The Road to becoming mister Western Union (WU)

[gdogg]

My mentality is obviously different from y'all. I would put the program on her computer from the gitgo and then decide if I can trust her or not. If you see nothing to evidence that she is fucking around on you, then trust her and turn it off.

Guys keep saying that you can't trust her when you're 1000+ miles away but that misses the point. A women who is inclined to cheat on you will cheat on you whether you live in the same town or another country. Admittedly, if you expect a young hottie to wait for you to bang her for a couple days every 3-4 months or twice a year, you're not being realistic.

But if a gringo wants to take a chance and goes into it with eyes open, its his money, his life and maybe, just maybe, after all is said and done, Vale la pena!

If we're talking about a Dominican puta, the plan is asinine to begin with. Why would you give her a computer? And why would you even think that she's NOT sleeping with others (how did you meet the chica anyway?).

[KoKi9290]

If we're talking about a Dominican puta, the plan is asinine to begin with. Why would you give her a computer? And why would you even think that she's NOT sleeping with others (how did you meet the chica anyway?).

The "which type of chica is a puta and which is not" has been discussed ad infinitum here and without resolution. To some guys, any chica who would fuck a gringo is a puta and others swear that each and every chica in Sosua is a sweet girl who has no options.

And I don't recall saying anything about gifting a computer to any chica. I have met many Dominican chicas who have computers. There are fewer who have internet connections in their homes because that is expensive.

If you have met any chicas on Cupid, you would find that more than half the chicas there have a computer and the internet in their homes. Of the five Dominican chicas who I see, all five have computers (none of which I purchased) and three have connections in their homes. I have another 3 or 4 amigas (former favoritas) that I chat with every once in a while. Two of these amigas have mobile phones and chat with me from there.

[Bstokley]

If we're talking about a Dominican puta, the plan is asinine to begin with. Why would you give her a computer? And why would you even think that she's NOT sleeping with others (how did you meet the chica anyway?).

My chic wasn't a puta, not a short term one anyhow.
her first words to me were,
I am not a whore; i didn't end up fucking her till 2 trips later, she played the game well.

If anyone been to the orange she's the sister of One of the girls there.

[gdogg]

The "which type of chica is a puta and which is not" has been discussed ad infinitum here and without resolution. To some guys, any chica who would fuck a gringo is a puta and others swear that each and every chica in Sosua is a sweet girl who has no options.

And I don't recall saying anything about gifting a computer to any chica. I have met many Dominican chicas who have computers. There are fewer who have internet connections in their homes because that is expensive.

If you have met any chicas on Cupid, you would find that more than half the chicas there have a computer and the internet in their homes. Of the five Dominican chicas who I see, all five have computers (none of which I purchased) and three have connections in their homes. I have another 3 or 4 amigas (former favoritas) that I chat with every once in a while. Two of these amigas have mobile phones and chat with me from there.

Ummm okay...I'm well aware of the internet access of chicas, no need to convince me. I may need convincing on the purpose of the spying on a chica you met on chat though.

[Roy]

Actually I think some guys are just "wired" to give money. Granted most have no game, personality or skills. I have friend like that. His only trip recently and he over paid all the chicas. I tried to prevent that and his response was; "Dude, that's what I do. I give these bitches to much money" He is used to shelling out a hundred bucks plus on lap dances and tips in one night; getting no pussy. After the first couple of times i just let him give the chicas what he wanted.

Sounds like you've got a great wingman! Take him EVERY TIME you can. Let the chicas know he overpays, and you'll introduce them as a FAVOR. Then, later on, you can get with them at an incredible discount... many times "gratis". Take advantage of this just like the guys do when a chica has a WU Gringo taking care of her and she just wants a good roll in the sack.

[The Sage]

I felt like a complete jackass. but you live and learn. Since then i've reached out to a lot of guys, and it seems many many many guys have been down the same path and will continue down the same path. THey are just to ashamed to admit that they are or once were a WESTERN UNION NOVIO and don't want to talk about it or are in denial.

This is so true. For the new guys if you continue to do repeat vacations on the island and you are single (a lot of guys talk about what they won't or wouldn't do without relating they are either married or in a serious relationship) you will eventually meet some one you deem worthy of your financial support. Regardless that it's more expensive than new pussy every trip or the complications of a long distance flirtation some of you will fall victim.

