07/2011 - excuses to go to DR

[The Sage]

The simplest thing to do if you are not married or in a relationship is to tell folks you got a girlfriend there. If you're going on a regular basis you can tell the nosy that you maintain an apartment there. Don't even entertain anyone trying to put a monger collar on you. Just because you go to the island does not mean you're going on sexcations. I think a lot of guys are guilty about what they're doing and they're concerned the guilt will be obvious if they tell someone other than a confidant about an impending trip. I once carried the same guilt until I came to my senses. I now tell anyone who asks about where I'll be vacationing, the Dominican Republic. I do this without a whisper of guilt and have up to this point not been confronted with any remarks about what salacious things I might be doing there.

[Rubicon]

I've always thought it odd that I can go chasing pussy across town and that's perfectly acceptable, but I'm some kind of deviate if I go chasing pussy in another country.

I've told EVERYBODY who will listen what I do; my family, my extended family, hell, even the company attorney knows. I don't give a fuck what anybody thinks and they all know that.

My attitude is that when you straighten out that drunk uncle of yours, that crack addicted sister, and finally admit to everybody who the real daddy's are to your babies, then MAYBE you can say something to me about how I live my life. End of story.

[Dvdmdz]

I've always thought it odd that I can go chasing pussy across town and that's perfectly acceptable, but I'm some kind of deviate if I go chasing pussy in another country.

I've told EVERYBODY who will listen what I do; my family, my extended family, hell, even the company attorney knows. I don't give a fuck what anybody thinks and they all know that.

My attitude is that when you straighten out that drunk uncle of yours, that crack addicted sister, and finally admit to everybody who the real daddy's are to your babies, then MAYBE you can say something to me about how I live m
y life. End of story.

I hear you!!!! I feel the same way. Fuck that shit. I tell every one im single . My kidz r grown . My bills are paid , i work hard, so why not play hard???? Fuckit. Id rather be an international pimp or man whore! Lol. Than have to deal with all the emotional baggage and cock teasing that these hoez in the U.S. try to put you you tru!!! Dont get me wrong, i still get mine here in the states? But i have No time or patience for that bull at times ...i simply say ..,i go where single men are supposed to go! And i always have a blast. U only live once!

[Dvdmdz]

The simplest thing to do if you are not married or in a relationship is to tell folks you got a girlfriend there. If you're going on a regular basis you can tell the nosy that you maintain an apartment there. Don't even entertain anyone trying to put a monger collar on you. Just because you go to the island does not mean you're going on sexcations. I think a lot of guys are guilty about what they're doing and they're concerned the guilt will be obvious if they tell someone other than a confidant about an impending trip. I once carried the same guilt until I came to my senses. I now tell anyone who asks about where I'll be vacationing, the Dominican Republic. I do this without a whisper of guilt and have up to this point not been confronted with any remarks about what salacious things I might be doing there.

i agree.....i feel or felt the same way, as far as feeling guilt or embarrassment..but i too came to my senses,,,fukit,,, i wanna enjoy myself to the fullest...i tell people im looking for a retirement beach condo...and my future EX-WIFE.....lol....Single Men Should Go Where Single Men Play!!

[orl]

I'm reading all these "free" mongers, just free to tell everyone the truth--it's inspiring! One day my friends, I may get to be on your level, but for now I've got a live-in girlfriend and daughter that, of course, keep me from returning to the DR.....

Only been to the DR once, but I must say it was enough fun to have me consider ending my relationship here in the states (is there a thread on how many relationships have been lost to mongering? I'm not suggesting that's a bad thing/good thing, just curious, 'cause I'm heading in that direction).

I'm not experienced in this monger game, my only other trip was costa rica last year, and I did not the same 'high' as in Sosua--and I felt the girls were better looking/skills in costa than sosua--but the there's something about these sosua girls that tipped the scales for me. I bought their bullshit hook-line-and-sinker, and I'm begging for more! Call me a pussy first timer if you like, I deserve it. These sosua girls should charge extra for their fake girlfriend experience (but I'm glad they don't)

[Jimmydr]

I'm reading all these "free" mongers, just free to tell everyone the truth--it's inspiring! One day my friends, I may get to be on your level, but for now I've got a live-in girlfriend and daughter that, of course, keep me from returning to the DR.....

