the novio experience - a first timers trip report

[Beachlover69]

Got into POP with half an hour delay and was picked up by Jorge form Blackbeards Resort who drove me there (did not cost anything extra). When I got there I was delighted by the beauty of the place – nice big pool, great bar/restaurant, about 6 - 8 chicas smiling at me when I entered the place and just some 150 meters from the beach. But after my 18 hours trip from Germany (including car/train to Frankfurt) all I wanted was a massage, a beer and a bed. So after I got settled into my room (nice big bed, beautiful bath/shower, A/C – 45 $/night) I went down to the bar to get myself the beer and the massage. Ordering the Presidente was easier then picking only one of these beauties that where hanging about. So I let one pick me and took her up to my room. I told her that I did not want sex, but only a massage which did not seem to be a problem. She worked me for about 45 minutes and then started to take her cloths of. But I was to tired to fuck her and sent her away with 20 $.
After a good nights sleep I went down for a good breakfast – everything from fresh fruit to eggs and pancakes is available for around 95 pesos/dish and free coffee. Met some guys from Canada, USA and Europe, and we hung out together checking out the chicas that where crawling out of the different rooms. I’ve got to say, not one of them was bad looking – mostly quite young and not to dark skinned. Later I hung out with a few of the lads at the pool and at the beach chatting about life in general and the paradise we found here. Getting back to the hotel in the late afternoon there where about 10 – 12 chicas around looking for a customer. Some of them where there last evening or in the morning, some I have not seen yet. Had a beer and prepared for dinner. While having dinner with some guys – others had to get some sexual appetizer and came down later – I checked out the girls a the bar and saw one stunner Latina (easily a 9) girl I had to have. Thanks to my Spanish skills and the fact that they are here for only one reason – your pesos - it was no problem to chat her up. So we had a beer and some chatting together with her and a few other chicas. It always seemed to me that there where a chica/monger ratio of tow to one and that not to bad considering that there where about 25 guys in the hotel. I wonder how they manage that. Anyway, after some beer and a bit of dancing I took the Latina up to my room (3000 pesos for all night) and had the best sex (incl. bbj & cim) I’ve had for ages. After breakfast she went home and I went to the beach with some of the fellow inhabitants discussing, among other things, the adventures of last night and the fact that none of us could imagine a better place to monger.
Back at the hotel I saw my Latina from last night hanging around the pool. Had a quick chat and a dip in the pool with her before I went up to my room to prepare for dinner. Before I was finished with my preparation I hear a knock on my door. It was her coming in telling me that she wanted me right now. I was honestly surprised by that but I did her the favour. After an hour of sucking and fucking we had dinner together. I told her the night before that I was going to Sosua the next day. At dinner she told me that she wanted to be my novia and come with me to Sosua. Off course I wanted to know how much she would charge me for that companionship, and she said the she does not want money from me since she considers me her novio. Cause we got along well in bed and otherwise as well and because I kind of like the idea of a steady “relationship” without hassle, I decided to go with the offer.
So the next day we headed off to Sosua and stayed at the Voarmar Hotel. Lovely small place (30 $/night/AC but no minibar) with a nice pool, poolbar and restaurant but a bit far away (15 to 20 minutes walk) form the beach and the center. But no problem with the motoconchos that are available all the time. So we had – in my opinion – great and relaxing days between the beach the restaurants and the bed, and she was everything you could imagine from a girlfriend. Lovely, caring, fun to talk to and always game for a bbj or fuck.
But after the third day, one day before I was due to leave for Europe, she told me that she was going home to Santo Domingo to see her daughter. After packing up her stuff she told me that I now had to give her some money for the time she spent with me (“my daughter needs food and there is a doctors bill to pay” and so on). I was honestly surprised, because during our stay I brought up the topic of money once or twice and she always insisted that novios don’t pay, and off course I paid everything else including dinners at the Bologna and the Waterfront and the tasty boiled shrimp they sell on the beach. I told her that I had no money on me and it and it was amazing how fast a sweet girl can turn into a fury. So to calm her down and get rid of her I gave her 4500 pesos – all I had on me, really! She thought that it was not enough, but since it was all the cash I had on me she finally left. It was not a goodbye with tears. As you can imagine I was not pleased at all and kind off heart broken – yes I can hear you guys laugh but I really did care for her. Looking at it from the distance now I have to say that the service she provided for the money she got was more then good value. A ride to the next ATM solved my cash-problem.
Since I did not want to spend my last night in Sosua alone I hooked up with a German monger pro from the hotel and we hit the bars after having had dinner. He showed me around a bit and finally we ended up in the High Caribe – off course I had no needs to go there before. That was one fun night out – chatted to tons of chicas and picked out a petite dark one to relief me from my broken heart. She was quite good and gave me a mean rim-job but my Latina was better over all. So after that night I was ready to leave for Germany, and so I did.
Next time I’ll come, and believe me ya tengo planes, I will definitely visit Blackbeards and Sosua again. But than my mission will be to get a different girl every day/night – if I don’t loose my heart (or was it my dick?) again on the first night.

