So Far, So Bad: Santo Domingo Disappointment

[joefriday60]

I have mongered in - who knows? - 30 or 40 countries, but I am relatively new to Latin America in general and the DR in particular. My Spanish is poor. I speak French fluently, so can read Spanish without much difficulty, and I can understand a lot if the music isn't too loud, but I can't speak for shit. Still, I have been around the block a few times and have a few points of comparison. I came to the DR for the first time about a month ago on business, not even knowing it was such a well-known sex tourism destination, and I am here now on my second trip, also business. In Santo Domingo only. I am not impressed. So some advice, please, from all of you who know this place well: am I frequenting the wrong places? Is it the language barrier? What?

On my first trip I stayed at the Hotel Embajador. Went to the casino, played some cards, saw some nice-looking girls, so decided to take one up to my room. We agreed on $80 US. Nice-looking girl, but she wouldn't kiss, wouldn't suck, and couldn't get her clothes back on fast enough once we had finished. I am not crass or boorish, I treat women well and with respect, and usually have a few laughs and overall fun with the girls as well as the sex. Usually pretty nice for all concerned, but definitely not this time.

Well, you can always find a lemon in the middle of a mango orchard no matter what, so I figured this was just the luck of the draw. This time, having read some of the threads, and since I am staying at the Intercontinental, I went to the nearby street that has 3 or 4 bars on it, including Satin Dolls, which is where I went. Tuesday night, so the girls outnumbered the guys 5:1. Sat with a very cute girl who had the kind of saucy attitude I like. Dickered over the price a bit, but agreed on 2,500 pesos short time . I know, I know, but without the language skills you often pay a bit over the odds. Pretty much the same story as before. A little kissing but without enthusiasm, wouldn't suck me except with a condom - What Fun! - and seriously did not know how to fuck. I lost interest, cuddled with her a bit to show there were no hard feelings, then sent her on her way.

Forget about comparing this experience with Thailand or Indonesia. Forget about comparing it with Mongolia or Senegal or South Africa or even Egypt, where I have had some mind-blowing encounters. It pales in comparison to so many any other places I will go back to any chance I get.

I did meet a 40-ish woman online (Adult Friendfinder) before I came down here the second time, and we met for drinks and what little Spanish conversation I could muster. I invited her to see the sea view from my balcony and one thing led to another, and though she wouldn't fuck me (first meeting, she having her period or so I understood), she gave me a very nice BBBJ. Only trouble is, she now wants to invite me over to meet her Mami and daughters, which is just a bit too fast for me.

Anyway, I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, and I am not a repulsive toad (I would say that, of course, but really I'm not), but if there is a key to paradise here I have not found it, or at least don't know how to use it properly. I would welcome all sincere and informed counsel.

[weyland]

DR's main attraction is it is a cheap(ish) trip from North America. For a guy like yourself who can travel all over the world and is not on a tight budget it might not stack up against other countries. (Have you mongered in Russia, by the way?).

You seem to be doing everything right. I am sure if you hooked up with some of our more experienced members who like Santo Domingo they could show you a better time, but it might still fall short of other countries you know.

[harlem hec]

I have mongered in - who knows? - 30 or 40 countries

And none in latin america...GOD DAMN

[gdogg]

Also it's a red flag if a chica is negotiating in U.S. dollars. She's probably hard core, which can lead to unenthusiastic performance and potential drama. And pay chicas in pesos.

[eastcoastallstar]

Hit up GreyDread I'm positive he can suggest some sure shot places to go.

[gdogg]

Is Koki still down there? He was having a blast, last I read.

[Bhutto,BhuttoGolly]

Mongolia??? Seriously? Wow! What's fermented mare's milk like? LOL

[TONYTNT40]

Anyway, I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, and I am not a repulsive toad (I would say that, of course, but really I'm not), but if there is a key to paradise here I have not found it, or at least don't know how to use it properly. I would welcome all sincere and informed counsel.

Welcome to the board. For me Santo Domingo is a gold mine of pussy. IMHO they have the best looking chicas in the DR, and they are horny, 2nd best gfe after Brazil. And forget about BBJ, most of my chicas swallow.You are right there is a key to paradise. Unlike Rio, Thailand and Sosua, you just cant walk down the street asking how much. The traditional ways of mongering really doesnt apply to SD. Yes they have their casa's, but as you experienced, most will be hard core. You are on the right track, that chica you met on Adult FF is a good start, just tell her, you are not ready for anything serious right now, and recruit more, so the next time you come you can have a harem. I would also try, Bar 305 and La Coppa.