Easy enough, just tell her to move out.

[greydread]

Easy enough, just tell her to move out.

Did you just suggest a guy move his kid out of his house?

Baddd Jimmy, Baddd!

Kids are more important than Putas, trust me on this. Raise the kids.....THEN go out and knock the bottoms out. Frustrated by the old Lady and the kid? Hit the Putas with the 3-hole long stroke for a few days and I guarrantee the frustration will subside.

I was married for years and years. I told each wife "You can't cut me off if you don't know where I'm getting it". I meant it.

[dquick]

I'm reading all these "free" mongers, just free to tell everyone the truth--it's inspiring! One day my friends, I may get to be on your level, but for now I've got a live-in girlfriend and daughter that, of course, keep me from returning to the DR.....

Only been to the DR once, but I must say it was enough fun to have me consider ending my relationship here in the states (is there a thread on how many relationships have been lost to mongering? I'm not suggesting that's a bad thing/good thing, just curious, 'cause I'm heading in that direction).

I'm not experienced in this monger game, my only other trip was costa rica last year, and I did not the same 'high' as in Sosua--and I felt the girls were better looking/skills in costa than sosua--but the there's something about these sosua girls that tipped the scales for me. I bought their bullshit hook-line-and-sinker, and I'm begging for more! Call me a pussy first timer if you like, I deserve it. These sosua girls should charge extra for their fake girlfriend experience (but I'm glad they don't)

Orl, I use to be you for years. I lived the married with kids life. I did not monger Internationally at all. It is very hard to justify a trip away, where she can not call you. The best advice is to find good local mongering spots. I am not sure where you are in Florida, but there is something everywhere. Every phone book in the US has listing for escort services. Try the backpage. Or if you really need a quick fix, find the streetwalker scene. The key is to do what is necessary to satisfy yourself, so you are willing to stay with the mother of your child.

Just remember to be discrete.

[Irie]

Did you just suggest a guy move his kid out of his house?

Baddd Jimmy, Baddd!

Kids are more important than Putas, trust me on this. Raise the kids.....THEN go out and knock the bottoms out. Frustrated by the old Lady and the kid? Hit the Putas with the 3-hole long stroke for a few days and I guarrantee the frustration will subside.

I was married for years and years. I told each wife "You can't cut me off if you don't know where I'm getting it". I meant it.

they basically know nothing and need everything you've got to become what they need to be in this world...and we want them to be to survive this life. we all went through it and we turned out alright....no?

enjoy life along the way, but never, never, never!....forget your responsibilities. the one's you've accepted by your actions in life.

[orl]

The local scene in FL doesn't have the same vibe as Sousa, but it will do in a pinch. As you all know, American putas are either trailer or ghetto--both of which are hard to deal with even for short terms...Sousa has a tad of magic in the air, which adds to the experience and has made the Americans far less desirable (duh, that's why we travel...)

[uncle ruckus]

The local scene in FL doesn't have the same vibe as Sousa, but it will do in a pinch. As you all know, American putas are either trailer or ghetto--both of which are hard to deal with even for short terms...Sousa has a tad of magic in the air, which adds to the experience and has made the Americans far less desirable (duh, that's why we travel...)

Not necessarily true. The current local chick I'm seeing has a nice apartment in an upper-middle class part of the city. She used to work as an secretary for a real estate construction company that went bankrupt. Fantastic puta willing to do everything I want except anal for a not crazy price.

Check out ErosGuide and TER to avoid the drugged up hoodrats. Those two websites are keeping me sane until I can get back to STI.

[mikelodge]

Not necessarily true. The current local chick I'm seeing has a nice apartment in an upper-middle class part of the city. She used to work as an secretary for a real estate construction company that went bankrupt. Fantastic puta willing to do everything I want except anal for a not crazy price.

Check out ErosGuide and TER to avoid the drugged up hoodrats. Those two websites are keeping me sane until I can get back to STI.

