07/2014 - They are never happy, not ever!!!

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

So I met her in january, walking in Boca with her cousin, en route to the bank.


I took a ride and gave her 1,000 and my wingman took two rides over the next day and gave her 2,400 in total.


We returned in July, called her over 9 days and she walked away with 16,000 more or less.


A real job pays 5,500 a month but they pay for transportation.


Everyday on facebook its the same request for money and we both say no.



If it worked out, she could have got 50,000 from us over three trips a year and that is like a years salary just from two guys, over three trips.


Too bad for her, she are 500 others waiting to replace her.

[JDR]

And we have a few waiting in line to cook us dinner in November

http://news.insearchofchicas.org/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=102146&d=1404903325

[el toro]

Ya tu sabe they don't add or think long term business. That was a common comparison between the Meddy vs. DR chica mindset from some of the Meddy vets.

[Hunter]

She is really pestering you guys...I wouldn't have thought In** was that type she is so mellow...huh..

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

She is really pestering you guys...I wouldn't have thought In** was that type she is so mellow...huh..

Online, just another thug.

[Gladiator]

Hos have simple minds and they categorize guys according to simple principles, so for them guys who keep in touch equate to guys who can be squeezed financially.

This may not make sense to some of us, but for them it works out because there’s a majority of love-starved, desperate guys out there, willing to pay up to keep the flame of their self-delusion alive.

[BrooklynBeas]

Hos have simple minds and they categorize guys according to simple principles, so for them guys who keep in touch equate to guys who can be squeezed financially.

This may not make sense to some of us, but for them it works out because there’s a majority of love-starved, desperate guys out there, willing to pay up to keep the flame of their self-delusion alive.

Which is why I hit up chicas I plan on seeing on the next trip, a week or so before getting there at most... Some of them get called when im in country!

[Rubicon]

Everyday on facebook its the same request for money and we both say no.

That's why it's important to just cycle through them.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Hos have simple minds and they categorize guys according to simple principles, so for them guys who keep in touch equate to guys who can be squeezed financially.

This may not make sense to some of us, but for them it works out because there’s a majority of love-starved, desperate guys out there, willing to pay up to keep the flame of their self-delusion alive.

I never have issues with the Colombians.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

That's why it's important to just cycle through them.

I usually like a few trips with each. The cousins lasted almost two years.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

So she sends a message to my wingman that she will hit the strip for cash.


Too bad for her, there were a few dozen out when I was there and very few buyers.


It sucks when its a buyers market.:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

[Seville]

Hos have simple minds and they categorize guys according to simple principles, so for them guys who keep in touch equate to guys who can be squeezed financially.

This may not make sense to some of us, but for them it works out because there’s a majority of love-starved, desperate guys out there, willing to pay up to keep the flame of their self-delusion alive.


Exactly. It is like sending SPAM for them. They spend 1- 4 hours a day staying in contact with prior paydays and trolling for new ones online. If they cast out enough lines sooner or later they will get hits. Fifty dollars from guy A, $100 from guy B, $200 from C and another $50 from D. Over 16,000 pesos per month for "chatting" online. And many times it is more than that.

Just another extension of their base business plan: Separating you from your money.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Exactly. It is like sending SPAM for them. They spend 1- 4 hours a day staying in contact with prior paydays and trolling for new ones online. If they cast out enough lines sooner or later they will get hits. Fifty dollars from guy A, $100 from guy B, $200 from C and another $50 from D. Over 16,000 pesos per month for "chatting" online. And many times it is more than that.

Just another extension of their base business plan: Separating you from your money.

So you think they all get that?


Then why they out there everyday?


If they get 16,000 and its not enough, fuck them.

[wrgold]

Is there any DR chica who is talking to a gringo online that doesn't hit them up for money?? It just seems standard operating procedure for dominicanas. Pro , semi pro or non pro

[Seville]

So you think they all get that?


Then why they out there everyday?


If they get 16,000 and its not enough, fuck them.


I don't think they all get that or get that on a consistent basis. Some months they make out fine online and others not so much. I once helped a chica translate and write in English to a guy she had on the hook. I had met him on one of his trips. He sent her $500 at one time. I saw the texts and I saw the WU receipt. And that is just one example of the many I have seen and the many more the girls tell me about.

For many of these chicas 16,000 pesos per month is not even close to enough. One told me she needs 20,000 per month just to take care of her dirt poor family that lives elsewhere. I know another very well and she is probably supporting close to 8 people in her family. Not all putas are doing that with the money but a good percentage of them are. I doubt I know a Haitian girl that does not send money to Haiti.

Many of these guys don't understand that either. They hook up with one of these girls, feel special and the requests for more and more never stop. These guys can't understand the dynamic of that issue. Granted some of them are just greedy putas, no doubt, but many of them are supporting their whole family. In either circumstance there can never be enough money. They will always want and need more.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Is there any DR chica who is talking to a gringo online that doesn't hit them up for money?? It just seems standard operating procedure for dominicanas. Pro , semi pro or non pro

Yes a few but they are in Europe with their husbands.

[Irie]

Is there any DR chica who is talking to a gringo online that doesn't hit them up for money?? It just seems standard operating procedure for dominicanas. Pro , semi pro or non pro


Yes a few but they are in Europe with their husbands.


i can honestly say there is a couple (of a very few I've stayed in touch with over the years) that have never asked. Anomalies I'm sure.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

i can honestly say there is a couple (of a very few I've stayed in touch with over the years) that have never asked. Anomalies I'm sure.

Not all ask. He is a DR Hata.

[BorisDaBulletDodger]

Hos have simple minds and they categorize guys according to simple principles, so for them guys who keep in touch equate to guys who can be squeezed financially.

This may not make sense to some of us, but for them it works out because there’s a majority of love-starved, desperate guys out there, willing to pay up to keep the flame of their self-delusion alive.

I agree with some of what you say, but wouldn't it be the same with MDE or some of the girls I started talking to in SE asia as well?

There has to be the same idiots giving away money all around the world not just the DR. It seems more common for DR girls to ask for money for Excuse of the day.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I agree with some of what you say, but wouldn't it be the same with MDE or some of the girls I started talking to in SE asia as well?

There has to be the same idiots giving away money all around the world not just the DR. It seems more common for DR girls to ask for money for Excuse of the day.

In Colombia, they ask if I know of anyone offering employment.

[Gladiator]

I agree with some of what you say, but wouldn't it be the same with MDE or some of the girls I started talking to in SE asia as well?

There has to be the same idiots giving away money all around the world not just the DR. It seems more common for DR girls to ask for money for Excuse of the day.

That’s correct, I wasn’t referring only to the DR, but in general to any country where there is a significant foreign-orientated mongering scene.

MR’s are also prevalent in SE Asia, for instance.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

That’s correct, I wasn’t referring only to the DR, but in general to any country where there is a significant foreign-orientated mongering scene.

MR’s are also prevalent in SE Asia, for instance.

Funny thing is, guys will sends $100's of dollars for no reason, but airfare goes up $100 and its a big deal.

[martin0siddle]

Is there any DR chica who is talking to a gringo online that doesn't hit them up for money?? It just seems standard operating procedure for dominicanas. Pro , semi pro or non pro

I am only in canada for short period but I keept contact with my chicas and none of them asked me for money... when I am in DR i keep contact with all chicas on facebook and none of them ask me for money... actually one did, and she is one of the chica I never talk to and I never actually seen here, i just blocked her..