[kulinarix]

:D
Beachlover I liked your report and I can see how something like that can happen to anyone who is not to used to deal with hookers.

I've been to barba negra a few weeks ago for 4 days and I really did like the place a lot. Beautiful pool, good value rooms and the food was not bad at all, close to the beach. And the girls - just unbelivable how many very good looking chicas where avaliable there!
I could have imagined to hook up with most of them for a longer periode of time, but I wanted to get as many different girls as possible (1 st and 1 all night every day - i could not have handeled more). David was very helpfull and I never needed to have a look at the book. I did not even know that it existed until I read the posts here.

The week in Cabarete was not that exiting! Not mongers paradiese at all for me!

I will defenitly go back barba negra in fall, but than I will also hit a few bars in Puerto Plata and spend some time in Sosua!

[Jimmydr]

:D

The week in Cabarete was not that exiting! Not mongers paradiese at all for me!




No one said this place was. After all, there are maybe 2 guest friendly hotels here.

[Macky]

Beachlover-

Don't know if you are still checking the forum but in case you are--- don't feel bad I fell for that same shit when I was a newbie, except it was pay me what you want later. These days if a girl says that to me I may not bother to try to come to an agreement, because by saying that she has tipped her hand and marked herself as a con artist. When they say that kind of shit I generally walk away smiling, with a few exceptions.

[Macky]

Jorge didn't charge you for the ride? He charged me $25 for that ride.

[Babyboy31]

Hey BeachLover,

Don't worry about it. I am sure all the gurus have had a similar experience in their rookie days. I always had the boards here to prepare me before I would make a trip, and I had a few fellow experienced mongers that I would hang out with that would help me to avoid some of the pitfalls.

It is experiences like these that fellow mongers need to share so that others can become informed and save themselves the same drama, and I think that the rest of the crew should encourage the sharing of even the bad experiences.

If we don't or feel too embarrassed to discuss them or are ridiculed by the experienced gurus then other rookies will be doomed to make the same mistakes.

Just my two cents

[Jimmydr]

If we don't or feel too embarrassed to discuss them or are ridiculed by the experienced gurus then other rookies will be doomed to make the same mistakes.

Just my two cents

Chances are if it happened to you then it happened to others!

[BrooklynBeas]

a novia in DR costs a whole lot more then a hooker... they dont want to get paid 2000 pesos for sex but they want a dinner, clothes, get their fingernails,toenails,and hair done, want money to take care of their kids and doctor bills... grand total- you thinking you have a new family, catching feelings from the amazing sex , going broke, and not being able to get other chicas without her having a titty attack... not worth it if you ask me... I used to say im single and looking for a novia... now i just say i want to have fun for the night

[Summit]

Belive me dude this has happend before, and will happen again, i have heard chicas talk about it, they say shit like "ese se ve pendejo, le voy a sacar lo chelitos a ese" "He looks like a flake, i'm going to make my day with him and take his money"

Good thing you wrote about it here so others may learn and come down with a hard dick and a closed heart.

Remember you are the one that has that dick poke them with it, don't let them poke your heart , they have masters degrees on that shit.

[Reel Deal]

I've not been there for a while, but I can share some experiences.

Just about every non-pro I met there did a full court press to become my GF-I was not aware that novia was the term. Most actually gravitate toward a guy older than they are.

I have always had business cards printed with my mailing addy (PO box) on it. I'd give them to some cuties I met. OMG!!!!!! My box was innundated with impassioned pledges of love, please take me away, etc. I love you I love you I love you.

They think all Americans are rich. They want to come to the land of fruit and honey. Most know they have little future there.

Unless the culture has changed, girls there are like girls everywhere. They want love, security, protection, and babies. I would suggest caution, because desperation makes people behave in strange ways. Women behave strangely anyway, even when not desperate.

The gal who whipped the condom off the guy sends chills down my spine... :shock: :shock: :shock: . I've had things like that happen here by gals trying to catch me.l

[Jimmydr]

They think all Americans are rich. They want to come to the land of fruit and honey. Most know they have little future there.




Poor people do not travel. If you look around Manhattan, you would think that all Japanese are rich!

[RickRock]

Poor people do not travel.

How do you explain me :D

[Dark Knight]

I think poor people travel quite a bit. We're the ones staying at the $5 and $10 hotels in pattaya, san jose, and los charmicos. SB

[domfan]

hey beachlover, i loved your report. but honstly - a part of your ayyyyy broken heart - you came off quite cheap, hehe. you are not complaining no? you are lucky, she didnt hit the stores with you.