You are right he is being short sighted. There are lots of girls that may sometimes use sites like Backpage or previously Craiglist and meet a few guys and perhaps get a few regulars or a sugar daddy or two. Same thing applies to many strippers who may quit dancing if a boyfriend takes care of their financial needs. I have met many and many live in very nice apartments or condos. If you find the ones not really only about the money that would rather get $500 and a free weeks vacation to go somewhere with a guy instead of the uncertainty of hoping to fuck 6 or 7 guys that week to make the same money it can be a win win. Especially if you are planning a trip perhaps doing something like skiing, fishing, hunting, snowmobiling, or even just a plain vacation somewhere nice for no reason. Anywhere really except Sturgis (never pay a chick to go there they will go for free).

[foxracing]

500 bucks and paying for a vacation???? fuck that, id rather vacation and use that $$$$ for like 10 or 20 different girls.

The us system (non crackheads/trailer trash/ghetto) is for the rich and possibly the bigger cities more possibilities.

If your making 100k or more then yeah you can have fun on backpage and or getting a semi pro girl. But for most of guys here it seems they think 2000 RD is too much for a short time so good luck on them thinking 200 for an hour of clock watching from a girl that is just okay and your going off of a picture and reviews, not interacting before and seeing how see looks and acts towards you.

*this post is with an asterick because im basing my POV on a small area of a huge country. Sosua is a lot different then other cities in DR. SO i guess YMMV

[greydread]

500 bucks and paying for a vacation???? fuck that, id rather vacation and use that $$$$ for like 10 or 20 different girls.

I'll give the right hooker 5 grand for a week if she presses all the buttons in the right order. I have no use for 10 or 20 different girls in a short span of time.

The older you get the more you appreciate conservation of vital energy. I'd rather spend an hour, once a day getting my swerve on than 10 minutes, 6 times a day. I'll trade one star for six sixes any day.

[The Sage]

I'll give the right hooker 5 grand for a week if she presses all the buttons in the right order. I have no use for 10 or 20 different girls in a short span of time.

The older you get the more you appreciate conservation of vital energy. I'd rather spend an hour, once a day getting my swerve on than 10 minutes, 6 times a day. I'll trade one star for six sixes any day.

It's eye opening when you do a post mortem on a trip and realize that 50% of the chicks you were with were a waste of time and money. Practicing patience and being selective would be of supreme benefit to most mongers, your's truly included.

[TNT72]

These past two posts explain, at least for me personally, why I wife up most of my trip. It's not that I don't have the energy, but as I've gotten a little older, I can't just bust a nut because she has a warm pussy.

This past trip, I had sex with 5 girls in 3 days. In those sessions, I caught 3 nuts with 2 chicas. The first nut, it's not she got me off, I actually had to jerk off on her tits and face. It was my third day, my third chica, and my balls were hurting!! The other 2 nuts were with my #2. Who, turns me on and I never have a problem with her.

Then, I get with my favorita, and I'm busting 3 to 5 nuts a day. Only one time, in I don't know how many sessions and how many trips, did I have a problem catching my nut. And, that was because of booze and The Black Ant. Definately not her fault. She worked her ass off to get my nut!!

[foxracing]

I guess im too young or maybe I'm just not the personality to wife up. I jut hate the thought that I might be missing out on something better

[hugrad95a]

Not necessarily true. The current local chick I'm seeing has a nice apartment in an upper-middle class part of the city. She used to work as an secretary for a real estate construction company that went bankrupt. Fantastic puta willing to do everything I want except anal for a not crazy price.

Check out ErosGuide and TER to avoid the drugged up hoodrats. Those two websites are keeping me sane until I can get back to STI.

Wait Ruckus, you are/were married, roll to DR like a vet, and you got a local chick. Damn man you got a lot your plate there I see.

[uncle ruckus]

Wait Ruckus, you are/were married, roll to DR like a vet, and you got a local chick. Damn man you got a lot your plate there I see.

The local chick is strictly P4P at max 2x a month. I roll to DR like a Dominican since I've got family and business interests there. The chicas are the icing on the trips. I don't take mongering trips, I take business/personal trips where I monger. That's true of most of the places I have to travel to for business. I have P4P faves in NYC, MIA, MCO, and most recently ATL. I establish "stay in touch" relationships through email/facebook with the girls, but only pay them when I'm in town.

[honda11236]

has anybody seen a girl named elisabeth she is a skinny light skin girl with braces and she has a twin sister name elisa