I dont know what it is, but sometimes I wonder if many dominican women are dense, playing games or just plain ignorant. You ever try to ask a chica a question or seek clarity on something, and you end up with a response that doesnt even address what you asked? Then you have to ask a ton of follow up questions in order to get her to answer what you asked? This is usually worse during online conversations. Now my spanish is not good. So I use a translator. When I am talking to a chica online they start using shorthand and abbreviations, which makes it hard for me to translate into english.
So I tell them that I am using a translator. And I need them to spell the words correctly. And not to use shorthand. I explain, I wont be able to understand them, or translate what they say into english. What do I get? They continue giving me shorthand. Didnt I just tell you I cannot translate that, and wont be able to understand you? Common sense would suggest, that if I am talking to someone who doesnt speak my language, I am not going to use shorthand and abbreviations that are only common with english speaking folks. Plus I see that even among dominicans they have a different kind of everyday language that may be different than what would be in a spanish lesson or tutorial.
How about internet dating? Like Dom Cupid. If you browse a few profiles you will see women listing their height as 6 ft or 6'9" but you can see they are not that tall. Or they will list their weight as 265lbs, but they are skinny as hell. And the most common one is, their profile will say they live in Santo Domingo, but when you talk to them they live in Santiago. Or they wont have a picture in their profile, but they insist on striking up a conversation mainly because they liked your pictures. If you ask them for pictures, it is always a hassle or a pain in the ass. Then you have the chicas with pictures hiding behind flowers & plants, with only a headshot. And they hope some man will express interest. Personally, I like when a chica takes many pictures of herself in various poses so you can have a better idea of how she may look when you actually meet her. And yes, I want to know if she has a round ass, or a pancake back there.
I dont know what it is, but many DR women just dont know how to communicate a thought so a man can understand exactly what she is saying/thinking or intending. Often times, it seems the women are confused, and always doing quirky things. Maybe in their haste and desperation of getting into a mans pocket or saved from poverty it blocks their ability to think rationally? I've observed chicas do things without consulting people and then end up having to deal with the consequences for not communicating their intentions or actions.
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