I find it weird when guys call hookers "novia". . . . .but that is just me.
10 years ago I wifed up with 1 chica for 6 days. My first night in town I was with another, then the second to 7th nights I was with the same chica. She was not "hot". . .. more like average. She was however great in the sack and cool to hang out with. I had been with her once or twice on previous trips and she offered to stay with me all week for free IF I was only with her.
I said no thanks I will just pay you. I was not planning on staying with her all trip. Basically each day she wore me out and I would feel too drained to even think about looking for a girl. My buddy and I would go out dancing with his non pro novia and this girl. Each night we would wind up back at my hotel.
She was cool, and again great in the sack, but I did not have any feelings whatsoever for her. Would not bother me at all to see her with other dudes. It would mean she was making money. The next trip down I vowed to not go with her as I didn't want to be "wifed up" again.
She wound up going to holland for a year or so to work there. Never saw her again and her amigas said she had saved up money, bought a little casa and got a "real" job.
In fact I knew she had a few bucks stashed away as she offered me 10k to marry her. . . . . .lol. . .. . uhm. . . .NO!!!!!
Last trip I was in CR I stayed the whole trip with only one girl (a Nica), recently I saw her picture in ISG and I didn't care. Why should I? She has to make a living and if I remember well, I found her when I went to a hookers' bar looking for a hooker!
As I said before, most of my trips I wife-up and (always) later I ask myself "why?". I don't have an answer but I'm sure that love has nothing to do with it. No sir, I'm quite happy being unattached!
When I traveled frequently to CR, I enjoyed would spend a lot of time with one from my circle of p4p favoritas. Road trips, dining out, dancing and bar-hopping were the norm. I stayed in touch with them inbetween trips, but in the back of my mind, I always realized this was about business. They understood that I would treat them well when in San Jose, and not to bother me with silly RFMs. I always had a good time and developed a friendship of sorts with the girls. I think many guys like to jump on the term "novia", but that's a far stretch when "dating" hookers.
Blue Devil
I read the entire thread and there were many positions about the subject. As a newbie, it seems it's a matter of taste. If a chica is fulfilling me emotionally, sexually and intellectually, I would probably want to have her stay close and would be satisfied with only her. But, if I am not being fulfilled by anyone chicas, which is usually the case, I'd going to tap every beautiful chica I can find.
As a real monger, I think it is fair to say, that you've got to always be open to the ONE in order to enjoy the MANY.
The title of this thread is misleading. No woman you met through the P4P scene is your "novia." Not even under the most liberal definition of the term. Would you call a hooker you pick up in the states your girlfriend?
I think not. At least I hope not.
I'm far too lazy to read the whole thread so apologies if this has been brought up already, but i have no problem with developing a relationship with a p4p, but I'll never make it exclusive nor send WU.
I like to call them noviamigas, they like that term as well.
Ironman, for some people that's the closer they'll ever get to the "real thing", so they hold into "the hope" with tooth and nail.
I wonder how many of us keep in touch (phone calls, text messages) with the guys who cut our grass and change our cars oil? I bet that it would be in a "I need your service" base only. Why does it have to be different with the putas?
Personally, to keep in touch with any woman I can't reach in less than an hour in my car, it's a waste of time.
Putamiga is not bad as well...
Naw, "amignovia" sounds better. Or 'Great cocksucker'
If you think it's love try not paying in the morning..
"Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many."
I've heard "Amiga Especial" spoken a lot.
Back to the wifing up thing, though...
I had a girl that I met through a mutual friend. (She was friends with the girl that my buddy was seeing)
We had a thing for about a year and I gave her money when I was there and sent her WU too.
Not to put too fine of a point on it, but I spent considerably less than I would have, had I picked up a Sosua chica every day and night.
Ultimately, she was not the right girl to have a permanent relationship with, and I always knew that.
But... we had a great time. (at least I did) And... she must have gotten what she wanted out of it, as well.
I had no illusions of her not having a Dominican Boyfriend when I was there.
I will admit to trying not to think of it, though.
Anyway... I enjoyed spending time with her, both in bed and out, knowing more of her than any chica I might have picked up at Classicos or wherever else.
When it seemed like a good idea... I cut her loose and moved on.
I'm not a big gambler, and when I find someone that I enjoy spending time with, I do not automatically discard them in favor of someone I have no idea about.
I figure that you get a really good experience less than 10% of the time, so leaving a 10 percenter for the next girl is statistically a bad idea, given that you don't need numbers to make you happy.
I don't.
My 2 cents.
no i don't want to wife up however i would like to go to a all inclusive resort for a day or two then when i get back do all her fiends too.
I speak Spanish but I'm rusty don't use it much right now. so were would the best place to pick up a chica for a road trip and what should i pay.
Interview a bunch of hookers in the US, and they will tell you many of their customers are looking for company, attention, affection even more than sex.
I agree it is all about fantasy. One guys fantasy is to live out a rock star life style with tones of different chicks, while another guy's fantasy is to have a hot 20 year old novia.
Whatever floats their boat.
So. .. .. you are saying you got more out of the "relationship" than what you paid into it? I say. . . .all good.
You do realize if you were a newbie we didn't know you would be getting ripped apart right now for sending WU. I see you as proof that it should not matter how any of us spend our money or time. You had fun, she had fun. . .I don't remember you ever complaining. . .so what is the big deal?
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