[Si_Poppi]

Someone who has mongered in 30 or 40 countries should know better how to pick them.
Point-and-click is a crap shoot in any country.
It takes a lot of kissing and fondling for a chica to hook me.

[greydread]

Someone who has mongered in 30 or 40 countries should know better how to pick them.
Point-and-click is a crap shoot in any country.
It takes a lot of kissing and fondling for a chica to hook me.

Yuup.

Just like golf.

It's all about how she addresses the club.

[fishhunter]

Wow if it was that hard to find pussy there it makes me want to go so I can improve on my game. Nothing like a little challenge to stay sharp.

[LJDMV]

Wow if it was that hard to find pussy there it makes me want to go so I can improve on my game. Nothing like a little challenge to stay sharp.

Hop on the bus 1 morning and you can find out in person whats really up there....

[greydread]

Wow if it was that hard to find pussy there it makes me want to go so I can improve on my game. Nothing like a little challenge to stay sharp.

I don't think his problem was finding the Pum-pum. It's raining Pum-pum there all the time. I think he may be in a hardcore Puta rut. It can happen if you limit yourself to the casas and Chica bars. When I 1st started going to Santo Domingo I was batting about 50% good experiences versus those less memorable.

Looks are important in the Ho game as far as peaking your interest and sealing the deal but for the guy it's still a crap shoot until you get her en la cama. I've got all kind of stories about Chicas who were all gung ho (no pun intended) about our encounter, humping my leg and slobbering all over me right up until about 15 minutes into the deed when they either caught some kind of ache or remembered they had kids and needed to rush off. I've even seen these Ho's choreograph their exits at a predetermined time and three of them catch a "headache" in three different rooms with three different guys, simultaneously.

Hell, one of those times me and the Chica I was with were having so much fun together that when her friends couldn't raise her on her (turned off) cell they started banging on my door and we both showed up at the door buck ass neked to tell them to shove off and leave us alone. This is what you get at the casa and it doesn't matter how much you pay, how fine (or not) the Chica is or what you say or do once you're alone. Many casa pro's are just scammers by nature, thinking that they'll never see you again in life anyway so they can bust a deal with impunity.

Then I started seeking out free range punani and found that the vast majority of these Chicas realized they weren't getting paid until they delivered the goods and the better the goods, the better their reward. Puta incentive. I also discovered that providing a comfortable environment, offering some food and beverage and a little conversation before charging off to the boom-boom room paid pretty good dividends.

My best advice in Santo Domingo would be to avoid the casas if you can or else arrange to meet the casa Chicas after closing. Treat them the way you would a date, the only difference being that you KNOW how this one's gonna turn out and "getting lucky" has nothing to do with it. I keep scotch at the room just for the Chicas. Most of the Dominicanas I've met think that drinking scotch is a step up over the local rum which I also keep for me. I also bring music and encourage them to dance. It's the best foreplay going.

Dominicanas and Latinas in general are not the fuck robot "me-so-horny" girls of SEA and thay are definitely ruled by their emotions, even in professional P4P situations but the Dominicanas IMO are more volatile than other Latin Women. As long as you keep this in mind when dealing with them you can make that emotional nature work in your favor. When that volatility swings to the happy side of the cycle they will do anything to make you a happy Papi.

There, one Man's hard core Puta is another Man's perfect date.

[eastcoastallstar]

I don't think his problem was finding the Pum-pum. It's raining Pum-pum there all the time. I think he may be in a hardcore Puta rut. It can happen if you limit yourself to the casas and Chica bars. When I 1st started going to Santo Domingo I was batting about 50% good experiences versus those less memorable.

Looks are important in the Ho game as far as peaking your interest and sealing the deal but for the guy it's still a crap shoot until you get her en la cama. I've got all kind of stories about Chicas who were all gung ho (no pun intended) about our encounter, humping my leg and slobbering all over me right up until about 15 minutes into the deed when they either caught some kind of ache or remembered they had kids and needed to rush off. I've even seen these Ho's choreograph their exits at a predetermined time and three of them catch a "headache" in three different rooms with three different guys, simultaneously.

Hell, one of those times me and the Chica I was with were having so much fun together that when her friends couldn't raise her on her (turned off) cell they started banging on my door and we both showed up at the door buck ass neked to tell them to shove off and leave us alone. This is what you get at the casa and it doesn't matter how much you pay, how fine (or not) the Chica is or what you say or do once you're alone. Many casa pro's are just scammers by nature, thinking that they'll never see you again in life anyway so they can bust a deal with impunity.

