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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by krafty1 View Post
    I'm going to spend $500+ dollars to fly down there and another $300 for a room. I am not going down to try get a kick out of saving $10, it's not worth the hassle.
    Be glad its worth it to so many.

    Frugal guys serve several purposes.

    They're a vital part of the chain for point-n-click monger destinations.

    First of all, the fact they'd take the less attractive chica over a $13 difference means the hotter one stays on the market longer. If all the dimes were snatched up quick, it would leave only the fuglies roaming around.

    Secondly, frugal guys help keep prices in check. If everyone was willing to pay 3500 TLN, the fuglies would insist on 2500 TLN. They know they're not as hot, but they think they're hotter than they are and wouldn't price themselves too much below what the hot ones are getting.

    Without enough frugal guys to keep the balance, what you basically get is what (purportedly) happened to Costa Rica as a monger destination. That was before my time, but plenty of guys here can give you more details on that.
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    Re: Don't be so sure!

    Quote Originally Posted by jd426 View Post
    I guess, Not salivating is a trained skill ? In sosua I can walk right past a 9,acknowledge her, but do not get weak in the knees or they know they got you. They are ALL available in Sosua, its only a matter of schedualing them in. At my age I only have so many pops in me.
    As far as the culo, i like them once in a while too, but I was referring to the guys who just seek the grande culo, and walk right past 3 hotties literally with blinders on. Maybe its their first night in town, who knows.
    But I think thats ALL they look for, better for me I guess.

    As to the original topic, Except for the prepaid 2500 peso Passions Chica, I didnt discuss price at ALL, with a SINGLE chica this trip, and it was all good (except the "NON puta", story & pics to follow, lol )
    One pool chica did hit me up for 500 pesos more, but she was worth evey penny of it and some regalos too. And she ASKED for it,with a KISS, she didnt demand it.
    Seems if they see you regulartly, they dont even dare try any drama with the price. Everyone knows Its just a game... I am now also discreetly putting the pesos under their cell phone while they are getting changed. They seem to prefer that.
    I will believe that when I see it!!

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by chicmatic View Post
    I don't negotiate prices with chicas I "know" or chicas that "know" me...

    new ones, I do in advance...
    I certainly changed this one up

    I paid what I believed to be the going price or stated a price I was willing to pay. To every rule there are exceptions but, for the most part, this is the direction I took. For a 1st or 2nd timer, I'd still recommend negotiating up front.
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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Yet another recommendation................

    I/you should not give a damn how "fine" they are. I would not give a fuck if they they were a stone cold 12 on a 10 scale. She is selling pussy. Don't give a shit if she is a college student, has a job, wife or single mother. My price is $__________. (And it will be reasonable) That takes the "I'm pretty give me more money." factor out of the equation and help lower the prices for all the chicas.

    Every girl on the strip has a pussy. What makes hers so great? Her face? Your not fucking her face. Well on second thought..............OK, you know what I mean. (Photos are coming.)

    I am the man with the money and although she might think her pussy is the sweetest thing on earth, my price limit is my price limit. Here is what I will pay. I have that power. That power is called MONEY.

    The chica has the power of PUSSY. She also has the power to say "Yes" or "No". "No" if the price is not right and "no" if...........she don't want to fuck you. Not fuck anybody, but not fuck...Y.O.U. (Look in the mirror if you have to.)

    Accept the price quoted?,...yes!....then great!!!. If not then I will walk away and find a chica that will. When, where & in which manner you present your offer is up to you. Use some tact & common sense but this is what this truly is,.....Buying/Renting Pussy! Leave your ego out of the process. I will add charm & personality & spanish if really required but I am damn sure that seeing a guaranteed $1000-$1500 PESO ST gig walk away is understood in any language.

    If you can pull stunners without negotiating upfront, (and get great service without any problems) then you can. You Da Man! Mucho props to those with the gift but that conversation is truly one that only two adults should know about. Who is going to call you on that? How & Why? I am damn sure she is not going to advertise to the world that she did you for $9.95.

    Communicating (anyway you can) your specific intentions, wants & desires upfront & it will lead to a lowered risk/chance of incidents of chica upcharging/extortion/crying wolf/cops/chulo's.