[MrHappy]

Online, just another thug.

She is bugging me 2-3 times a day. Says she needs money for her kids school. I tell her school doesn't start for another couple of months. She says yes, but I'll have to pay it.

I told her to go chase down the kids dad. She's a pest.

The latest : She says she wants to come over with her friend and do a happy hour. I said that was great, because I love a bisexual girl. Then I ask her if she's bisexual, and she says, "more or less"

I told her that's like saying you're more or less pregnant. Either you are, or you aren't. She says she's not pregnant.

I'm pretty much ignoring her messages now.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

She is bugging me 2-3 times a day. Says she needs money for her kids school. I tell her school doesn't start for another couple of months. She says yes, but I'll have to pay it.

I told her to go chase down the kids dad. She's a pest.



The kid lives with his parents which is as good as him paying for his upkeep.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

The latest : She says she wants to come over with her friend and do a happy hour. I said that was great, because I love a bisexual girl. Then I ask her if she's bisexual, and she says, "more or less"


.

News to me.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I'm pretty much ignoring her messages now.

She can write the book on how to lose 100,000 pesos a year by being a pest.


Me and my wingman were good for 50,000 a year.

[MrHappy]

In Colombia, they ask if I know of anyone offering employment.

All the time here, but in my case, they want me to give them a job. I've had them come out and ask within a minute or two of me adding them as a friend on FB.

I just delete them.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

All the time here, but in my case, they want me to give them a job. I've had them come out and ask within a minute or two of me adding them as a friend on FB.

I just delete them.

They must know you have a factory with 20,000 workers.

[jose1234]

Everybody wants things...like desperate fish out of water trying to grasp air... We don't see it because its normal and we do the same in most cases...

We hang around people that will give us a job or promotion or the next deal....we hang around attractive women if we can...we want the autographs of famous people... We want we want we want and so do chicas...

How we go about getting what we want and dealing with the world determines if we are classified as normal, insane, psychopaths or creeps or successful...


The basic transaction and bottom line is Putas want money and guys want sex... That is where the transaction meets. There is no end to our wants... It's a puta's job to ask for more...some are good at it and some are not...

Make more of the basic transaction and you could have a mismatch of personalities and other wants and cultures and such...

There is an older entertaining movie called Casino... Sort of illustrates the point...

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

The basic transaction and bottom line is Putas want money and guys want sex... That is where the transaction meets. There is no end to our wants... It's a puta's job to ask for more...some are good at it and some are not...

Make more of the basic transaction and you could have a mismatch of personalities and other wants and cultures and such...

There is an older entertaining movie called Casino... Sort of illustrates the point...

Where prostitution is legal, its a job or business like anything else.

For those of you that only been to Sosua, its very different in many other parts of the World.

[greydread]

Everybody wants things...like desperate fish out of water trying to grasp air... We don't see it because its normal and we do the same in most cases...

We hang around people that will give us a job or promotion or the next deal....we hang around attractive women if we can...we want the autographs of famous people... We want we want we want and so do chicas...

How we go about getting what we want and dealing with the world determines if we are classified as normal, insane, psychopaths or creeps or successful...


The basic transaction and bottom line is Putas want money and guys want sex... That is where the transaction meets. There is no end to our wants... It's a puta's job to ask for more...some are good at it and some are not...

Make more of the basic transaction and you could have a mismatch of personalities and other wants and cultures and such...

There is an older entertaining movie called Casino... Sort of illustrates the point...

I'll have to disagree here. Most of the Guys I hang out with I don't want anything from. In most cases we have a lot in common and the camaraderie and intellectual stimulation is mutual and comes naturally. Most of the Ladies I hang out with it's pretty much the same but many times with ass included. I have kind of learned over the years to avoid spending too much time, especially alone with Women whom I have no interest in fucking because sooner or later they are likely to want some dick. They're not all that different from us in that respect and they are just as likely to be willing to pay for what they want.

I've got a couple of books that have been autographed by the authors but they were given and not asked for. I've met and spoken with a great number of very notable folks over the years but it never crossed my mind to take advantage of this associations for profit or for personal material gain. The wisdom I have gleaned from them is more than enough and those blessings are worth more than gold.

The world doesn't determine who I am, I do. I like to experience good adventures. I like to share those adventures with others and theirs with me. I have as much fun 2,500 miles away from home as I do at my favorite domestic watering hole and as much fun travelling alone as with 20 of my closest friends. I can travel with a Woman or I can travel alone and meet Women at my destination and have just as much fun and just as much sex but I have found that travelling with leaves lasting memories which are as much fun shared later as they are in the moment. I was just sitting and talking with the 30-something who accompanied me to Miami last winter and we were reminiscing about our drive to Key West and the best sex ever and she was coming before I even touched her from just talking about it. Now that is what friends are for.

Casino was a good movie with an equally good message...."You can't buy your luck". Not with cards, not with the sports book and certainly not with Women. I have made pretty good money for most of my adult life but I know that I will never be "rich". I'm far too generous for that but at the same time I realize how truly wealthy I have been. The vast majority of my wealth cannot be quantified because it has been defined by the People in my life and our good times together.

Please pardon the philosophical rantiness, I went to yet another old friend's funeral last week.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I'll have to disagree here. Most of the Guys I hang out with I don't want anything from. In most cases we have a lot in common and the camaraderie and intellectual stimulation is mutual and comes naturally. Most of the Ladies I hang out with it's pretty much the same but many times with ass included. I have kind of learned over the years to avoid spending too much time, especially alone with Women whom I have no interest in fucking because sooner or later they are likely to want some dick. They're not all that different from us in that respect and they are just as likely to be willing to pay for what they want.

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I agree with you. I too have everything I need or want.

[camaro1257]

Is there any DR chica who is talking to a gringo online that doesn't hit them up for money?? It just seems standard operating procedure for dominicanas. Pro , semi pro or non pro

I have a few civilians and pros who have never hit me up and I have known them for years and communicate frequently. But I also have had chicas I just met ask me for as much as $500.00 and I was lyke...yeah rite...:rofl:

[greydread]

I agree with you. I too have everything I need or want.

How many balconies, in how many suites, on how many islands did I sit, enjoying the sunset with Nocheman, smoking the cigar du jour, caressing the Puta du jour, enjoying the cocktail du jour while remarking the exact same sentiment?

I lost count. Life is as good as we let it be and then it's over. Nobody knows when or why but if we get every bit of fulfillment out of it then we were doing the daam thing correctly.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

How many balconies, in how many suites, on how many islands did I sit, enjoying the sunset with Nocheman, smoking the cigar du jour, caressing the Puta du jour, enjoying the cocktail du jour while remarking the exact same sentiment?

I lost count. Life is as good as we let it be and then it's over. Nobody knows when or why but if we get every bit of fulfillment out of it then we were doing the daam thing correctly.

The plan in July was the same as all the other trips:


1 - beach
2 - pool
3 - snitzel
4 - coffee
5 - breakfast


6 - at least one chica a day


I had stef from the past 3 trips so I was fine and Indy, who we shared, worked out well


We did want to get bumped, but not this time


I think we may have another 20 or so trips together, hopefully all the same.

