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Sandwich
10-25-2014, 02:56 PM
I am in Las Terrenas for about a week, I found a nice girl in a bar down the street (a bar for hookers) to pass the time until my girlfriend gets here on Monday. This girl was no good in bed, had a bad attitude, and smoked inside the apartment I'm renting (a no-no.)

So I asked her to leave, she got very bitchy and insisted that the agreed-upon-sum was not enough considering she cleaned the kitchen and cooked me some rice. I gave her another $20 (USD, in addition to the agreed-upon $60 for the night.) She refused to leave, insisted that I mistreated her due to the cleaning and the serving of food. When I asked her how much she wanted, she wouldn't even say, only that I owed her more. Eventually, because I didn't want any problems and refused to become violent, I paid her a whopping $120 and she agreed to leave, laughing the while.

She has tried calling me since, and my concern is that she is going to keep showing up and hassling me for money. Someone keeps letting her into the gate in the apartments and I'm not sure if I have a leg to stand on in regards to locating the apartment watchman and complaining since she's a local, and I'm a gringo.

I've been to the DR a few times, both mongering and not mongering. Usually the working girls are friendly and will leave peacefully, money in hand. I've never had a girl act this way, not even in Sosua.

I want to know how can I get her off my back legally without finding myself in some Dominican jail cell wishing there was someone I could pay to get out. Am I just going to have to give her some money every day until I leave? Should I locate a new residence? I'd hate to lose the money I've already paid for this apartment.

I await your suggestions, and your criticisms. I suppose bad experiences happen.

eldorob
10-25-2014, 03:16 PM
For another $120 you could have her buried in a sugar cane field, although that's probably a bit extreme.
So don't do that.

If you have a security guy pay him $10 to keep her away. Tell him your GF is coming and you absolutely don't want the chica coming around causing you problems. He'll know how to do it. And promise him another 10 when you leave. It won't matter that you're the gringo, you got the cash. $20 bucks to him is huge - he'll make it happen.

I've done it and it works. Good luck.

rahsta
10-25-2014, 03:17 PM
What is she asking for now? More money? Tell her NO. Just dont open the door when she knocks.

Sandwich
10-25-2014, 03:20 PM
Thanks for the advice guys. I haven't answered her, don't plan to. I don't want her hanging out on my balcony, my only concern was that there would be no help for me from the watchman or from the police, but if I can give him some bones to keep her out, that works fine. Again, very much appreciated. I'll be in Puerto Plata in about a week, if you're there let me buy you a beer. :D

weyland
10-25-2014, 04:13 PM
I'll be in Puerto Plata in about a week, if you're there let me buy you a beer.
Let me know your dates and your address and I will demand money from you with menaces.

Sandwich
10-25-2014, 04:55 PM
Would you recommend that I had lain hands on her instead? I was on the verge, just heard too many stories about the cops siding with the Chica under any circumstances.

BrooklynBeas
10-25-2014, 04:57 PM
Sandwich, usually you won't get all the answers when you are a newbie and have not contributed , not a paid member for trip reports, etc..

But as stated before, give the watchyman 10 bucks and tell him your novia is coming to see you and you never want to see this chica in the photo (u do have a photo right), if not he knows who you were with... She got money, well more then what she deserved and the laughin part was the fact that she knew she got you.... A watchyman aways works better when you are good to him and I mean that with treat him with proper respect, same as you would like to be treated, and money tips... Also would't hurt to bring him a chicken dinner to go for less then 5 bucks from sonewhere... Instant watchyman friend...

I noticed you paid in US dollars, never do that anyehere in DR, go change your money now! You are already telling them you are lost paying USD... Dont worry, she already got you for more, the watchyman will do the rest if she comes by, enjoy your trip and time with the novia... Change that money ASAP!

steviewonder
10-25-2014, 05:00 PM
Thanks for the advice guys. I haven't answered her, don't plan to. I don't want her hanging out on my balcony, my only concern was that there would be no help for me from the watchman or from the police, but if I can give him some bones to keep her out, that works fine. Again, very much appreciated. I'll be in Puerto Plata in about a week, if you're there let me buy you a beer. :D

As you have her number on your cell, I would delete it, you don't want her ID showing up when your GF is around next week:eek:

Sandwich
10-25-2014, 05:06 PM
Oh I know she knew she got me, just wanted her gone. I do carry pesos, but had run out and didn't want to leave her alone in the room. She's still calling but haven't seen her again. My girlfriend doesn't care.