    All of the above can still happen,...........even if you got an agreement upfront but on the most part you will find those incidents occur in small percentages as most of the girls are trying to make some money the old fashioned way without getting so many people involved buy using their sexy ass, (correction) assets.
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    Re: Don't be so sure!

    Quote Originally Posted by Maretti View Post
    Come on JD, a woman who doesn't know she's hot? She might be stupid, if she doesn't notice us salivating when she's close by. Hot women, p4p or not, they're mostly the same.
    This is interesting. She didn't know she was hot until she came to Sosua and the fellows started treating her like she was hot. Until then she may have been the less than attractive sister in a family of superstars or a barrio cinderella with no real concept of her beauty. I once dated a women from another Caribbean island who was beyond cute in my mind. She explained to me when it came to beauty on her island she was in the middle of the pack. She felt at best if she had not migrated to the states she would have landed a soldier or policeman. It was a little hard for me to except, but made a lot of sense. We Americans tend to glorify pretty people and treat them differently; however in a country where the prevailing level of beauty is much higher a person who would be considered extremely attractive here would just be less attractive there. Many of the girls that visit Sosua who are considered 7-8 by tourist would only be a 6 in her home town. She typically arrives in Sosua understanding this and then suffers ego inflation due to all the attention she gets. I've seen many a barrio "regular" girl reinvent herself as a queen in Sosua.

    Now here's a question, is the scale you use for rating women the same for NA women as it is for Dominicanas? For me I think its about 1 level lower for Dominicanas than it is for Americanas. In other words a Dominican 6 would be an American 7. Kind of like woman's clothing. Sizes here are bigger as in a 4 on the island is a 2 here. That's done so NA women can believe they are smaller than what they actually are. I've read that this trend is now happening in mens clothing with 38 inch waist pants being marketed as 36 inches. Okay back to the question at hand. Do you rate women the same here as you do on the island?

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    Re: Don't be so sure!

    Quote Originally Posted by The Sage View Post
    suffers ego inflation due to all the attention she gets. I've seen many a barrio "regular" girl reinvent herself as a queen in Sosua.
    It's understandable. It's hard to not think you're hotter than you are when you suddenly have all these men throwing money at you to sleep with you. Just look at how many guys admittedly take home 5's and 6's. The chicas think its cuz they really look good, not because a hotter chica refused the same guy's 1500TLN offer 10 minutes ago.

    Quote Originally Posted by The Sage View Post
    For me I think its about 1 level lower for Dominicanas than it is for Americanas. In other words a Dominican 6 would be an American 7. Do you rate women the same here as you do on the island?
    I don't know about numbers but i like 'em young and cute and the same type catches my eye both in the states and in the DR. If i wouldn't fuck you back home, i'm certainly not paying to fuck you in DR.

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    Re: Don't be so sure!

    Quote Originally Posted by JuanElGriego View Post
    If i wouldn't fuck you back home, i'm certainly not paying to fuck you in DR.


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    Re: Don't be so sure!

    Quote Originally Posted by JuanElGriego View Post
    It's understandable. It's hard to not think you're hotter than you are when you suddenly have all these men throwing money at you to sleep with you. Just look at how many guys admittedly take home 5's and 6's. The chicas think its cuz they really look good, not because a hotter chica refused the same guy's 1500TLN offer 10 minutes ago.



    I don't know about numbers but i like 'em young and cute and the same type catches my eye both in the states and in the DR. If i wouldn't fuck you back home, i'm certainly not paying to fuck you in DR.
    Yes, but sure that the contrary is true. There's a lot that you would'nt fuck in DR and that you would fuck in the states because you have not the same amount of easy girls.

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    Re: Don't be so sure!

    Quote Originally Posted by tomgueguen View Post
    Yes, but sure that the contrary is true. There's a lot that you would'nt fuck in DR and that you would fuck in the states because you have not the same amount of easy girls.
    Actually no. I'm even pickier back home. Since you have to go thru some song-n-dance back home before getting in the panties (unless she's a total skeezer), i don't bother playing the game unless she's hot. If i'm going thru dinner/drinks/nightclub/why-didn't-u-call-me/u-don't-really-like-me nonsense, i can only justify it with a chick especially easy on the eyes.

    Who knows, maybe when i'll get older i'll have less options and be less demanding, but for now i'm good to go.

