As Usual DC, U are 100% spot on accurate.
Dc is a man who speaks from years of personal experience, you young guys might want to take some notes here... This info is worth its weight in gold.. or diamonds in the rough as DC put it.
Im having this exact dilema right now with a Smoking cutie I met online .
She is studying English and doing really well, lives with her sister at her aunts in Santiago. Even has relatives HERE in NYC .She is no puta. At 19 she has got her act together & a Career planned in the Hospitality industry, ie Hotel Management. . She just wants a nice Gringo to chat with (practice English) , and maybe get lucky and get married. She has NO kids, and has been more than happy to email me pics of her in her various bikinis to prove it. (they are so shy, LOL)
We have spoken an Cammed well over 20 hours,so im doing this long enough to know shes the real thing & no puta. Never asked me for a thing ,except my time & a promise that I come to visit her.
BUT, She wont come to Sosau, because she does not need the stigma following her, Cabarete yes. Puerto plata yes, even Playa Sosua for the day like on a Sunday yes, but staying overnight in a Hotel in middle of Sosua with me, not gonna happen.
She would not even ask her Aunt, as she tells me ,cause all hell would break loose.
So, Dilema.
I guess I go to Santiago, and see where it leads to. They are out there, it may take screening out 200 of them, but the diamonds are out there.
This mongering Gringo here may have just met his undoing.
Sosua is for Sunday family beach outings...and for Semana Santa weekend.
I am all for getting out and about, just be mindful of your surroundings. I prefer to hang out with the locals when I travel overseas. Lord knows I have put myself in some potentially bad situations by being places I probably shouldn't have been. Just make sure if you do get off the beaten path into some of the villages that you employ good personal security measures.
I agree that Sosua is a place to which nice girls don't come (er cum). But isn't that why we go? This is a monger board not a lonely hearts club. I don't want to find a relationship when I go to Sosua. What I want is to find fun. Sex fun. And sex fun, maybe sadly, and a relationship don't mix well. At least that's my North American experience.
So I purposefully don't haunt the dominicancupids of the world (except to look at the pictures) because that's not what I want. And it would be unfair to the girls who advertise there to pretend anything different.
I met a guy from Chicago came to Sosua looking for wife.
You guys don't want to hear the story.
I was sitting @ Merengue's having a beer with a German chic I had just met when guy comes out of nowhere and asks to sit down. I ask him you from Chicago? He says how do you know? Just a gift I guess. He says I came down here to meet a girl I met online for marriage ; your not going to believe what happened to me. I am thinking to myself I think I have heard everything before but got nothing better to do so go ahead. He says flew into POP family meets him at airport he gets stuck with cabfare to and from airport. He takes FAMILY not an escort out to dinner they order everything expensive on menu then order take out each one and there is like a dozen of them. After dinner he takes them to the movies and more of the same. He says they even came to his Hotel at night and first thing in the morning to have him take them for something to eat. This went on for days. I never found out why he ended the relationship with his future bride or if he got laid which I am sure he didn't. He kept going on and on only thing I told him is go to Medellin or Cali I am thinking to myself I hope you have some money left. I still don't think he had a clue where he was.Then I told him if you do meet a girl in Colombia don't expect to sleep with her on first date , he says why not I will come back? I say too many people have used that line. lol
I just don't think Sosua is a location for Mail Order Brides. LMFAO
I know where you are coming from but be careful. Mention you know a Dominicana that is not a puta and everyone will laugh at you; because they never leave Sosua. Just leaves more for me I have two potential novias and I am quite happy with both. Invest a little time and it really is like picking low hanging fruit. I am old, ugly and speak terrible Spanish but don't seem to have any problem. And I certainly prefer them to Sosua putas ( not that there's anything wrong with Sosua putas). I posted a photo of my novias before and you can clearly tell the difference between them and the putas.
Yes, Sosua is guilt by association for most of these girls. The more devious ones get around this by simply telling the mama, papa, tia or abuela she's going to visit friends in POP. And, don't kid yourself, if the family is going to let her stay out all night away from home you're not talking to no angel.
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