BigLongBeach
10-25-2014, 05:27 PM
Once a whore i fucked tried to stiff me for the her drink and her wing-girl, if it was a beer or a cube libre i wouldnt care much but it was johnny black so it would have set me back 1K (i paid her 1.5k to fuck in the past LOL)

the waitress walked to be with the bill i refused and i asked to talk to manager, he asked what do you want me to do? Tu sabe que yo saco por las malas! AKA if you dont pay, we know what to do to make her pay us.

Talk to the property manager, talk to the watchman, DONE.



For another $120 you could have her buried in a sugar cane field, although that's probably a bit extreme.
So don't do that.

If you have a security guy pay him $10 to keep her away. Tell him your GF is coming and you absolutely don't want the chica coming around causing you problems. He'll know how to do it. And promise him another 10 when you leave. It won't matter that you're the gringo, you got the cash. $20 bucks to him is huge - he'll make it happen.

I've done it and it works. Good luck.

BigLongBeach
10-25-2014, 05:29 PM
Your a idiot if you do! $120 will turn to $5k quickly

Would you recommend that I had lain hands on her instead? I was on the verge, just heard too many stories about the cops siding with the Chica under any circumstances.

BrooklynBeas
10-25-2014, 05:48 PM
Your a idiot if you do! $120 will turn to $5k quickly

Exactly... I had a post all written out but the IE page crashed and I lost it... Never ever ever ever and I can keep going, never lay your hands on a chica... If she goes to the police, there's no telling how much they will extort from you... And you do not want to spend one second in a DR jail!!!

bailar
10-26-2014, 01:49 PM
Oh I know she knew she got me, just wanted her gone. I do carry pesos, but had run out and didn't want to leave her alone in the room. She's still calling but haven't seen her again. My girlfriend doesn't care.

Doesn't sound like it is an issue........... The watch man should be on this even if you have to give him a propina... After all it is his job:rofl:. Where are you staying in Las Terrenas? If the watch man can't handle it talk to management......

camaro1257
10-26-2014, 03:29 PM
I enjoyed Las Terrenas but...


Sandwhich I spent time in Las Terrenas earlier this year, I loved the vibe but for me the PFP action was worse than Sosua. I went to La Bodega where I met a chica. We left La Bodega and went to another club called Gaia. I was feeling her and I thought we had a connection so I offered her 2000DOP and she agreed so we went to my room. After arriving she starts with "tengo una problema" and she gives me this long litany about how her mother is sick and she needs 3500DOP instead of 2000DOP. She said "si tu no puede ayudarme me voy" I got up and walked her to the door and gave her moto money and she was off.

My first night in Las Terrenace was an absolute BUST!http://news.insearchofchicas.org/forum/images/posticons/thumbdown.gif

I had a couple other disappointing experiences while I was there. My conclusion was that Las Terrenas is a better date location than mongering location but as always YMMV.

bailar
10-26-2014, 05:24 PM
I enjoyed Las Terrenas but...



My first night in Las Terrenace was an absolute BUST!Click to see pic (http://news.insearchofchicas.org/forum/images/posticons/thumbdown.gif)

I had a couple other disappointing experiences while I was there. My conclusion was that Las Terrenas is a better date location than mongering location but as always YMMV.

I find it so interesting how one persons Shangri-La is another persons source of frustration. I do well in Las Terrenas , in fact it is my favorite monger destination. This last Sept/Oct I was getting short time sessions for 1 mil and TLN for 1.5-2 mil with some nice (body,attitude,performance) chicas. Granted it was low season. But the biggest difference is my familiarity with the scene there and knowing which chicas to avoid.

When I'm in Sosua I get crazy numbers from chicas who give me nothing but attitude. Of course this is like looking into a mirror because my attitude while in Sosua is not the best.

I had four nights in the Capital at the beginning of my trip and hated it. Its not the Capital, it's just me... I don't function well in a big city monger scene.