[Seville]

I agree with you. I too have everything I need or want.

The overwhelming majority of people do not share that sentiment. Almost everyone wants more. They have a $15,000 Hyundia but they want a BMW. They have a perfectly fine house that they paid $175,000 for but they want a bigger one. They have a 42" TV but they want a 60". They are making $60,000 per year but they want to make $100,000. It goes on and on. All over the world. Why should these chicas be any different?

People are always "networking", hoping the next introduction leads to a better opportunity. GD, you are very much in the minority in that regard. As am I. Was talking to a guy at Casa Cayena just yesterday. He said he was going to retire in 2 years. I asked him why not retire now? He said that by working another 2 years he would have another $8,000 per year. I asked him if he needed the extra $8,000. He said no but that it was too much money to pass up. That is the way most people think.

I could have retired at 80% of my full salary if I had worked 8 more years and not retired at 55. That would mean that I would have 3 more years to work from today. It was a significant amount of money. Except I figured I had enough for a very modest lifestyle by retiring at 55. The extra money would have been nice but I would never trade it for the 5 years I have had since my retirement. My quality of "things" and my income is not great. My quality of life is great (in my opinion). The majority of people sacrifice, at least in part, the latter for the former even if it is not an absolute necessity..

[greydread]

The overwhelming majority of people do not share that sentiment. Almost everyone wants more. They have a $15,000 Hyundia but they want a BMW. They have a perfectly fine house that they paid $175,000 for but they want a bigger one. They have a 42" TV but they want a 60". They are making $60,000 per year but they want to make $100,000. It goes on and on. All over the world. Why should these chicas be any different?

People are always "networking", hoping the next introduction leads to a better opportunity. GD, you are very much in the minority in that regard. As am I. Was talking to a guy at Casa Cayena just yesterday. He said he was going to retire in 2 years. I asked him why not retire now? He said that by working another 2 years he would have another $8,000 per year. I asked him if he needed the extra $8,000. He said no but that it was too much money to pass up. That is the way most people think.

I could have retired at 80% of my full salary if I had worked 8 more years and not retired at 55. That would mean that I would have 3 more years to work from today. It was a significant amount of money. Except I figured I had enough for a very modest lifestyle by retiring at 55. The extra money would have been nice but I would never trade it for the 5 years I have had since my retirement. My quality of "things" and my income is not great. My quality of life is great (in my opinion). The majority of people sacrifice, at least in part, the latter for the former even if it is not an absolute necessity..

Bro, I am in Washington DC and I can't even begin to count the number of Guys who could have been set for life in retirement from the fed's at 55 but stuck in the hustle for an extra couple years to get an extra 4% or WTF ever and dropped-the-fuck-dead from the stress before they could collect the 1st pension check.

Live it now. I'm doing the daam thing not just for me but for the Guys who didn't make it out of the Terrordome. I raised 5 Kids through college. They are my wealth...them and the friends I've made along the way. I can always make money.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

The overwhelming majority of people do not share that sentiment. Almost everyone wants more. They have a $15,000 Hyundia but they want a BMW. They have a perfectly fine house that they paid $175,000 for but they want a bigger one. They have a 42" TV but they want a 60". They are making $60,000 per year but they want to make $100,000. It goes on and on. All over the world. Why should these chicas be any different?

People are always "networking", hoping the next introduction leads to a better opportunity. GD, you are very much in the minority in that regard. As am I. Was talking to a guy at Casa Cayena just yesterday. He said he was going to retire in 2 years. I asked him why not retire now? He said that by working another 2 years he would have another $8,000 per year. I asked him if he needed the extra $8,000. He said no but that it was too much money to pass up. That is the way most people think.

I could have retired at 80% of my full salary if I had worked 8 more years and not retired at 55. That would mean that I would have 3 more years to work from today. It was a significant amount of money. Except I figured I had enough for a very modest lifestyle by retiring at 55. The extra money would have been nice but I would never trade it for the 5 years I have had since my retirement. My quality of "things" and my income is not great. My quality of life is great (in my opinion). The majority of people sacrifice, at least in part, the latter for the former even if it is not an absolute necessity..


My goal at 16 was to get a piece of what i thought was a ten. 35 years later, I got my hands on 50 of my "tens", 100 of my "nines" and 500 of my 7-8's.


To get you dick sucked by over a 1,000 different women, is more than enough.


Just give me a good meal, 10,000 more times and my life is complete.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I could have retired at 80% of my full salary if I had worked 8 more years and not retired at 55. That would mean that I would have 3 more years to work from today. It was a significant amount of money. Except I figured I had enough for a very modest lifestyle by retiring at 55. The extra money would have been nice but I would never trade it for the 5 years I have had since my retirement. My quality of "things" and my income is not great. My quality of life is great (in my opinion). The majority of people sacrifice, at least in part, the latter for the former even if it is not an absolute necessity..

:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

The overwhelming majority of people do not share that sentiment. Almost everyone wants more. They have a $15,000 Hyundia but they want a BMW. They have a perfectly fine house that they paid $175,000 for but they want a bigger one. They have a 42" TV but they want a 60". They are making $60,000 per year but they want to make $100,000. It goes on and on. All over the world. Why should these chicas be any different?

People are always "networking", hoping the next introduction leads to a better opportunity. GD, you are very much in the minority in that regard. As am I. Was talking to a guy at Casa Cayena just yesterday. He said he was going to retire in 2 years. I asked him why not retire now? He said that by working another 2 years he would have another $8,000 per year. I asked him if he needed the extra $8,000. He said no but that it was too much money to pass up. That is the way most people think.



In 1985 I started my first accounting job.

This 65 year old accountant named Sam taught me something major


"The masses are asses"

This statement is 1,000% true

[Hunter]

The overwhelming majority of people do not share that sentiment. Almost everyone wants more. They have a $15,000 Hyundia but they want a BMW. They have a perfectly fine house that they paid $175,000 for but they want a bigger one. They have a 42" TV but they want a 60". They are making $60,000 per year but they want to make $100,000. It goes on and on. All over the world. Why should these chicas be any different?

People are always "networking", hoping the next introduction leads to a better opportunity. GD, you are very much in the minority in that regard. As am I. Was talking to a guy at Casa Cayena just yesterday. He said he was going to retire in 2 years. I asked him why not retire now? He said that by working another 2 years he would have another $8,000 per year. I asked him if he needed the extra $8,000. He said no but that it was too much money to pass up. That is the way most people think.

I could have retired at 80% of my full salary if I had worked 8 more years and not retired at 55. That would mean that I would have 3 more years to work from today. It was a significant amount of money. Except I figured I had enough for a very modest lifestyle by retiring at 55. The extra money would have been nice but I would never trade it for the 5 years I have had since my retirement. My quality of "things" and my income is not great. My quality of life is great (in my opinion). The majority of people sacrifice, at least in part, the latter for the former even if it is not an absolute necessity..

I think age has a big factor in what you want in life....

If everyone with just content where they are everyone would work at mcdonalds and flip burgers for the rest of your life :rofl: Our system works because you want to better your self in life.