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by curiousdude View Post
    I made a lot of mistakes as a newbie on my first trips in July and August, but one I did NOT make was paying the chica or doing final money transactions while the chica was alone in the hotel room with me. One of the few lessons of other mongers from which I benefitted most - from the little I had then already read in reports here - was that I should take the chica out of my room and to a place where I would have at least a modicum of control of the situation, and would not automatically set myself up for a he said-she said dispute. Before leaving the hotel room, I always got the cash I was going to pay the chica and put it into my pocket, and left my wallet and rest of my cash and other stuff back in the hotel room, then escorted the chica out of my room, locked the door, and either took the chica to my rental car if I was going to give her a ride somewhere, or outside in the general area of the hotel, or otherwise somewhere else, where there would be other third-party witnesses around, and preferably a few other gringos or hotel management people, rather than simply Dominican motoconcho guys, LOL, in case anything went awry and a chica was tempted to go crazy. Of course, I still had some problems, but no chica stole from me, broke anything of mine, or otherwise caused a scene after I paid her, and that was so even when I paid less because she had refused to perform as originally agreed. The worst problem I had was a chica wouldn't get out of my car right away. But she eventually did, and it was only a momentary delay.

    The wisdom here of Beads, moshy2K, bentwire et al. should be followed as best as possible by newbies. I appreciate their advice much more after my first set of trips this past summer.

    Guys, i am a newbie thinking about going to DR or CR in June. i have been doing my mongering in asia for the past few years. i have to say what i've been reading about some of the drama that can go on with these chicas makes me question is it worth it? i've never encounter any problems with chicas in thailand or pi where i usually go, on the contrary for the most part they were trustworthy and definitely sweet, especially once they were alone with you. as far as negotiating in ac you just just tell them what you want and if they'll do it, pay the bar fine which is already set by the bars between 1300-1500 pesos, model types 1800-4000. thailand is the same as far as pricing. there's no negotiating price, and though it rarely happens, if the chicas in ac didn't perform as promised you can go back to the bar and complain to the mamasan. you don't need to bring your game, although i truly want to experience latino chicas, i don't want to go anywhere where i need my game, i get enough of that and drama in the states. as much as i would like to check DR or CR, after reading some of these post i'm having second thoughts. if i do go to either i think the mps or strip clubs might be it for me. i don't know what do you guys think???

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by planeman2010 View Post
    Guys, i am a newbie thinking about going to DR or CR in June. i have been doing my mongering in asia for the past few years. i have to say what i've been reading about some of the drama that can go on with these chicas makes me question is it worth it? i've never encounter any problems with chicas in thailand or pi where i usually go, on the contrary for the most part they were trustworthy and definitely sweet,

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Latin girls are more prone to trouble than SEA girls, that is a fact.

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by Gladiator View Post
    Latin girls are more prone to trouble than SEA girls, that is a fact.

    Some guys are more prone to trouble than other guys.

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by Jimmydr View Post
    Some guys are more prone to trouble than other guys.
    and Why is that ?? I wonder what cues these chicas are looking for , and do they Mis- read them sometimes ?
    I was absolutely SHOCKED when Xmendave reported he had a chica try shit on him. That floored me. What sign of weakness could she possibly have been reading ?? .. He could have pulverized her and she tried to talk shit, demanded more money, like shes going to do something ?
    It fascinates me to no end.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jd426 View Post
    and Why is that ?? I wonder what cues these chicas are looking for , and do they Mis- read them sometimes ?

    Yes they mis read it very often.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gladiator View Post
    Latin girls are more prone to trouble than SEA girls, that is a fact.
    Don't I know that my last girl for 6 years was latina

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gladiator View Post
    Latin girls are more prone to trouble than SEA girls, that is a fact.

    They are emotional and "ALIVE" which is what some of us love about them.

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl (A newbi must read)

    Quote Originally Posted by Gladiator View Post
    Latin girls are more prone to trouble than SEA girls, that is a fact.
    I agree that you are more likely to encounter after-the-fact price arguments in the DR or CR than in Thailand or the Philippines. But I wouldn't necessarily say that it is racial or cultural. Perhaps it is due to the fact that bar fines are more prominent than in SEA, as well as the fact that the girls are more likely to work for the bar.

