prtyr2
12-30-2008, 04:46 AM
True story:
I knew this chica that was a good friend of one of my exes. She was basically a good girl that had a kid and she lived in a small town. She came to SDQ looking for work and my ex let her stay with us while she looked for a gig. She also joined a dating site to try and meet a decent guy to form a family.
She got a gig at a cafe on el conde and met a guy from the dating site. he fell in love and asked her to quit her job. he got her a very modest apt and basically sent WU to make sure she did not have to work. She moved her son into the apt and was very happy.
Then, whenever the guy came to visit he would make her take the kid to her mom's house before he arrived and told her he never wanted to meet the kid. This sort of crushed her dream of finding a decent guy that would be a good husband and good dad for her kid.
Even though she was set up pretty well she bailed on the gringo, sent the kid back to her mom and found another job, with the hopes of meeting "mr right".
She worked at a hotel bar, and the bar would have putas hanging there from time to time. She worked 6 days per week from 12-3 and then again from 7-midnight. Not leaving much time for herself. At some point she moved the son back and would have to leave him home alone during the day shift while she had a sister watch him during night shift.
Customers would of course hit on her, and if she thought the guy was decent and he wasn't leaving with any of the putas, she would go out with him. Again, her dream was to meet a nice guy. In most of these cases she was played and played well. I remember her calling me in Ny asking if I could call a hotel in boca to ask for her "novio". I am sure it was a monger staying in boca that tried his game to get a freebie and it worked. . . .
After a few months she would go out with customers, but if they offered money, she took it. If they didn't she would figure a way to ask for money. Sick kid, take me shopping etc etc etc. She basically resigned herself to if she was having trouble finding mr right at least she wasn't going to get played any more. She slowly morphed into the player.
During this time she was also interested in me, but she had crossed that line and even though I 100% understood why she did, it made it impossible for me to even consider her for long term relationship. My fault, not hers.
Also during this time a buddy called me up almost afraid to tell me he had went out with her and banged her. i laughed because I never banged her and had no interest in it so it was all good. She basically told him if he wanted her to be his novia long distance it would cost 500 usd per month. That way she could pay her rent, take care of her son and be available when he came to town. he didn't come down often enough to want that deal.
Then after a while if I would call her she would rush me off the phone or hang up. I stopped calling thinking she had a novio etc. I stopped in the bar one day and she no longer worked there. I asked a waiter and he said her husband was very jealous and would freak if she got any calls from guys. I never tried calling again.
I have never seen her again. She lived in the same neighborhood as I do and apparently she also spends some time in the husbands home country. her husband is from europe and is an amputee, missing a leg.
From all reports she is happily married. I am sure she may have settled for less than she originally dreamt of but has a family to bring her son up in and is happy.
No obviously at some point she crossed over and was a working girl to some extent. As I have said many times hardly any girl wakes up one day and says today I am a Puta. In many ways mongers played a part in it. No I am not blaming mongers as there are many girls that have been in her shoes and instead of joining the game dropped out of it refusing to cross that line. Again I 100% understand her thinking and don't condemn her as we still remained buddies. The crossing over the line excluded her from ever having a shot with me, but she met a guy that didn't feel that way and is happy. I am happy for her and her son who was a cool kid.
In the good old days this was more the typical story with working girls and it was a more fun experience. It was much easier to just go out, go dancing, spend the night, have great sex and pay them "something" in the morning as many here suggest.In many cases you never really knew if the girl was full time or just accepting a gift while waiting for mr right. These days it is harder to find that experience and negotiating and even "interviewing" have become more necessary.
Now it seems more girls are in the game for the bling. The nicer clothes, the expensive cell phones, the ipods, and many do not have kids. back in the day it was much rarer to find chicas that didn't have kids. In fact many girls would not understand when one of their "colleagues" were in the game without kids. they would say "she doesn't HAVE to do this".
Back then you NEVER had to ask if BBBJ, DFK, DATY etc etc etc were on the menu. You never had to ask if they would stay all night. That was standard op procedure back then.
Back then both sides seemed to be living a fantasy. . . . now it is one sided.