But you reach a certain age I believe in your 50s where you just don't have that motivation to climb that ladder...you have been climbing it for 3o years and don't feel like doing it again. Though Colonel Sanders was 70 when he it big :wink: All depends on what floats your boat. Most guys have a family and financial obligations that many of us on this board don't have also.

I once heard on the radio and I think its true is the rich and middle class aren't really that far apart as far as everyday living. Like you said above. Yeah they have nicer showers and nicer TVs and cars but there really isn't that big a difference in everyday living....

Where the huge gap is the poor living in shacks in Kenya-dr versus us here in USA.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I think age has a big factor in what you want in life....

If everyone with just content where they are everyone would work at mcdonalds and flip burgers for the rest of your life :rofl: Our system works because you want to better your self in life.

But you reach a certain age I believe in your 50s where you just don't have that motivation to climb that ladder...you have been climbing it for 3o years and don't feel like doing it again. Though Colonel Sanders was 70 when he it big :wink: All depends on what floats your boat. Most guys have a family and financial obligations that many of us on this board don't have also.



If you hit 50, never been married and don't have children, then you should have everything you want, unless you have a drinking or gambling problem.

[Kevy]

OTOH, many people retire too early without a plan, where do you think all those 70 yo walmart greeters come from:rofl::rofl::rofl:

[greydread]

OTOH, many people retire too early without a plan, where do you think all those 70 yo walmart greeters come from:rofl::rofl::rofl:
Are you kidding me?

That's a career gig...



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8zNsUTWsOc

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

OTOH, many people retire too early without a plan, where do you think all those 70 yo walmart greeters come from:rofl::rofl::rofl:

They want to get away from the wife so they go to work.

[greydread]

They want to get away from the wife so they go to work.

It's hard to go from spending you entire adult life going somewhere you are needed every day to sitting around all day with nothing in particular to do and nowhere in particular to be.

Some can't make the adjustment. If I ever try it'll be because my body hurts too much for me to make it in to work every day otherwise I plan to do what I do for as long as I'm able.

I had my year off (2012) and that's enough for me. I'm glad I shifted gears though, everyone I know who didn't is dead or ill. Stress is the most evil Bitch you'll ever know.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

It's hard to go from spending you entire adult life going somewhere you are needed every day to sitting around all day with nothing in particular to do and nowhere in particular to be.

Some can't make the adjustment. If I ever try it'll be because my body hurts too much for me to make it in to work every day otherwise I plan to do what I do for as long as I'm able.

I had my year off (2012) and that's enough for me. I'm glad I shifted gears though, everyone I know who didn't is dead or ill. Stress is the most evil Bitch you'll ever know.



I am single so I took a vacation day, a sick day and did whatever i wanted. Most married guys i knew never did a thing by themselves.

[greydread]

I am single so I took a vacation day, a sick day and did whatever i wanted. Most married guys i knew never did a thing by themselves.

I got away more when I was married than I do now.

There's nothing to escape.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I got away more when I was married than I do now.

There's nothing to escape.

The guys I am talking about have been married for the last 20 -30 years, first marriage.:corky:

[greydread]

The guys I am talking about have been married for the last 20 -30 years, first marriage.:corky:

It's too late for them anyway. Let's concentrate on those who can be saved.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

It's too late for them anyway. Let's concentrate on those who can be saved.

I don't save hoes and I sure don't save simps and drones.

[greydread]

I don't save hoes and I sure don't save simps and drones.

I have actually managed to talk a few married buddies into taking a trip that would change their lives for the better.

The ones who remained married took charge of their lives and their Wives learned to appreciate them.

It's a beautiful thing to see a Guy find his balls 20 years into a marriage. No Woman loves a wimp.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I have actually managed to talk a few married buddies into taking a trip that would change their lives for the better.

The ones who remained married took charge of their lives and their Wives learned to appreciate them.

It's a beautiful thing to see a Guy find his balls 20 years into a marriage. No Woman loves a wimp.

Good for you.


I prefer to travel with the never married bunch. There are no excuses and there are so many in that bunch.

[greydread]

Good for you.


I prefer to travel with the never married bunch. There are no excuses and there are so many in that bunch.

Most of the single Guys I know can't plan past next weekend. They're the 1st ones trying to wife-up some Ho.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Most of the single Guys I know can't plan past next weekend. They're the 1st ones trying to wife-up some Ho.

Really?


I travel with Maxi, Kevy, papi, Gold, Hunter to name just a few and we book trips 3 - 9 months in advance.


Ps Riches and WSJ3, have many trips booked in advance

None of them wife up.


We travel in different circles I guess.

[greydread]

Really?


I travel with Maxi, Kevy, papi, Gold, Hunter to name just a few and we book trips 3 - 9 months in advance.


Ps Riches and WSJ3, have many trips booked in advance

None of them wife up.


We travel in different circles I guess.

Difference is they were already in the game.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Difference is they were already in the game.

Stop trying to help people and focus on yourself, your kids and your punani

[greydread]

Stop trying to help people and focus on yourself, your kids and your punani

Stop trying to help People? Where would I be in life without mentorship and the People who've helped me understand my way through it all? Not passing it forward just ain't in my nature.

Me, my Kids and my Punani are fine. There's much more to life than selfish pursuits. A Guy whom I've know for at least 20 years is about 45 and has been married and working 2 full time jobs since I've known him. A few years ago he came to Santo Domingo with a few of us on the only vacation he's ever had in his adult life that didn't involve dragging the old battleaxe and all their munchkins to Disney world or some other money pit. 5 days of massages, different Pum-Pum every day and night and nobody digging in his pockets was clearly the best 5 days of his life. He talks about that trip every time I see him. He's still working 2 jobs and he's got Kids in college now but he knows what it feels like to be pampered. So many have no idea.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Stop trying to help People? Where would I be in life without mentorship and the People who've helped me understand my way through it all? Not passing it forward just ain't in my nature.

Me, my Kids and my Punani are fine. There's much more to life than selfish pursuits. A Guy whom I've know for at least 20 years is about 45 and has been married and working 2 full time jobs since I've known him. A few years ago he came to Santo Domingo with a few of us on the only vacation he's ever had in his adult life that didn't involve dragging the old battleaxe and all their munchkins to Disney world or some other money pit. 5 days of massages, different Pum-Pum every day and night and nobody digging in his pockets was clearly the best 5 days of his life. He talks about that trip every time I see him. He's still working 2 jobs and he's got Kids in college now but he knows what it feels like to be pampered. So many have no idea.

So now he can talk about those 5 days the next 20 years. Wonderful.:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:


You have so much to teach. I can learn a few 100 new things.

[greydread]

So now he can talk about those 5 days the next 20 years. Wonderful.:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:


You have so much to teach. I can learn a few 100 new things.

You seem to be doing okay without my help.

I bring aid to the needy, not to the greedy.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

You seem to be doing okay without my help.

I bring aid to the needy, not to the greedy.

I am far from greedy. I like to be well rounded. Kevy is doing his best but I need a Village.

[greydread]

I am far from greedy. I like to be well rounded. Kevy is doing his best but I need a Village.