I maintained my young friend (paying her rent and playing at novio) for three years. Not because I'm old, lonely, and unable to find a woman at home, no I did it because she was a pleasure to be with, a tiger in the bed, and just plain gorgeous. Two years after my calling it quits folks in Sosua still ask me about her on a regular basis. The only thing I regret about my time with her was my asinine behavior. I doubt if she was absolutely faithful, but I know she wasn't hoeing. Now me I was fucking everything I wanted to hit. Would I do it again, with what I know now, no. I'm not cut out for it. I was more playing a game because I could afford to do so. When push came to shove and she really needed me I had to face up to my deception.

Now here’s a challenge for the vets. For the sake of the new guys share some brief information about your walk on the dark side. Here are the questions. I’ll go first.

How did you meet her?

She was introduced to me by a friend from POP. At the time I was paying this friend 500 pesos for every new girl she found for me. She knew my type and had been after this one for a number of months before she agreed to see me. A personal financial mishap aided her change of mind.

Why did you start sending her money?

The first time because she asked. She was living with her aunt who would not let her stay out all night. Her solution was to rent an apartment. She needed $140 to move in and $90 a month for rent. I was spending that kind of money on dates back then so I decide what the heck.

The second time knowing she was struggling with her new baby I volunteered to pay her rent.

How long did the arrangement last and why did you stop paying?

The first time it ended after 3 months when I discovered she had a Dominican boyfriend.

The second time it ended after 3 years. I was on the island for an extended stay and decided having a novia while living there was just a little bit to close to being married. They want you to do husband type things. Like hanging out with their families or traveling to the campo to visit grandma. I’m a stick in the mud when it comes to these types of social interactions. Sitting around for hours listening to inane conversations I can’t understand is just not my cup of tea. So I bid farewell and pay rent for the next six months to weed her off of my support.

Do you still talk to her?

She won’t give me any pussy, but we’re still friends.

Do you regret that it happened?

My regret is that I was only playing at having a relationship. She’s a nice girl. She deserved better than that.

Now guys you can have a go at it.

[porno frank]

I heard about this on other forums instead of the Dominican republic. Its the Philippines, Thailand, or Mexico. They call it the wu program. Some excellent sound advice from fellow board members. Dont do it man.

[hugrad95a]

You guys are joking, right?

That software was designed to discover who's goofing off on the job and quickly found a market for Women trying to catch their husbands "cheating" by allowing them to crack email passwords, bank account particulars and CC billing information. Using this software for that purpose is an admission of total desperation which is an emotion most often attributed to Women. Scared Women.

What would you do if you busted into her Badoo account and found out that she had a whole network of guys with whom she may be intimate (or not)? You gonna yell and stomp and threaten to break it off and she's gonna cry and explain and make promises and after she brushes you off with some great sex you'll go away feeling like you accomplished something (which you didn't) and she'll go right back to whatever (or whomever) she was doing.

Sounds like a big waste of time to me.

Yep, too much drama just fuck her and pay afterwards.... Fuck all that spy vs spy bullshit.

[prtyr2]

There certainly are a lot of sick people in Sosua who need money.

Hey has anyone ever called these chicas bluff, by asking for the Doctors Name & phone # , and volunteer to pay the DOCTOR directly, IN FULL, even if its something EXPENSIVE like an operation. ???
No problemo baby, I will call the doctor, dont worry about ANYTHNG I will pay it ALL.

Funny you should mention it. . . .

Maybe 2 years ago I posted something about a typical week for me living in DR. I don't remember most of it but I had 3-4 amigas that I dealt with for that week and was juggling them.

One was a shorty with a rocking body that came to SDQ to visit me for 3-4 days. The sex was great and there was lots of it. We had a good time as well.

Then. . . .she hinted that she needed an operation for a hernia and could use some help as her god mother wouldn't pay for it. She said the operation was 5k pesos. The weird thing was. . ..I pretty much believed her. She was never a working girl and had never lied to me. Still, not wanting to be the gringo pendejo. . .I quickly added up how many times I had banged her etc and even at 5k. . .. was getting a bargain.

Turns out. . . the operation was 5k but she had saved up 2k on her own and only needed 3k. I was all ready to give the 5k but she surprised me with the lower amount which led me to believe her even more. She was also adamant about it being a loan and that she was going to pay me back even if it was only 500 pesos per month.