I'm convinced that the quality of my life experiences has more to do with who I am than the cards at play.......

SeaWeed
10-26-2014, 06:08 PM
I'm convinced that the quality of my life experiences has more to do with who I am than the cards at play.......
all about attitude and using your common sense with your big head a likkle.............
guys show up on the islands and leave their common sense and attitude on the plane sometimes.....
they get drunk, high and then sometimes get mean with the locals...and/or act like idiots...
the gurls don't want to deal with them.....or the ones that do.....try to break the bank on them.......
then they wonder why they aren't having a great time.....or why they don't want to ever come back again.......
play your cards right and you'll probably have a great time.......and maybe even have the best time of your life.........

camaro1257
10-26-2014, 06:43 PM
I do well in Las Terrenas , in fact it is my favorite monger destination. This last Sept/Oct I was getting short time sessions for 1 mil and TLN for 1.5-2 mil with some nice (body,attitude,performance) chicas. Granted it was low season. But the biggest difference is my familiarity with the scene there and knowing which chicas to avoid.


...the truth is Bailar you are they Mayor of Las Terrenas...:rofl::rofl::rofl:

XXX
10-26-2014, 07:58 PM
I find it so interesting how one persons Shangri-La is another persons source of frustration. I do well in Las Terrenas , in fact it is my favorite monger destination. This last Sept/Oct I was getting short time sessions for 1 mil and TLN for 1.5-2 mil with some nice (body,attitude,performance) chicas. Granted it was low season. But the biggest difference is my familiarity with the scene there and knowing which chicas to avoid.

When I'm in Sosua I get crazy numbers from chicas who give me nothing but attitude. Of course this is like looking into a mirror because my attitude while in Sosua is not the best.

I had four nights in the Capital at the beginning of my trip and hated it. Its not the Capital, it's just me... I don't function well in a big city monger scene.

I'm convinced that the quality of my life experiences has more to do with who I am than the cards at play.......




I agree 100% with this Bailar,,,,,

I as well have much better success in Las Terrenas than in Sosua,,,,,,

But I feel that you have to be able to understand the Las Terrenas scene more than Sosua,,,,

To me ,, Sosua is a joke compared to LT,,,,,,

I think any newbie or half retarded looking horseshoe head can do well in Sosua because it is so " HEY,,,How Much,,,,OK lets go " compared to LT,,,,,,

Put those same dudes in LT,,,and they are lost,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

They'll probably still get laid,,,,,Cuz lets face it ,,,"ANYBODY" can get laid in The DR,,,,,,,,,

I think your golden ticket is your dancing skills and interaction in the dancing scene,,,,,,,which you can put to great use in La Bodega as well as other spots in LT,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

My Golden Ticket is without a doubt having the Quad to drive around throughout "ALL" the areas of LT and just talking to different chicas that see me driving by,,,,,,And I have had great success doing this,,,,,,as I actually prefer to drive around the town at night vs heading to Bodega,,,,,,

But I don't think I could ever tell a newbie to get on a quad and drive around and possibly head into the barrio and go crazy,,,,:rolleyes:

They definitely are two different places,,,,,,,,,,,,

SeaWeed
10-26-2014, 08:00 PM
...the truth is Bailar you are they Mayor of Las Terrenas...:rofl::rofl::rofl:

is Skynyrd still the Mayor of Boca Chica?

camaro1257
10-26-2014, 09:21 PM
is Skynyrd still the Mayor of Boca Chica?

He has abandoned his office for about a year but he's going back in January for re-election...:rofl::rofl::rofl:

givengo440
10-26-2014, 09:44 PM
Homey...