:rofl::rofl::rofl::rolleyes::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

[SeaWeed]

mi know of very few gurls on the J island that gain any kind of revenue to speak of from the social media sites......
sure they get lucky sometimes.....maybe some a couple times...
but just even trying to meet a guy that is on vacation for a date....
is a rare occurrence from the social media sites on the J island...
the private whores usually have the best luck.....but they put hours and hours into the internet everyday.....
most gurls here have the best luck when they go out......and meet a guy.....fuck....stay with them for their vacation...
and then try to Western Union dem for months or years.......saying they are der gf's.......
some go to the extent of posting of their pics together on FB or dem other sites....
even though they are fucking other gringos and locals...lol

[Hanzo]

Here's my question, why do you think the chicas give a single fuck about how much money she could potentially earn with you in the future? These women are so use to having men lie to them, and promise them everything under the moon, and the time frame for all these promises is always the future.

You telling the chick she's going to earn X amount of money with you, means jack shit to her, because in the 'right now' she has all these "problems" she wants to resolve, and your promise of cash 6 months from now, ain't putting food on the table tomorrow night, nor is it buying junior new pampers, and milk.

I understand your point, but I'm shocked you're surprised about her not understand your payout concept. She doesn't care about how much money you're going to give her in x amount of months, when you return, she cares about all the issues she wants to resolve with that money right now.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Here's my question, why do you think the chicas give a single fuck about how much money she could potentially earn with you in the future? These women are so use to having men lie to them, and promise them everything under the moon, and the time frame for all these promises is always the future.

You telling the chick she's going to earn X amount of money with you, means jack shit to her, because in the 'right now' she has all these "problems" she wants to resolve, and your promise of cash 6 months from now, ain't putting food on the table tomorrow night, nor is it buying junior new pampers, and milk.

I understand your point, but I'm shocked you're surprised about her not understand your payout concept. She doesn't care about how much money you're going to give her in x amount of months, when you return, she cares about all the issues she wants to resolve with that money right now.

Things are different in other countries.

Some of us tell no lies.


Most know that they get fatter, I am done with them.

[greydread]

Here's my question, why do you think the chicas give a single fuck about how much money she could potentially earn with you in the future? These women are so use to having men lie to them, and promise them everything under the moon, and the time frame for all these promises is always the future.

You telling the chick she's going to earn X amount of money with you, means jack shit to her, because in the 'right now' she has all these "problems" she wants to resolve, and your promise of cash 6 months from now, ain't putting food on the table tomorrow night, nor is it buying junior new pampers, and milk.

I understand your point, but I'm shocked you're surprised about her not understand your payout concept. She doesn't care about how much money you're going to give her in x amount of months, when you return, she cares about all the issues she wants to resolve with that money right now.
Yeah, I guess that's why they're selling ass in the 1st place.

This is how it goes when People try to solve problems that are bigger than money....with money.

[Hanzo]

Things are different in other countries.

Some of us tell no lies.


Most know that they get fatter, I am done with them.

Yeah, but my point is, your promise of money in the future, means nothing to the girl, even if you fully intend to carry it out. You explaining to her that if she goes with you at $1,500 a night, for the next 10 nights, assures her another 20 nights throughout the year, whilst may surprise you, should mean nothing to her whatsoever. She needs money today, and tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow, you telling her in 5 months, you'll give her another spin doesn't resolve whatever financial issue she has in the moment, I want to make clear I'm not saying there's anything wrong with your way of doing things, nor am I advocating for you to send money to her, I'm more pointing out that there should be no surprise about these request for money.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Yeah, but my point is, your promise of money in the future, means nothing to the girl, even if you fully intend to carry it out. You explaining to her that if she goes with you at $1,500 a night, for the next 10 nights, assures her another 20 nights throughout the year, whilst may surprise you, should mean nothing to her whatsoever. She needs money today, and tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow, you telling her in 5 months, you'll give her another spin doesn't resolve whatever financial issue she has in the moment, I want to make clear I'm not saying there's anything wrong with your way of doing things, nor am I advocating for you to send money to her, I'm more pointing out that there should be no surprise about these request for money.

I have an understanding with a few in Dr and it worked out over time. They are out there, takes time to locate them.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Yeah, I guess that's why they're selling ass in the 1st place.

This is how it goes when People try to solve problems that are bigger than money....with money.

Guy has Hot Dog Stand, chica has pussy stand.


Both are legal business.

[Hanzo]

I have an understanding with a few in Dr and it worked out over time. They are out there, takes time to locate them.

I'm sure they're out there, but they're the exception, not the rule.

[greydread]

Guy has Hot Dog Stand, chica has pussy stand.


Both are legal business.
No secret where my money's going.

I don't fuck with hot dogs.

I hope she's got fresh buns.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I'm sure they're out there, but they're the exception, not the rule.

We are the exceptions not the rule as well.

[JD426]

How do chicas manage to stay so broke selling something they dont even have to replace...
Its like having UNLIMITED inventory of something, and given a certain Span of YEARS , in which to sell as much of it as you can..
Thats a DREAM for most business models.
... yet somehow these chicas manage to fuck it up..
Cuz they dont understand the concept of how TIME passes and time is $..
At some point you gotta stop being 7 years old and have a plan.

And if you see them on 2 or 3 trips in a row, and each trip they make $, how does this equate to the Dominican Men who LIE to them all the time ?
I dont even get the connection..
So, not our fault Really..for at least trying to explain these things to them..

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

How do chicas manage to stay so broke selling something they dont even have to replace...
Its like having UNLIMITED inventory of something, and given a certain Span of YEARS , in which to sell as much of it as you can..
Thats a DREAM for most business models.
... yet somehow these chicas manage to fuck it up..
Cuz they dont understand the concept of how TIME passes and time is $..
At some point you gotta stop being 7 years old and have a plan.

.

How do Stock Brokers that made a million a year end up broke after they lose their jobs?

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

And if you see them on 2 or 3 trips in a row, and each trip they make $, how does this equate to the Dominican Men who LIE to them all the time ?
I dont even get the connection..
So, not our fault Really..for at least trying to explain these things to them..

Most of these guys are hanging with 18 year olds.

They are silly kids.

[greydread]

How do chicas manage to stay so broke selling something they dont even have to replace...
Its like having UNLIMITED inventory of something, and given a certain Span of YEARS , in which to sell as much of it as you can..
Thats a DREAM for most business models.
... yet somehow these chicas manage to fuck it up..
Cuz they dont understand the concept of how TIME passes and time is $..
At some point you gotta stop being 7 years old and have a plan.

And if you see them on 2 or 3 trips in a row, and each trip they make $, how does this equate to the Dominican Men who LIE to them all the time ?
I dont even get the connection..
So, not our fault Really..for at least trying to explain these things to them..
Imagine having to go through life as an adult with a 3rd grade education.

Being a useless appendage and then one day {BANG!} you are a fully grown and well developed young Women and every Man who sees you wants to fuck you and will dig in his pocket to prove it.

Money is coming in but there is too much that you need to spend money on and it will never be enough....and you only have a 3rd grade education so you sell it and sell it and sell it and then one day....nobody's buying anymore.

You should see some of the Stars I used to get with in the 70's today. Even the ones who still look good look "good-for-their-age".

It will always be a buyer's market.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Imagine having to go through life as an adult with a 3rd grade education.

Being a useless appendage and then one day {BANG!} you are a fully grown and well developed young Women and every Man who sees you wants to fuck you and will dig in his pocket to prove it.