Well. . . .the next week she is in the hospital getting operated on. The next time I head to STI to visit she is still walking gingerly from the surgery and the ride up to camp david in the taxi is painful for her. Obviously no sex with her that trip and we went to cabarete for the weekend.

I have now known her for over 2 years and still have not been lied to even once. She is sleeping in the next room right now in my apartment in Buenos Aires. She has been with me in Brazil and Argentina for coming up on 3 months now. She sports a nice rock on her left hand and treats me like a king.

I enjoy watching her experience new stuff and she has a youthful innocence but when it comes to serious relationship stuff, she has her head screwed on the right way.

Just the other night we were discussing the operation and how I had heard the hospital story a million times, but was lucky I didn't immediately write it off as a scam. . . . ..

[JD426]

I think when the Medical treatment especially Surgery is for HER, its Pretty hard to pull that off as a Scam .

But when its for someone ELSE, like a mother,g mother, aunt,brother, cousin, even son or daughter etc, then its PROBABLY a SCAM, NO MATTER HOW MUCH u think you know her. The more distant the relative, the more likely its a SCAM.. Why the F** would she approach you for a cousin who she hardly knows. Its just not your problem and its CLASSLESS for her to approach you with it.
Plus Its so easy for her to NOT let you contact that person to see how they are doing afterwards unless you know them in person ,and where they live.
Any guy who falls for this should at least follow up about the person who had the illness afterwards, & if she avoids the subject, changes the subject, wont let you verify it in any way , you got scammed and if you still dont drop the bitch like the piece of shit that she is, you deserve whats coming to you.
People do get sick, and many dont plan for it, its good to help out if you can & want to. Its the blatant long distance WU scam that can be avoided with just some common sense.
This is Not to be confused with the other Scam where u are sending her $$ thinking it will keep her from sucking other guys cocks while you are not in town, thats just being a 100% dumbass.

[Mr Hillbilly]

Some guys have more money than they will spend in their lifetime.

They feel like sending money DR more power to you.

Better than leaving it to ungrateful relatives and looters.

[Jonew1]

Funny you should mention it. . . .

Maybe 2 years ago I posted something about a typical week for me living in DR. I don't remember most of it but I had 3-4 amigas that I dealt with for that week and was juggling them.

One was a shorty with a rocking body that came to SDQ to visit me for 3-4 days. The sex was great and there was lots of it. We had a good time as well.

Then. . . .she hinted that she needed an operation for a hernia and could use some help as her god mother wouldn't pay for it. She said the operation was 5k pesos. The weird thing was. . ..I pretty much believed her. She was never a working girl and had never lied to me. Still, not wanting to be the gringo pendejo. . .I quickly added up how many times I had banged her etc and even at 5k. . .. was getting a bargain.

Turns out. . . the operation was 5k but she had saved up 2k on her own and only needed 3k. I was all ready to give the 5k but she surprised me with the lower amount which led me to believe her even more. She was also adamant about it being a loan and that she was going to pay me back even if it was only 500 pesos per month.

Well. . . .the next week she is in the hospital getting operated on. The next time I head to STI to visit she is still walking gingerly from the surgery and the ride up to camp david in the taxi is painful for her. Obviously no sex with her that trip and we went to cabarete for the weekend.

I have now known her for over 2 years and still have not been lied to even once. She is sleeping in the next room right now in my apartment in Buenos Aires. She has been with me in Brazil and Argentina for coming up on 3 months now. She sports a nice rock on her left hand and treats me like a king.

I enjoy watching her experience new stuff and she has a youthful innocence but when it comes to serious relationship stuff, she has her head screwed on the right way.

Just the other night we were discussing the operation and how I had heard the hospital story a million times, but was lucky I didn't immediately write it off as a scam. . . . ..

just goes to show you guys that there are good chicas in the dr just like anywhere else. i really like this story

[Maretti]

Some guys have more money than they will spend in their lifetime.

They feel like sending money DR more power to you.

Better than leaving it to ungrateful relatives and looters.

It's not the money but the principle. You might be helping due to kindness and sympathy but it doesn't prevent them seeing you as a fool (just being kind with words!). In my case I was just "the man who help me with my baby". Hey, what happened to the "I love you so much"?