I knew this chica that was a good friend of one of my exes. She was basically a good girl that had a kid and she lived in a small town. She came to SDQ looking for work and my ex let her stay with us while she looked for a gig. She also joined a dating site to try and meet a decent guy to form a family.
She got a gig at a cafe on el conde and met a guy from the dating site. he fell in love and asked her to quit her job. he got her a very modest apt and basically sent WU to make sure she did not have to work. She moved her son into the apt and was very happy.
Then, whenever the guy came to visit he would make her take the kid to her mom's house before he arrived and told her he never wanted to meet the kid. This sort of crushed her dream of finding a decent guy that would be a good husband and good dad for her kid.
Even though she was set up pretty well she bailed on the gringo, sent the kid back to her mom and found another job, with the hopes of meeting "mr right".
She worked at a hotel bar, and the bar would have putas hanging there from time to time. She worked 6 days per week from 12-3 and then again from 7-midnight. Not leaving much time for herself. At some point she moved the son back and would have to leave him home alone during the day shift while she had a sister watch him during night shift.
Customers would of course hit on her, and if she thought the guy was decent and he wasn't leaving with any of the putas, she would go out with him. Again, her dream was to meet a nice guy. In most of these cases she was played and played well. I remember her calling me in Ny asking if I could call a hotel in boca to ask for her "novio". I am sure it was a monger staying in boca that tried his game to get a freebie and it worked. . . .
After a few months she would go out with customers, but if they offered money, she took it. If they didn't she would figure a way to ask for money. Sick kid, take me shopping etc etc etc. She basically resigned herself to if she was having trouble finding mr right at least she wasn't going to get played any more. She slowly morphed into the player.
During this time she was also interested in me, but she had crossed that line and even though I 100% understood why she did, it made it impossible for me to even consider her for long term relationship. My fault, not hers.
Also during this time a buddy called me up almost afraid to tell me he had went out with her and banged her. i laughed because I never banged her and had no interest in it so it was all good. She basically told him if he wanted her to be his novia long distance it would cost 500 usd per month. That way she could pay her rent, take care of her son and be available when he came to town. he didn't come down often enough to want that deal.
Then after a while if I would call her she would rush me off the phone or hang up. I stopped calling thinking she had a novio etc. I stopped in the bar one day and she no longer worked there. I asked a waiter and he said her husband was very jealous and would freak if she got any calls from guys. I never tried calling again.
I have never seen her again. She lived in the same neighborhood as I do and apparently she also spends some time in the husbands home country. her husband is from europe and is an amputee, missing a leg.
From all reports she is happily married. I am sure she may have settled for less than she originally dreamt of but has a family to bring her son up in and is happy.
No obviously at some point she crossed over and was a working girl to some extent. As I have said many times hardly any girl wakes up one day and says today I am a Puta. In many ways mongers played a part in it. No I am not blaming mongers as there are many girls that have been in her shoes and instead of joining the game dropped out of it refusing to cross that line. Again I 100% understand her thinking and don't condemn her as we still remained buddies. The crossing over the line excluded her from ever having a shot with me, but she met a guy that didn't feel that way and is happy. I am happy for her and her son who was a cool kid.
In the good old days this was more the typical story with working girls and it was a more fun experience. It was much easier to just go out, go dancing, spend the night, have great sex and pay them "something" in the morning as many here suggest.In many cases you never really knew if the girl was full time or just accepting a gift while waiting for mr right. These days it is harder to find that experience and negotiating and even "interviewing" have become more necessary.
Now it seems more girls are in the game for the bling. The nicer clothes, the expensive cell phones, the ipods, and many do not have kids. back in the day it was much rarer to find chicas that didn't have kids. In fact many girls would not understand when one of their "colleagues" were in the game without kids. they would say "she doesn't HAVE to do this".
Back then you NEVER had to ask if BBBJ, DFK, DATY etc etc etc were on the menu. You never had to ask if they would stay all night. That was standard op procedure back then.
Back then both sides seemed to be living a fantasy. . . . now it is one sided.