Money is coming in but there is too much that you need to spend money on and it will never be enough....and you only have a 3rd grade education so you sell it and sell it and sell it and then one day....nobody's buying anymore.

You should see some of the Stars I used to get with in the 70's today. Even the ones who still look good look "good-for-their-age".

It will always be a buyer's market.

And to think, 100's of fools marry them and bring them home:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

[Irie]

Imagine having to go through life as an adult with a 3rd grade education.

Being a useless appendage and then one day {BANG!} you are a fully grown and well developed young Women and every Man who sees you wants to fuck you and will dig in his pocket to prove it.

Money is coming in but there is too much that you need to spend money on and it will never be enough....and you only have a 3rd grade education so you sell it and sell it and sell it and then one day....nobody's buying anymore.

You should see some of the Stars I used to get with in the 70's today. Even the ones who still look good look "good-for-their-age".

It will always be a buyer's market.



There's something in that statement that I like...........but I just can't put my finger in it.

[greydread]

And to think, 100's of fools marry them and bring them home:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
Well, there's a give and take there.

If a Man wants Children he can't do it by himself.

The right Woman is far more than a piece of tail and has value beyond anything a Ho can ever offer to you.

The right Woman can secure your position, socially which can secure your position financially but that kind of Woman doesn't just fall off the Ho tree.

My 1st Ex taught me most of what I needed to know to get ahead in my career and life in general and she gave me a legacy of two Children and 7 Grandchildren.

All I gave her was a house. We'll never be even.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Well, there's a give and take there.

If a Man wants Children he can't do it by himself.

The right Woman is far more than a piece of tail and has value beyond anything a Ho can ever offer to you.

The right Woman can secure your position, socially which can secure your position financially but that kind of Woman doesn't just fall off the Ho tree.

My 1st Ex taught me most of what I needed to know to get ahead in my career and life in general and she gave me a legacy of two Children and 7 Grandchildren.

All I gave her was a house. We'll never be even.

But these hoes are not the right women, they are third graders.

[greydread]

But these hoes are not the right women, they are third graders.
Very, very true and we all need to understand the difference.

You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear.

[jose1234]

judgments and assumptions... it goes both ways and seldom does either side have a clue about the other or really want to fully disclose... just sayin... :rofl:

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Very, very true and we all need to understand the difference.

You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear.

You can't make Ice Cream from a bag of dirt.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

judgments and assumptions... it goes both ways and seldom does either side have a clue about the other or really want to fully disclose... just sayin... :rofl:

About hoes being the ones?

[greydread]

You can't make Ice Cream from a bag of dirt.
But you can make mud cookies.



http://cdn.acidcow.com/content/img/new02/28/02.jpg

[jose1234]

About hoes being the ones?


Well that is one thing... They are obviously human and will sometimes give a heart to heart, but more often than not, at least in Sosua (I will qualify that when I remember too), the heart to heart is used to pull you into their life so you get feelings in order to keep the pesos coming to them and also so that they may get some WU when you go home and for some to get hitched so you take them to the USA, Canada or other nice places... They do take guys to see their family and such...but its part of the strategy most of the time...imho...

[greydread]

Well that is one thing... They are obviously human and will sometimes give a heart to heart, but more often than not, at least in Sosua (I will qualify that when I remember too), the heart to heart is used to pull you into their life so you get feelings in order to keep the pesos coming to them and also so that they may get some WU when you go home and for some to get hitched so you take them to the USA, Canada or other nice places... They do take guys to see their family and such...but its part of the strategy most of the time...imho...
Can't get mad...it's their job. The only one they'll ever have a chance at being good at.

[Seville]

I was talking to a chica last week. I told her that a girl turned down my offer to make some pesos one night and then next day asked me to buy her lunch. I told the chica that the girl was stupid for even asking me for lunch after turning down my offer to earn money. The chica laughed and said that the girl was not stupid for asking but I would have been stupid if I had actually bought her lunch.

Asking for and expecting things to just be given to them is what they do. Only takes one fool and she has lunch. And there are many fools.

It is like the "change" guy on the corner. In four years I have never gotten change from the guy. NEVER. He has yelled out "change!" to me 500 or 600 times. And the next time I go by him he will ask me again. Chicas ask because they think they have nothing to lose by doing so. The worst that will happen is that you say no.

[jose1234]

Can't get mad...it's their job. The only one they'll ever have a chance at being good at.

And when its over...its over...they are fat and taking care of their kids kids...

But some of the girls really are taking care of large families who are sucking off their daughters puta earnings and using the money for clothes and schooling for their kids.

After a bit of time on the job, the chicas get so good at lying it becomes second nature and they just can't help themselves...they want to test the next lie to see how far they can take it...it can be a game... They don't take many of the guys seriously and think many guys are idiots... But when they are with the guy they make the guy feel like he is special and amazing and you know....

On the alternative note...many guys like the romance of the chicas and want to know all about them and their struggles and such... they think the sex is better because of this and more meaningful...less empty and they quickly gain some feelings...then promise this and that...even propose, send a bit of WU for a while and then reality hits them and they never come back or break up and give a little extra WU hoping the chicas don't get too mad and disrupt their next trip here... its part of the landscape...Chicas don't really believe its completely true until it happens and then they are a bit shocked... LOL

Its a dance and game...but all that is really real is there is money and there is sex and there is a transaction... some chicas strategy is to play a full court press and take as much as they can right away until the guy says no more and then moves on and some will roll the dice that the guy will not get tired of them the next night. Guys often get great sex and experience and intend on staying with that same chica...but then the next night they are out and have a few beers or take a walk and start talkng to a chica with a pretty face with great legs and a butt that wiggles so cutely...and they like what they see and want to fuck that new girl... It depends upon the guy...but the chicas don't know what is going on in your heads...They get promises...yeah I will call you tomorrow and such...then they are 15 minutes late and the guy treats them like a puta...LOL or never calls and they figure/learn guys are not to be trusted... LOL

[greydread]

... They don't take many of the guys seriously and think many guys are idiots... But when they are with the guy they make the guy feel like he is special and amazing and you know....

.. It depends upon the guy...but the chicas don't know what is going on in your heads...They get promises...yeah I will call you tomorrow and such...then they are 15 minutes late and the guy treats them like a puta...LOL or never calls and they figure/learn guys are not to be trusted... LOL
But most Guys ARE idiots and the ones who are not are definitely not to be trusted.

It ain't easy being a Ho but they got to be a Ho to find that out.

[deezl]

You can't make Ice Cream from a bag of dirt.

sure you can.

but who the fuck wants to eat bag of dirt flavored ice cream?

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

on edit: apparently, the Japanese (go figure)

[deezl]

You can't make Ice Cream from a bag of dirt.

102921

http://www.odditycentral.com/pics/japanese-restaurant-uses-dirt-as-the-main-ingredient-for-its-expensive-dishes.html

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

After a bit of time on the job, the chicas get so good at lying it becomes second nature and they just can't help themselves...they want to test the next lie to see how far they can take it...it can be a game... They don't take many of the guys seriously and think many guys are idiots... But when they are with the guy they make the guy feel like he is special and amazing and you know....