[JDR]

I think poor people travel quite a bit. We're the ones staying at the $5 and $10 hotels in pattaya, san jose, and los charmicos. SB

Did you swim there? :D

[chicasfan]

what does it mean NOVIO ?

[knotty]

what does it mean NOVIO ?
it means boyfriend

[weyland]

Back at the hotel I saw my Latina from last night hanging around the pool ... at dinner she told me that she wanted to be my novia and come with me to Sosua. Of course, I wanted to know how much she would charge me for that companionship, and she said that she did not want money from me since she considered me her novio ... I told her that I had no money on me and it was amazing how fast a sweet girl could turn into a fury ... I was not pleased at all and kind of heartbroken - yes I can hear you guys laugh but I really did care for her

I have only just stumbled on this old report. I don't know if Beachlover69 is still around, but as a confirmed "Blackbeards watcher" I would like to have known who this girl was. Sound like anyone we have read a lot about lately?

But I suppose it could be one of a thousand, they all graduate from the same college. As Domwolf said in the same thread:


... don't let them poke your heart, they have masters degrees on that shit.

Luckily it only cost me a bit of extra money on my first trip, which was well worth it for the experience (especially at my advanced age when the only novel experience I thought I had coming to me was to hear them nailing down my coffin lid). I was a bit more careful on my second trip. I will be as tight as a duck's arse on my third!

But it will take a lot more trips before I cease to wonder at the ability these simple, mostly uneducated and unsophisticated, girls have to play on our heartstrings like a lute. (And when I loose that sensitivity I might as well be in my coffin, because fucking without putting my emotions on the line is not of great interest to me. I'd rather watch soccer).

Is it precisely because they are uneducated and unsophisticated? Were all women from all countries like that once? I honestly do not think so. For me the DR chicas are special in that respect. Certainly not the best looking but they have that special quality. Of course, I have not visited other Latin American countries. I know Colombianas are better looking, Argentinas are more sophisticated, and that there is infinitely more choice in Brazil, but do the DR chicas have some special training or evolutionary development?

[psriches]

All women have it in them!! DR chicas are no different. It's just good business skills. Some chicas go for the short term payoff and some go for the long term jackpot!! We've discussed this 100 times but it does make for good conversation.

[Jimmydr]

All women have it in them!! DR chicas are no different. It's just good business skills. Some chicas go for the short term payoff and some go for the long term jackpot!! We've discussed this 100 times but it does make for good conversation.

In the case of Weyland, short term is long term.

[weyland]

All women have it in them!! DR chicas are no different. It's just good business skills. Some chicas go for the short term payoff and some go for the long term jackpot!! We've discussed this 100 times but it does make for good conversation.

Maybe you're right. But I have been involved for longer and more comprehensively with whores and "straight" women in recent years and past decades from England and Europe without them making me feel that tender. I suppose it's the combination of poverty and vulnerability combined with their efforts to look nice and stay cheerful which is new to me. Russian women love to wallow in their misery, for example.

I am sure it will wear off. I'm probably just getting senile.

But like you say, I never tire of reading about it and talking about it. Maybe one day I'll write about it, not that I'd be the first.

[psriches]

I suppose it's the combination of poverty and vulnerability combined with their efforts to look nice and stay cheerful which is new to me."poverty" is the key!!

[WSJ3_Sith_Lord]

It doesn't make you a bad person weyland...

Hell I am going to probably take a page out of your book and retire in DR with a WHORE...

Not a nada puta, but a world class SALAD TOSSING PUTA...

Tee Hee...

[Jimmydr]

It doesn't make you a bad person weyland...

Hell I am going to probably take a page out of your book and retire in DR with a WHORE...

Not a nada puta, but a world class SALAD TOSSING PUTA...

Tee Hee...

It makes him like you and me.

[WSJ3_Sith_Lord]

It makes him like you and me.

EXACTO!!!!!!!

[Jimmydr]

EXACTO!!!!!!!



We are not bad people, now are we?

[WSJ3_Sith_Lord]

We are not bad people, now are we?

Not unless you ask all the chicas on Pedro Clisante...

[Jimmydr]

Not unless you ask all the chicas on Pedro Clisante...


Which ones? I have been away 4 months and 40% are new.

[WSJ3_Sith_Lord]

Which ones? I have been away 4 months and 40% are new.

I am sure they have our pictures up in Classicos...

Putas skills and knowledge are passed down...

[Jimmydr]

I am sure they have our pictures up in Classicos...

Putas skills and knowledge are passed down...

Sorry my friend but I am in a league of my own. You are in the minors when we compare how much they hate me.

[WSJ3_Sith_Lord]

Sorry my friend but I am in a league of my own. You are in the minors when we compare how much they hate me.

OK

LOL...

Sounds good to me.