    I would say a streetwalker in Bangkok is more likely to cause such problems than a Passions girl in Sosua. The price is already set!

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by planeman2010 View Post
    Guys, i am a newbie thinking about going to DR or CR in June. i have been doing my mongering in asia for the past few years. i have to say what i've been reading about some of the drama that can go on with these chicas makes me question is it worth it? i've never encounter any problems with chicas in thailand or pi where i usually go, on the contrary for the most part they were trustworthy and definitely sweet, especially once they were alone with you. as far as negotiating in ac you just just tell them what you want and if they'll do it, pay the bar fine which is already set by the bars between 1300-1500 pesos, model types 1800-4000. thailand is the same as far as pricing. there's no negotiating price, and though it rarely happens, if the chicas in ac didn't perform as promised you can go back to the bar and complain to the mamasan. you don't need to bring your game, although i truly want to experience latino chicas, i don't want to go anywhere where i need my game, i get enough of that and drama in the states. as much as i would like to check DR or CR, after reading some of these post i'm having second thoughts. if i do go to either i think the mps or strip clubs might be it for me. i don't know what do you guys think???
    It really depends what your looking for. I just hang out and if i see a chica that i like, i watch her a bit. Is she having fun, or standing there with a frown on her face? then i call her over and hang out with her for a few minutes, if she passes the first few minutes i ask her if she wants a drink. At this point ive pretty much chosen her and its her job to lose. I wont ask her to stay over until im sure i want her to. If she asks how much right away, i make her tell me how much she wants for all night. If she quotes me a ridiculous price i walk away and im done with her. i used to never negociate before hand but it is necessary these days. I used to go a whole vacation without being asked once how much i was going to pay, and never had a problem in the morning when i handed over 1500 or 2000 pesos.

    If your just going to grab a girl, bring her back to your room and bang her you don't know what you are getting. way to many stories of screaming girls throwing shit and busting up guys belongings because they want $200 for 15 minutes work. It pays to screen your prospect, if you never do it, its a given you will have a few problems over the course of your stay. DON'T tell any chica its your first time in the DR because they will likely try something. It's not really your game you need to bring, you need to know how to act like your the man and she is the woman. Thats the way her culture is so thats what she will understand. Tell dont ask and don't act like a deer in the headlights and you will be fine. you've mongered before so you should be able to handle it. And don't get in any trouble or fight with a Dominican, ever. You have to stand up for your self without fighting in this place, If i have any trouble i just stand my ground and don't get aggressive. It might sound like a lot but it is really all in the way you carry yourself.

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    Re: Do you negotiate price before or after time with the girl

    Quote Originally Posted by swiggy View Post
    It really depends what your looking for. I just hang out and if i see a chica that i like, i watch her a bit. Is she having fun, or standing there with a frown on her face? then i call her over and hang out with her for a few minutes, if she passes the first few minutes i ask her if she wants a drink. At this point ive pretty much chosen her and its her job to lose. I wont ask her to stay over until im sure i want her to. If she asks how much right away, i make her tell me how much she wants for all night. If she quotes me a ridiculous price i walk away and im done with her. i used to never negociate before hand but it is necessary these days. I used to go a whole vacation without being asked once how much i was going to pay, and never had a problem in the morning when i handed over 1500 or 2000 pesos.

    If your just going to grab a girl, bring her back to your room and bang her you don't know what you are getting. way to many stories of screaming girls throwing shit and busting up guys belongings because they want $200 for 15 minutes work. It pays to screen your prospect, if you never do it, its a given you will have a few problems over the course of your stay. DON'T tell any chica its your first time in the DR because they will likely try something. It's not really your game you need to bring, you need to know how to act like your the man and she is the woman. Thats the way her culture is so thats what she will understand. Tell dont ask and don't act like a deer in the headlights and you will be fine. you've mongered before so you should be able to handle it. And don't get in any trouble or fight with a Dominican, ever. You have to stand up for your self without fighting in this place, If i have any trouble i just stand my ground and don't get aggressive. It might sound like a lot but it is really all in the way you carry yourself.
    Good post I agree completely, although I am somewhat of softy on price as I'll give a fine looking chica with a fun carefree attitude who I believe will give great service closer to 2-3k for TLN

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