I ignore most of what they say so if they are lying, I didn't hear it.


I ask if they like cum in the mouth and if they lie and say yes, I will know soon enough.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Its a dance and game...but all that is really real is there is money and there is sex and there is a transaction... some chicas strategy is to play a full court press and take as much as they can right away until the guy says no more and then moves on and some will roll the dice that the guy will not get tired of them the next night. Guys often get great sex and experience and intend on staying with that same chica...but then the next night they are out and have a few beers or take a walk and start talkng to a chica with a pretty face with great legs and a butt that wiggles so cutely...and they like what they see and want to fuck that new girl... It depends upon the guy...but the chicas don't know what is going on in your heads...They get promises...yeah I will call you tomorrow and such...then they are 15 minutes late and the guy treats them like a puta...LOL or never calls and they figure/learn guys are not to be trusted... LOL

So many have asked how many chicas do I know and i pause for a minute, and say 10,000, maybe over 30 years, maybe.


They ask if I will repeat and many times, when I don't think I will, I do.


I have no idea what will happen in an hour.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I was talking to a chica last week. I told her that a girl turned down my offer to make some pesos one night and then next day asked me to buy her lunch. I told the chica that the girl was stupid for even asking me for lunch after turning down my offer to earn money. The chica laughed and said that the girl was not stupid for asking but I would have been stupid if I had actually bought her lunch.

Asking for and expecting things to just be given to them is what they do. Only takes one fool and she has lunch. And there are many fools.

It is like the "change" guy on the corner. In four years I have never gotten change from the guy. NEVER. He has yelled out "change!" to me 500 or 600 times. And the next time I go by him he will ask me again. Chicas ask because they think they have nothing to lose by doing so. The worst that will happen is that you say no.

But they have nothing to lose.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Can't get mad...it's their job. The only one they'll ever have a chance at being good at.

Some actually go on to being great maids. A great maid can be around 40 years.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Well that is one thing... They are obviously human and will sometimes give a heart to heart, but more often than not, at least in Sosua (I will qualify that when I remember too), the heart to heart is used to pull you into their life so you get feelings in order to keep the pesos coming to them and also so that they may get some WU when you go home and for some to get hitched so you take them to the USA, Canada or other nice places... ..

There are many looking for a wife or novia. Those are the ones pulled in.


They don't know our histories so they shoot wide and blind.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

They do take guys to see their family and such...but its part of the strategy most of the time...imho...

No where else can a guy be treated like a king and eat what he wants.


We came with 2,000 pesos worth of stuff and fed 14 people.


That included 10 pounds of rice, 3 gallons of oil, and other supplies.


We stayed 4 hours maybe then went home without the chicas.

I must have done this a few dozen times.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

But most Guys ARE idiots and the ones who are not are definitely not to be trusted.

It ain't easy being a Ho but they got to be a Ho to find that out.

They can trust what I say.

They may be shocked, but they can trust it.

[Seville]

I was sitting with a guy in Rancho Tipico two nights ago. Seemed like a good guy so we were having a few beers. A guy he knew came in. Apparently the second guy was on his first trip and was "looking" for a chica. How hard can that be? Anyway, I called a Haitiana I know and she came over. Very sexy girl and great dancer. She shook a little ass for him and he was sold. Off they went.

I see her in Rancho Tipico the next afternoon and she tells me she got a good payday and he might be with her again. Wonderful. High five baby!

Later that night she is in Rancho Tipico and says to me; "Why don't you buy me a coke? You never buy me anything". I just laughed at her. I asked her if she had a client the previous night and who was responsible for her having that payday? That would be me. I told her that with her good payday the night before she should be able to buy her own coke. She told me that money was for her daughter.

There is never enough money.

I did not buy her a coke.

[JD426]

Sound to me like my hardwired theory is still holding water..

I guess this is why peter had to be such a hardass with these chicas, or they would have demanded he PAY them $ on top of trying to keep 100% what they made from the paying Customers.. not a very good business plan that would have been.

u should have acted more Dominican and said
" NEXT time I find you a New Gringo who pays, you pay me my Coca Cola cut up front, and then I will have money to buy you that coke the next day"...
throw it in their faces, or apparantly they gonna keep trying no matter how long they know you ..
I dont think they "get" Subtle.. its not in their vocabulary.

[MyTio]

I was sitting with a guy in Rancho Tipico two nights ago. Seemed like a good guy so we were having a few beers. A guy he knew came in. Apparently the second guy was on his first trip and was "looking" for a chica. How hard can that be? Anyway, I called a Haitiana I know and she came over. Very sexy girl and great dancer. She shook a little ass for him and he was sold. Off they went.

I see her in Rancho Tipico the next afternoon and she tells me she got a good payday and he might be with her again. Wonderful. High five baby!

Later that night she is in Rancho Tipico and says to me; "Why don't you buy me a coke? You never buy me anything". I just laughed at her. I asked her if she had a client the previous night and who was responsible for her having that payday? That would be me. I told her that with her good payday the night before she should be able to buy her own coke. She told me that money was for her daughter.

There is never enough money.

I did not buy her a coke. she should have bought you a beer or given you a free BJ

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

Sound to me like my hardwired theory is still holding water..

I guess this is why peter had to be such a hardass with these chicas, or they would have demanded he PAY them $ on top of trying to keep 100% what they made from the paying Customers.. not a very good business plan that would have been.

u should have acted more Dominican and said
" NEXT time I find you a New Gringo who pays, you pay me my Coca Cola cut up front, and then I will have money to buy you that coke the next day"...
throw it in their faces, or apparantly they gonna keep trying no matter how long they know you ..
I dont think they "get" Subtle.. its not in their vocabulary.

Why bother. waste of time.


have them clean your place and then introduce them maybe.

[Seville]

I was at Rancho Tipico having a beer with Jose123456578. A chica I have hooked up with clients before and also helped her out once or twice calls me out to the street to talk. She tells that that her hair is in bad shape and she can't come to my party with her hair like that. She needs 500 pesos for the salon or she can't come to the party. I just looked at her and then walked away.

It never ends.

[greydread]

I was at Rancho Tipico having a beer with Jose123456578. A chica I have hooked up with clients before and also helped her out once or twice calls me out to the street to talk. She tells that that her hair is in bad shape and she can't come to my party with her hair like that. She needs 500 pesos for the salon or she can't come to the party. I just looked at her and then walked away.

It never ends.

One day you should tell us the story about how Jose got your old numbers....

[Seville]

One day you should tell us the story about how Jose got your old numbers....

That's a good question. I was hoping to leave them to my estate but I guess that's no longer possible.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

One day you should tell us the story about how Jose got your old numbers....

He needed a new name and that was available.:confused::confused:

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I was at Rancho Tipico having a beer with Jose123456578. A chica I have hooked up with clients before and also helped her out once or twice calls me out to the street to talk. She tells that that her hair is in bad shape and she can't come to my party with her hair like that. She needs 500 pesos for the salon or she can't come to the party. I just looked at her and then walked away.

It never ends.

No party for her.

[Seville]

No party for her.

That would be correct. She pissed me off with that shit. Trying to extort 500 pesos by threatening not to come to the party.

NEXT!

I guess I will have to settle for the other 25 that are invited.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

That would be correct. She pissed me off with that shit. Trying to extort 500 pesos by threatening not to come to the party.