1 - Change the dam chip in the phone and get a new number
2 - That bitch was worth 3000 RD to get rid of her at best
3 - Pay the security and go to whomever you are renting from to stop that hoe from getting on the grounds because that also presents a situation that could have her in a huff saying she just left your room and etc...
4 - Push come to shove change your hotel
5 - I read you saying you wanted to lay hands... Are you a priest or something? Rich? Do you like Dominican Jails? If you answer "NO" to any of these the aforementioned keep your hands to yourself.
6 - The most important thing I can tell you... Man fuck that bitch and make the most out of your time abroad and if all I said above fails you can do like as someone said earlier and pay that $120 US and have her buried in a sugar cane field :rofl:

Hanzo
10-26-2014, 10:36 PM
I agree 100% with this Bailar,,,,,

I as well have much better success in Las Terrenas than in Sosua,,,,,,

But I feel that you have to be able to understand the Las Terrenas scene more than Sosua,,,,

To me ,, Sosua is a joke compared to LT,,,,,,

I think any newbie or half retarded looking horseshoe head can do well in Sosua because it is so " HEY,,,How Much,,,,OK lets go " compared to LT,,,,,,

Put those same dudes in LT,,,and they are lost,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

They'll probably still get laid,,,,,Cuz lets face it ,,,"ANYBODY" can get laid in The DR,,,,,,,,,

I think your golden ticket is your dancing skills and interaction in the dancing scene,,,,,,,which you can put to great use in La Bodega as well as other spots in LT,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

My Golden Ticket is without a doubt having the Quad to drive around throughout "ALL" the areas of LT and just talking to different chicas that see me driving by,,,,,,And I have had great success doing this,,,,,,as I actually prefer to drive around the town at night vs heading to Bodega,,,,,,

But I don't think I could ever tell a newbie to get on a quad and drive around and possibly head into the barrio and go crazy,,,,:rolleyes:

They definitely are two different places,,,,,,,,,,,,


See I have never been to Sosua, so I can't compare directly, but I get the general gist of Sosua, I don't need to visit to understand it, I've been around, but when I was in LT, I saw a bunch of chicas who were clearly available. I would sneak off to the corner store to buy a pack of smokes, and smoke it outside since the Mrs. didn't like me smoking, and much less anywhere around her, and every single time I did that I was approached by chicas, who would just start striking up random conversations. Multiple times this happened, and every single time I got the whole P4P vibe from the chicks, you would probably be better versed in the LT scene then me considering my experience there was just one weekend back in March.

JD426
10-27-2014, 02:14 PM
You got some really good advice here from quite a few guys who know the DR, the Culture, and LT specifically , and the scene there... I only been there one time, its not Sosua.. completely different experience.. much better , imo... but different..


but if I can humbly add the following.
As to this chica/ puta who you paid $120 to leave and not bother you again when your Novia arrived..

If as you say your GF does not care that she still calling ?? then there is no issue and sometimes the best Action or defense is to do NOTHING.. Not make a problem where there is no problem. and dont change your phone or #. not necessary.. just leave it be..

and if you see her out somewhere and you with your Novia dancing or what not , dont even sweat it.. If she sees you panick she will extort another $100 from you without hesitation. LOL

The best thing you can do is to make like you dont care. you just dont give a shit..

U know like them action movies, where the Villain has a female hostage with a gun to her head, and the Hero says " who , her ?, i dont care about her"..

Play it like that and you should not have any problems... and your stress level will be near zero, if you just learn to adopt that attitude...



Dont ever HIDE, its the worst thing you can do with these Putas
..cuz they see you when you dont see them..

Ive had Sosua Putas straight up walk up to me and tell me she knows me, and if I remember her and her friend, and the Hotel i stayed at , bla bla bla.., in front of my Novia..

... I just laugh and say I have NO idea who you are .. and shake my head.. they get the message..that you cant be bothered.

"but she knows your Name".....

"Wasn't me" , we both laugh..
LOL...

MH16
10-27-2014, 05:44 PM
Homey...

1 - Change the dam chip in the phone and get a new number
2 - That bitch was worth 3000 RD to get rid of her at best
3 - Pay the security and go to whomever you are renting from to stop that hoe from getting on the grounds because that also presents a situation that could present herself with her saying she just left your room and etc...
4 - Push come to shove change your hotel
5 - I read you saying you wanted to lay hands... Are you a priest or something? Rich? Do you like Dominican Jails? If you answer "NO" to any of these the aforementioned keep your hands to yourself.
6 - The most important thing I can tell you... Man fuck that bitch and make the most out of your time abroad and if all I said above fails you can do like as someone said earlier and pay that $120 US and have her buried in a sugar cane field :rofl:

Nail + head.