, but there are many chicas that get way above that anytime they are on the grind. I'm sure we have all met some serious money makers out there, that would laugh at your little 1000 pesos.

    I think 1500 ST is the going rate now, 2500-3000 Max TLN. If the newbies stay in that range they should be cool. What you want to give as a propina is up to you.
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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    and at 35 to 1, it all evens out.
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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by eastcoastallstar View Post
    and at 35 to 1, it all evens out.
    Exactly.

    If mothafuckas are going to have big debates about $40 punani vs. $42.50 punani then I think they're spending too much time worrying about non punani related details. Enjoy your life and give thanks & praise!
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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by cainer View Post
    I probably should have asked this question before my trip but, oh well.

    This topic has also been debated a few times on here, and i am just curious what everyones thoughts are on it.

    Ill give the senerio and i'd like opinions from others( ISOC members)who found themselves in this identical same situation. How would you go about sealing the deal with the chica?

    You just arrived in town for a one week vacation. Your not really a regular to Sosua, but, this also isnt your first time there. Your looking to hook up with a pretty chica. You are looking for possibly what others might consider a few kinky fetishes with this girl, but, nothing really weird.

    Anyways, u find one that strikes your fancy and you chat with her and get to know her. Your spanish isnt that good(we all must have been in this category at one time or another) and her english isnt the greatest, so u make do with what u got) You buy her a beer and an hour later you decide she is the one. What do you do next? You just want her for a couple of hours.

    Ill answer first. For me, since ive had some bad experiences from expectations of the chicas in the past, I have now been basically telling them what i want in advance. I do this, in order to try to make sure i get what i want. Example,,BBBJ, fucking, dancing, photos(but not important, thats more for you guys),kissing, and of course, cumming on their faces.

    After informing them of what i want to do with them, i then Always discuss a price, If they actually agreed to my serxual terms. Ill usually ask them first, on how much money they want and of course they will say some ridiculous number like 2500 or 2 mil. I then just shake my head and say demasiado or to much, if they speak a bit of english. I wont make a counter offer to the chica immediately and i'll make then wait.

    If they walk so beit, but, normally they will ask me how much i want to pay. Thats when i say 1500(it used to be 1000) Sometimes they say no and i just politely ask them to leave and some of them will say yes to my price of 1500.

    Just wondering how other mongers go about sealing the deal with a chica in this exact same senerio i referred to. Thanks
    I'd say you did just fine.

    I might not offer a drink right away, or at all, but maybe after 10-15 minutes or so if you are still interested. No sense buying all the applicants drinks.

    For chicas from Clasico's or other hardcore venues I'd also offer less than 1500, as that's the most I want to pay,and if 1000 is too low then 1200. To give myself some room to negotiate but I don't negotiate back and forth too much. Someone names a price, usually the chica, I counter with my low figure, she counter offers and that's usually it. If not then I make one more offer, take it or leave it and walk away if denied. Too much talk about money is not a good thing for the mood.

    These 2 things will save you a ton of money and make the rejects easier to get rid of.

    Most chicas I'm with tend to be the quiet type, mellow and not aggressive. I generally don't bring up the subject of money and am prepared to pay the going rate, say 2000 one time. If we repeat, and I like to if it's good (If you like "new all the time" skip this part ), then it's 1000 for the night or maybe 1500 of we also spent the day together and she fucked me silly a few times. Some days I'll give nothing, others 500 "for the salon", just to keep her off balance. I've done this many times and have not had any issues or unhappy chicas so it works for me but..."use at your own risk"

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    I negotiate upfront with all except long time regulars. That way I avoid surprises and having conversations I don't want to have. I've also embraced something Dread said a couple of weeks ago, "Buy a couple of hours and just see how it goes". Some of my more disappointing experiences have been when I tried to lay out the event before hand. Most of my best have been ST where the only thing discussed was price. Many of these have led to long term regular arrangements. For some reason bonding seems to flourish more so in the afternoon or early evening than it does during a TLN session.

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    holy dog shit!!! I have never given a chica more than 2000 for an all nighter, many times all they got was a 1000-1500, these days I don't really care to wake up next to them so I stick to the 1000-1500 range, I'll be there in feb so I'll see if my #'s still fly

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by David Smash View Post
    Wow these are the prices now?? I think these are reasonable but I would think that from what other members are telling me, the price should be lower since there's a "gringo drought"
    Last week there was no difficulty finding good chicas for $rd1000 st, and $rd 1500-2000 tln..

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    Quote Originally Posted by elsucio View Post
    Last week there was no difficulty finding good chicas for $rd1000 st, and $rd 1500-2000 tln..
    There's no reason that this price change and that you move from it unless you met a real stunner.

    When I say a stunner I mean a real stunner (9-10 without hardcorness)

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    When I'm in Classicos I never let anyone see who I really have an interest in. Like the poker game I size all the possiblities and make my choice on how we "connect" ie.,chemistry. Any chica who "pushes" at me is kicked to the curb!I had one time three chicas standing in front of me .One innocently turned around ,look in my eyes and smiled Naturally.Yes I had a winner!!Hardcore putas never pass this test.I'll except all shades but What I look for is the same as
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cman View Post
    I had one time three chicas standing in front of me .One innocently turned around ,look in my eyes and smiled Naturally.Yes I had a winner!!Hardcore putas never pass this test.I'll except all shades but What I look for is the same as
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    It's not that the chica wasn't hardcore, but that she had the best game in the building. We need to stop thinking that "WE" are better at this than they are. They live the life we vacation in. Their families have lived the life we vacation in.

    There is nothing you or any of us can learn that would ever put any of us on their level.

    What you found that night and many other nights is a chica who best delivered the fantasy that you craved for the evening. No more, no less.
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    Quote Originally Posted by eastcoastallstar View Post
    and at 35 to 1, it all evens out.

    Good point Haven't been to DR in a minute. Last time I was there it was 28:1

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    I always neg. after its all said and done.....rarely do i neg upfront. If Im getting the okie doke vibe from said chica then i may throw a number out there (TLN 2000) and watch her reaction and see what she says.

    but on more than one occaision a chica tried to get buck at my offer so i walked off laughing then they grab me with the " ok ok ok papi what ever u liiiike"

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Negotiating and agreeing price & time in advance is a must each first time you pick up a hooker.

    Otherwise, it’d be like jumping in a taxi with no meter without agreeing a rate for the ride upfront: you’d be exposed to whatever the taxi driver wants to charge you on arrival.

    If the hooker is good and you repeat, there is an unwritten rule that she will charge you at most what she did the firt time, so there’s no need to negotiate with repeats unless you are after a regular client discount and want to bring her rate down.

    Just MHO.

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by Gladiator View Post
    Negotiating and agreeing price & time in advance is a must each first time you pick up a hooker.

    Otherwise, it’d be like jumping in a taxi with no meter without agreeing a rate for the ride upfront: you’d be exposed to whatever the taxi driver wants to charge you on arrival.

    If the hooker is good and you repeat, there is an unwritten rule that she will charge you at most what she did the firt time, so there’s no need to negotiate with repeats unless you are after a regular client discount and want to bring her rate down.

    Just MHO.
    Sometimes they try to charge you more after the 1st time because you were a cheap fuck that night.

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