Of course that everyone can do whatever they want with their money but at least, let's he honest with our intentions and saying that we send money to a puta to prevent ungrateful relatives a looters to get it is not the real cause, deluging ourselves that our money will buy her heart and faithfulness it is!

[Jimmydr]

Of course that everyone can do whatever they want with their money but at least, let's he honest with our intentions and saying that we send money to a puta to prevent ungrateful relatives a looters to get it is not the real cause, deluging ourselves that our money will buy her heart and faithfulness it is!

Ain't that the truth.

[harlem hec]

just goes to show you guys that there are good chicas in the dr just like anywhere else. i really like this story

Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan.....FUCK THAT!!!!!!

This guy obviously got super mega lucky or the chica saw the opportunity to leave DR and live better on his dime and got her shit together!!

Im happy for the guy and I hope they live happily ever after but.....Im not taking any chances!

[JuanElGriego]

Yep, too much drama just fuck her and pay afterwards.... Fuck all that spy vs spy bullshit.

You can say that because you're just looking for a good time.

However, lots of guys are really looking for love and affection under the guise of mongering.

That void in their lives is stronger than any piece of "advice" you could possibly give them.

You're not gonna stop them. Let them do what they want.

[naptime]

You can say that because you're just looking for a good time.

However, lots of guys are really looking for love and affection under the guise of mongering.

That void in their lives is stronger than any piece of "advice" you could possibly give them.

You're not gonna stop them. Let them do what they want.

amen.

many different types of mongers.

hell even mongers have different types of days, or what they are looking for.


my first few trips i was all about smashin as much as i could eash and every day. most days 2-3 chicas a day. then i started doing tln's and still getting 2-3 girls a day. one day was 5 chicas.

i like smashing as much as possible and hittin different girls. i also like the illusion of love or affection that comes from a tln with a chica that knows how to play the game.

the trick is knowing that fine line between reality and fantasy.

two trips back i spent two days with diosiris. i really enjoyed my time with her. on this last trip, i spent three days with her. again, because i enjoy my time with her. she looks great, has a great personality, and we have fun together. i'm on my way back in a week, and will be wifed up with her the whole trip.

i've talked to her from here at home. we email regularly. the catch is, i dont believe, nor expect her to be sitting there waiting for me to get back. guys that think like that are just foolish (when delaing with putas) i assume, daily, that she is out fucking plenty of dudes, and makin plenty of money. that's how i met her, and i wouldnt expect it to be any different.

i was home for two weeks before i got the phone call telling me that she had moved back to santo domingo to be with her family, because she didnt want to be in sosua any more, because she didnt want to be a puta or sleep with other men, because her whole heart belongs to me.. blah blah blah...

it took another two weeks before she finally sent me that famous email telling me that it was necessary for her family to move to a new apartment and she needed money for the downpayment rent.

now, i like playing the game, and i enjoy our time together, but im not the guy that sends WU money for something that i cant even reach out and touch. so i told her it wouldnt be possible because i had lost my job

[harlem hec]

\now, i like playing the game, and i enjoy our time together, but im not the guy that sends WU money for something that i cant even reach out and touch.

my feelings exactly!

[Nakom]

my feelings exactly!

I forget who posted it but the best post I ever read on this topic was:

When they figure out how to WU me pussy I will WU them money.

[alex debagorski]

I used to keep contact with a few ... then I read something on ISOC that made it all make sense ... since then I've not given out any contact info.

What good news could she (ever) possibly have for you?

PS RIches

A whore in a 3rd world country ... Hmmmm ... Indeed, What good news could she ever have????

Now ...

1) No one gets any heads up on my travel plans

2) No one gets any contact info

3) Any contact info they left with me goes in the garbage when I leave the hotel for the airport ... In each case I look at the email addy or phone # and ask myself out loud ...

" What good news could she possibly ever have?"

I look at the contact info, remember the time we had together and the answer is always the same ... NO chance ... I smile (Thank PSRiches) and toss her info in the garbage can!

4) I tell everyone (Including/especially ex-pats and fellow mongers) I am leaving 7 days after the actual departure date ... I'm sure that my local phone number blows up a week after I leave ... with girls jockeying for long term (WU)positioning.

So ... Thank You PS Riches ... this one little trick undoes the illusion the girls have worked so hard to create ... when I go home my nut sack is empty and my head clear!

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