NEXT!

I guess I will have to settle for the other 25 that are invited.

I feel like a kindergarden teacher when in DR.

[Berzin]

Try explaining to them a new business model-charge a reasonable price, provide services rendered, and don't bore and/or frustrate any of your clients with third world tales of woe. Dudes on vacation don't want to hear that shit. The chicas will look at you like you're crazy, because that will deviate from their game plan, passed down from one generation of putas and liars to another. They figure if it works one time out of a thousand then it's worth it.

It's not a puta thing, and it's not a poverty thing. It's a Dominican thing. I walked into one of those Yemenese delis in the 'hood and saw someone who looked familiar making sandwiches. He seemed to have a bad attitude, and I found out why. He was the brother of one of the guys from the band Aventura. The story goes that they weren't on speaking terms because the guy refuses to give homeboy any more money, so now he has to work at this deli and was none too pleased about it. The last bit of cash he received he spent on a Cadillac Escalade and was pestering his brother to give him more money because he was too broke to buy gas.

The guy who told me this story, a working class Dominican with limited education, took the deli monkey's side. He said "that's fucked up on his part. He should look out for his brother". When I said "Why didn't he do something constructive with the 50-60 grand his brother gave him, like go to college or a trade school?" He looked at me like I was out of my mind. 'Why would he do that when his brother is loaded?", was the response.

Oh, OK. Now I get it. :doh:

I stopped trying to decipher their thought process a long time ago.



I feel like a kindergarden teacher when in DR.
The difference being that kindergarten kids are capable of learning.

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Try explaining to them a new business model-charge a reasonable price, provide services rendered, and don't bore and/or frustrate any of your clients with third world tales of woe. Dudes on vacation don't want to hear that shit. The chicas will look at you like you're crazy, because that will deviate from their game plan, passed down from one generation of putas and liars to another. They figure if it works one time out of a thousand then it's worth it.

It's not a puta thing, and it's not a poverty thing. It's a Dominican thing. I walked into one of those Yemenese delis in the 'hood and saw someone who looked familiar making sandwiches. He seemed to have a bad attitude, and I found out why. He was the brother of one of the guys from the band Aventura. The story goes that they weren't on speaking terms because the guy refuses to give homeboy any more money, so now he has to work at this deli and was none too pleased about it. The last bit of cash he received he spent on a Cadillac Escalade and was pestering his brother to give him more money because he was too broke to buy gas.

The guy who told me this story, a working class Dominican with limited education, took the deli monkey's side. He said "that's fucked up on his part. He should look out for his brother". When I said "Why didn't he do something constructive with the 50-60 grand his brother gave him, like go to college or a trade school?" He looked at me like I was out of my mind. 'Why would he do that when his brother is loaded?", was the response.

Oh, OK. Now I get it. :doh:

I stopped trying to decipher their thought process a long time ago.

How many family members, Cousins, Friends from back in the day do we think Michael Jordan bought Cadillacs for or sent through school? None!

How many did Emmett Smith? Alan Iverson? Lawrence Taylor?

Now lets' do the math (this ain't hard math, I swear). Who's a Billionaire and who's broke?

Many business owners set up losing business interests because it's cheaper to employ friends and family in a losing business proposition than to give them money/ support their businesses. At least that way you get the write-offs and the begging stops.

[Berzin]

Many business owners set up losing business interests because it's cheaper to employ friends and family in a losing business proposition than to give them money/ support their businesses. At least that way you get the write-offs and the begging stops.

Mike Sorrentino of "Jersey Shore" fame was arrested for getting into a fight with his own brother who was running a tanning salon for him. Apparently Mike walked in one day and didn't like the carnival house atmosphere, attempted to set things straight and things got physical.

Imagine how incompetent someone must be to mismanage a tanning salon.

Getting back to deli boy, he and his brother are no longer on speaking terms. I wouldn't be either, seeing as the "speaking terms" would involve me paying my own brother not to be mad at me.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

So the chica that I had seen everyday last trip got over the fact that I don't send money.


We talk about the same shit almost everyday on facebook.



Like I said before, if the island was sinking and she needed a dollar, I wouldn't send it.:mrgreen:

[greydread]

So the chica that I had seen everyday last trip got over the fact that I don't send money.


We talk about the same shit almost everyday on facebook.



Like I said before, if the island was sinking and she needed a dollar, I wouldn't send it.:mrgreen:
I don't even bother keeping up with Ho's when I'm not in their country. It would be pointless because I really haven't much to say...."So, get any Gringos to pay that rent this week? How many dicks did that take?" "...and he pulled it out your what and stuck it in your what?....Eeeeew!".

...pointless....

http://carriere.blog.nl/files/2009/11/unemployed_santa.jpg

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

I don't even bother keeping up with Ho's when I'm not in their country. It would be pointless because I really haven't much to say...."So, get any Gringos to pay that rent this week? How many dicks did that take?" "...and he pulled it out your what and stuck it in your what?....Eeeeew!".

...pointless....

Click to see pic (http://carriere.blog.nl/files/2009/11/unemployed_santa.jpg)

We are connected thru facebook. I am online anyway.

[ezsmile]

Here is the difference:

The chicas (and a lot of other people) think that it cannot hurt to ask, as the worst that can happen is that the person they are asking will say no. Nothing ventured, nothing gained so to speak.

But really the worst that can happen is that the person can say no and then decide that they have had enough of the persistent asking and cut off all future contact and possible money as well. That is the part that many do not get. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, and future lost.

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

But really the worst that can happen is that the person can say no and then decide that they have had enough of the persistent asking and cut off all future contact and possible money as well. That is the part that many do not get. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, and future lost.

They have no future with some of us. We keep moving on.

[jose1234]

Here is the difference:

The chicas (and a lot of other people) think that it cannot hurt to ask, as the worst that can happen is that the person they are asking will say no. Nothing ventured, nothing gained so to speak.

But really the worst that can happen is that the person can say no and then decide that they have had enough of the persistent asking and cut off all future contact and possible money as well. That is the part that many do not get. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, and future lost.

They must think that 10 no's with some cut offs is only equivalent to 20,000 to 30,000 pesos or so...but if they get a yes...that is equivalent to 10,000 pesos or more for four to six months and maybe more... Plus they don't have to work so hard (pun) for that WU money except all the internet blah blah blah...I love you baby, that's funny baby...I am sitting at home with no water and only power for this half hour while we are talking baby....miss you baby... jajajajaja...

[Señor JDR of Medellin]

They must think that 10 no's with some cut offs is only equivalent to 20,000 to 30,000 pesos or so...but if they get a yes...that is equivalent to 10,000 pesos or more for four to six months and maybe more... Plus they don't have to work so hard (pun) for that WU money except all the internet blah blah blah...I love you baby, that's funny baby...I am sitting at home with no water and only power for this half hour while we are talking baby....miss you baby... jajajajaja...

My amiga is in her shack with internet access and nothing to do. at the moment, for every guy there must be 25 chicas and half them guys wife up with one, in Boca.

[jose1234]

My amiga is in her shack with internet access and nothing to do. at the moment, for every guy there must be 25 chicas and half them guys wife up with one, in Boca.

Yes, your right.