[Kevy]

I can vouch he is. One he pointed at and said she doesn't like me and she started screaming a bunch of spanish I never heard before at him. It was quite something

[ajax718]

Nothing "long" in regards to Weyland when it comes to penis size or time spent banging... Well he can rample on for a long time, does this count as long?

[milldam]

Jimmy, why do the chicas hate you so much?

[Jimmydr]

Jimmy, why do the chicas hate you so much?



I don't buy them drinks, I don't talk to the ones that I am not interested in.

[Jthomas]

I can vouch he is. One he pointed at and said she doesn't like me and she started screaming a bunch of spanish I never heard before at him. It was quite something

Yep, seen the same thing, I like it when he says I had this one arrested once and then watch her spot him and the shit starts flying out of her mouth. How, and if looks could kill Jimmy would have been dead a long time ago.

[Beads]

Sorry my friend but I am in a league of my own. You are in the minors when we compare how much they hate me.

Hes right EVERY chica on the strip knows who Jimmy is. Even the ones he doesnt know.Its like hes on page 1 of the DR puta handbook or something.

[Kevy]

he didn't know this one, but she gave him the finger anyway

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v735/kevyboy21/IMG_0141.jpg

[Jthomas]

He was with me when we went to pick up a chica that Armando had set up and sure enough he knew her too. By the way she did not like him either.

[guttaman]

Hes right EVERY chica on the strip knows who Jimmy is. Even the ones he doesnt know.Its like hes on page 1 of the DR puta handbook or something.

I tell all the chicas who know me in Sosua to please call me James. A few people call me Jimmy and chicas heads turn. I came up with Boston Jim when Lou started calling me Jimmy and others followed suit. No offence JDR but being called Jimmy in Sosua is not good.

[LM]

"Jimmy" is a swear word in Sosua........

[Jimmydr]

I tell all the chicas who know me in Sosua to please call me James. A few people call me Jimmy and chicas heads turn. I came up with Boston Jim when Lou started calling me Jimmy and others followed suit. No offence JDR but being called Jimmy in Sosua is not good.


The more they hate me the better. They like guys that buy them things and waste money on them. I am not one of those guys.

[Obscene]

You got to respect a man who putas hate. It's like a driver that can piss off taxi cab drivers. Much respect to you Jimmy.

[Pana]

The more they hate me the better. They like guys that buy them things and waste money on them. I am not one of those guys.
You used to be one Jimmy!!!!

[LM]

You got to respect a man who putas hate. It's like a driver that can piss off taxi cab drivers. Much respect to you Jimmy.

Yep....I got couple that hate me now...I mean like what did I do????:rolleyes:

Following in Jimmys footsteps...

[psienk]

Weyland, I feel the same way you do, no emotion = weak sex.
I met a girl down there 3 trips ago, and she's who I go there for now, laugh your asses off. I started going there for the hooker thing, and don't get me wrong, it was awesome, but after I met this chick I didn't want anything else, she's nice, (looks and attitude) doesn't mind anyhting I do as long as it doesn't involve other chicas, and she has never asked me for anything besides salon trips before we go out to the discos. This girl is happy hanging out at the beach or the bars at night, and going back home and having incredible sex all night. I don't care what she does when I'm not there, as long as she's ready to go when I get there.

[Deniro]

I met a girl down there 3 trips ago, and she's who I go there for now...she's nice, (looks and attitude) doesn't mind anyhting I do as long as it doesn't involve other chicas...I don't care what she does when I'm not there...

she's got a good deal with you brother. no other chicas for you so she gets all your vacation money and doesn't have to compete with other putas for it, and when you leave it's open season on gringos. but if she keeps you happy and satisfied that's all that matters. ;)

[Bug Boy]

Weyland, I feel the same way you do, no emotion = weak sex.
I met a girl down there 3 trips ago, and she's who I go there for now, laugh your asses off. I started going there for the hooker thing, and don't get me wrong, it was awesome, but after I met this chick I didn't want anything else, she's nice, (looks and attitude) doesn't mind anyhting I do as long as it doesn't involve other chicas, and she has never asked me for anything besides salon trips before we go out to the discos. This girl is happy hanging out at the beach or the bars at night, and going back home and having incredible sex all night. I don't care what she does when I'm not there, as long as she's ready to go when I get there.

See that's maturity there talking..We all have our own levels in what defines our enjoyment.

I have a girl that I see like that, but that doesnt stop me from doing my thing on the side or her helping me find other girls..

You'd be surprised what you get when you just ask.

One of the girls from my last trip asked to be my novia, I told her that it was cheaper to just be her customer. lol

[Beads]

its true about the jealousy and competition I had one already complained if i bought another chica a drink. like it was her money or something lol.the fact that you dont spend a lot on her and dont care what she does when your not around is fine.

remember it is your vacation so as long as your happy its all good.

[Jimmydr]

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