please brotha do not stay at her place. Sometimes you hear good stories and sometimes you will hear bad stories, you do not want to be the one telling the bad story. i go to dr every 3 months. i have women in dr whom i can stay with for free, as in i do not have to pay for hotel but you still gotta buy her food and stuff for the house. stay at an hotel and have her over and tell her to bring a friend for a happy hour, trust me she will not mind. also keep in mind that your not the olny american she's talking to, where did you meet her??? on the strip. also what about when you want some new azz, they are hard to cut lose when you have them thinking that you are there just for them.. keep in mind what they are.. have a good time and have a happy hour with her, if you don't i will... and don't send her any money, just maybe $70. the month before you come.. and stop talking to her so much, call her maybe once every 2 weeks...
If you think it's love try not paying in the morning..
"Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many."
Don't get me wrong being in my line of work, and having been to war a couple of times there is probably only one person I totally trust. However I can understand wanting something to work out. If you base everything from past experiences with out trying to change the result you would never have progress. For instance some one tries to build something to let people fly like a bird and it dose not work but crashes. If everyone looked at that and said well i guess people cant fly, no sense trying, we would not have airplanes. Thank goodness some one said I can make that work I wont fail where others did mine will not crash! I'm sure a lot of people got hurt but there is always that one....
In closing, Trust no one, and learn from other peoples planes, but only worry about yours. Is the way I look at life.
Prince, That was a good video series. I ended up watching all 5 parts. It was enlightening.
he's the one that asked for the boards advice
i get so fucking sick of people asking should i do this or should i do that.
then a shit ton of people take time out of thier day to give someone advice. REAL WORLD advice from REAL EXPERIENCES. and in the end they say, oh thanks, but im gonna do what i wanna do anyway.
and to top it off, i get sick to my fucking stomach when i see guys jump in and say shit like this. raggin on guys for giving people the advice they asked for. telling people to let him live his fantasy.
what the fuck. he ASKED for the advice !!
he didnt say .. hey guys here is what im gonna do. can you all tell me its a great idea, even if its not. just lie to me and say it is, because thats what i want to hear.
no, he didnt. he asked for advice. and he got it.
why jump in and protect him from the information he asked for? or get on the guys that offered it.
maybe i'm having my period today. i dont know. but i do know that threads like this lately just piss me off.
later. im going to play my guitar now.
I say go for it! And I say that since it appears you're going to do it anyway, but maybe you should check threads started by a guy named Roy here, who did an "experiment" and enlightened the rest of us with his findings. Sounds like you are maybe going to do some kind of Grand Experiment No. 2. If that is the case, let us know how it goes. We will all be well entertained if not educated.
Proceed at your own risk. And let us know how it goes.
Hey Nap, What I was asking for was advice on a particular situation.. advice that I have decided to take I never even took into account that her standard of living and mine might be TOTALLY different. So now I figure I will get a room at NG and check my chicks place out maybe spend a night there but have all my stuff at my place. I'm young and nieave some times its nice to have a place where friends can help me see all the aspects.
My post where I talk about planes was about relationships not living arrangements. My chick has asked me what we are and where the relationship is going and I have told her strait up That I value the time her and I spend together greatly. That when I am there she makes me very happy, but we live in two different worlds.
In the past I have crashed relationships because of what other people have said or what they think.. I don't think anyone should do that.
I'm not sure if I am articulating this well enough but if it doesn't make sense PM me and I'll try harder.
Do what ya want...ya will anyways!
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