Then I started seeking out free range punani and found that the vast majority of these Chicas realized they weren't getting paid until they delivered the goods and the better the goods, the better their reward. Puta incentive. I also discovered that providing a comfortable environment, offering some food and beverage and a little conversation before charging off to the boom-boom room paid pretty good dividends.

My best advice in Santo Domingo would be to avoid the casas if you can or else arrange to meet the casa Chicas after closing. Treat them the way you would a date, the only difference being that you KNOW how this one's gonna turn out and "getting lucky" has nothing to do with it. I keep scotch at the room just for the Chicas. Most of the Dominicanas I've met think that drinking scotch is a step up over the local rum which I also keep for me. I also bring music and encourage them to dance. It's the best foreplay going.

Dominicanas and Latinas in general are not the fuck robot "me-so-horny" girls of SEA and thay are definitely ruled by their emotions, even in professional P4P situations but the Dominicanas IMO are more volatile than other Latin Women. As long as you keep this in mind when dealing with them you can make that emotional nature work in your favor. When that volatility swings to the happy side of the cycle they will do anything to make you a happy Papi.

There, one Man's hard core Puta is another Man's perfect date.

I hear this all the time when it comes to the Capital, what are you supposed to do until the casas close? The first time you go, should you prepare to wait until the casas close?

[greydread]

I hear this all the time when it comes to the Capital, what are you supposed to do until the casas close? The first time you go, should you prepare to wait until the casas close?

I generally only dedicate one night per trip to the casas so I make a run on a half dozen of them. I start at midnight with an espresso at Manolo. Then I'll walk from casa to casa, having a club soda at each and checking the Chicas from a low key position. If I like what I see I may chat one or two up. If not, it's on to the next. By the time closing rolls around I will have collected a few options. Or not. If I really like one of the "live ins" fresh out of the campo I will do the (negotiated) bar fine. Sometimes I just call it a night and go call someone I already know or look for one of them at the casino.

One thing about Dominicanas...you can invite them to a party just about any time of day or night and if they don't have a BBD going on they'll hop in a taxi in a heartbeat and meet you there, bringing a friend if you ask (as long as your buying). There's more to do in Santo Domingo than I could possibly post.

[BigLongBeach]

I hear this all the time when it comes to the Capital, what are you supposed to do until the casas close? The first time you go, should you prepare to wait until the casas close?

I go to the park, the beach, the universities, the mall, the bus stops, the rent a car office, the super market (la cadena), pretty much anywhere. Gotta be able to introduce yourself in spanish, but dominican women are the most approachable women i have ever met (better than vegas).

Greydead is 100% right, unless the kids are waiting for her, or the BDD is waiting for her she will be down to go and have fun.

If you see one at the bus stop ask where she is going? Ask her if she wants to grab a beer, some pica pollo down the street with you. I have been with my uncle who is in his 60s and he is picking up 20 year old girls. he sees them on the street and asks them where they are going then he offers them a ride, and he will get his ride later.

[BigLongBeach]

I came to the DR for the first time about a month ago on business, not even knowing it was such a well-known sex tourism destination, and I am here now on my second trip, also business. In Santo Domingo only. I am not impressed. So some advice, please, from all of you who know this place well: am I frequenting the wrong places? Is it the language barrier? What?

Anyway, I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, and I am not a repulsive toad (I would say that, of course, but really I'm not), but if there is a key to paradise here I have not found it, or at least don't know how to use it properly. I would welcome all sincere and informed counsel.

it sounds like you enjoy the GFE aspect of it better than just just the short time. Casa Chicas arent going to provide that to you. They want their 3500pesos(3000 to them, 500 to the house) and they want to get back to the club and see if they can get another salida.

If you want the better service you gotta be able to communicate with them. You have a hidden weapon that you are not using. if they know you are a business man that goes to DR on business on a regular business they will look at you differently. You let them know you can be a repeat customer, you get their cell numbers, and you ask to see them on their day off. To the casa chicas and other hardcore chicas they see you as those 3500pesos for one night. If they think you will be those 3500 pesos every other month when you are on business they will give you that level of service to try to earn that repeat customer.

That's part of the Santo Domingo casa scene. Sosua is a completely different animal. play the repeat traveler/customer line and im sure the girls will look at you differently.

[tomgueguen]

What's a "BDD" ?

[greydread]

What's a "BDD" ?

I think he meant BBD as in "Bigger, Better Deal". After all, what's love got to do with it? Mo' money, mo' problems.

[weyland]

I have been with my uncle who is in his 60s and he is picking up 20 year old girls.

Why? Won't the 18-year-olds give him the time of the day? Loser!