09/2011 - Reality vs. Fantasy...

[bosshogg]

This thread is for honest ISOC members only. If after reading this you're gonna lie don't waste your time. This is strictly for the honest mongers on here. With that said...We all go to Sosua have been to Sosua or have plans to visit Sosua in the near future. Now we all know why we go and for some the reasons are different then everybody's. Some go for the girls some go for the scenery some go for the weather etc etc but for the most part we go down for the beautiful women and the "FANTASY" of being with these women and if you've been you know that there are some bad motherfuckers down there. Now the question that I want to ask y'all is how many of us live that lifestyle that we bring down to Sosua. Like it's some bad broads down there and alot of them go hard to get you but does that happen to you in whatever country you're from? Or is it only when you visit a place like Sosua? And since I'm starting this thread I will answer first. YES!!! Everything that I bring to Sosua is exactly what I do when I'm back in the states. And y'all can believe it or not but I don't know any of you all so there's no need to lie but just from some of the stuff I'm reading on here and some of the stuff I seen when I was there the last week of August it's just hard for me to believe that y'all do this in your country of residence? So let's get it started and remember keep it real we all are adults on this joint. No need to lie...LETS GO!!!

[Jimmydr]

This thread is for honest ISOC members only. If after reading this you're gonna lie don't waste your time. This is strictly for the honest mongers on here. With that said...We all go to Sosua have been to Sosua or have plans to visit Sosua in the near future. Now we all know why we go and for some the reasons are different then everybody's. Some go for the girls some go for the scenery some go for the weather etc etc but for the most part we go down for the beautiful women and the "FANTASY" of being with these women and if you've been you know that there are some bad motherfuckers down there. Now the question that I want to ask y'all is how many of us live that lifestyle that we bring down to Sosua. Like it's some bad broads down there and alot of them go hard to get you but does that happen to you in whatever country you're from? Or is it only when you visit a place like Sosua? And since I'm starting this thread I will answer first. YES!!! Everything that I bring to Sosua is exactly what I do when I'm back in the states. And y'all can believe it or not but I don't know any of you all so there's no need to lie but just from some of the stuff I'm reading on here and some of the stuff I seen when I was there the last week of August it's just hard for me to believe that y'all do this in your country of residence? So let's get it started and remember keep it real we all are adults on this joint. No need to lie...LETS GO!!!

Lets revisit

[dirty rig hand]

I go for the Weather, the Beach, to relax, to drink, but 99.5% for the hoochie's, the whores, and the ladies of the night. I go as the same person i am at home. I dress in T-shirts and wear Vans, im friendly to most people, i tip well, eat the best food i can find, drink beers all day & most of the nights(this may be the only thing different as i dont drink ever if im working), and i smoke them little cigars(which i cant afford at home) while sipping my cappucino. Sosua is #2 on my list since the environment is becoming less monger friendly. my preferance for the carnival atmosphere of thialand w/ dancing whores beats the sand and beach. sorry

[Westy]

Okay, I'll go first ...

No. I lead a quiet existence at home, and I pretty-much keep to myself. During the summer months, I spend a fair amount of time out on my boat, but that's "solo time" as well. I have a few friends that I see on a regular basis, but I don't go out "looking for fun" on a Friday or Saturday night.

I save the socializing, the "party hearty" action, for my offshore-mongering trips. And even then, I'm not "all about the partying;" my travels are not just about chasing the chicas, even when I was in Medellin with Jimmy and Jay. (Okay, full-disclosure, my FKK Bucket-List trip next month will be all-about fucking and FKK'ing, but as I said, it's a Bucket-List item. December in Thailand will be completely different.)

So yeah. I'm "playing the fantasy" offshore, in Negril and Sosua and Medellin, in Barrio Barretto and Angeles City, in Pattaya and Phuket and Bangkok. My real-life life is far quieter, far more placid, and I'm perfectly fine with that.

[Shogun Warrior]

I don't think anyone of us has the privilege or the resources to have 4 smoking hot, twenty-something year olds fuck the living shit out of you in 1 day. Being able to do it for $135.00 makes Sosua my favorite playground. Motherfuck Las Vegas!!!

[j_d66]

I to lead a much quieter life at home than when I travel and when I travel I do it to have a good time

Where I live you have to drive to get to the bars and thus drinking and driving becomes an issue.

My friends are pretty boring here and the women in comparison to what I experience when I travel are not even in the same league as what I can get in the DR, Thailand, Jamaica etc.

One night I was trying to pick up a much younger woman in a bar close to where I live and the young beauty told me she doesn't date her grandfather. :rolleyes::rolleyes:

I just smiled knowing that what I was getting in other lands was far better than she could ever hope to be.

Except for a certain 23-24 year old that I scored a several month affair with, (I have talked about her at length in green) there simply is not much in my area that interests me.

If I want to monger domestically, I take my game to Vegas but otherwise there is just to much good stuff in other lands plus you get the bonus of getting away from the home life.

I just can't get excited about dating someone in my age range (I am almost 50) as the quantity of attractive women in that group are getting fewer by the day and their attitude stinks.

I don't need to settle for those types of women when I travel.

Once you start traveling and experiencing what else is really available in the world, why would you want to keep your game at home.

[Happyhorn]

As a monger in my 60's hell no I don't do this at home. I have no interest in going with women my age and no chance in attracting a girl the age of most Sousa putas at home.

[The Sage]

I did what I do in Sosua here in LA in my 20s and 30s. Now I'm just too old to be that irresponsible. We drive a lot here so you always got to keep a limiter on things. I've given up trying to talk to younger women. Unfortunately when you're 62 almost anything worth talking to is a younger woman. As to who I am I'm the same person at home as I am in Sosua with the difference being that I choose to restrain myself at home. I could take my travel money and support a youngster or two here , but I prefer a tranquil existence to running the streets. I've dated 25 year olds and while I can keep up I have no desire to do so. A young women told me something that hit me like a punch in the gut. She said she really hated and felt sorry for older guys who hit on her because she wants to respect them in a grandfatherly way and here they are trying to fuck her. That put a real damper on my pursuit of younger women here at home. They have to pretty much come on to me or I limit my interaction to a name exchange and /or a dance. Thank god for the DR and countries/cultures like it.

[bailar]

At 61 I have pretty much quit dating in the states. The mind set of most American females seems to be that dating is the first step on the straight track to a relationship. It is more of an interview process, and because I have no interest in the job, why would I go to the interview.

[Jimmydr]

I don't think anyone of us has the privilege or the resources to have 4 smoking hot, twenty-something year olds fuck the living shit out of you in 1 day. Being able to do it for $100.00 makes Sosua my favorite playground.

There are one or two guys on the site with game enough. I won't mention who they are.

[Westy]

J_D, Happyhorn, Sage, Bailar ... it sounds as though we all agree on this:

The domestic dating scene is no country for old men. :rolleyes:

[Drjetman]

We are spoiled. We know what it's like to be with multiple beauties. There's no reason to get tied down in an American relationship with a woman who overvalues herself like many of them do. We're all set the way we are.

[Jimmydr]

We are spoiled. . We're all set the way we are.

We sure are

[yayow]

We are spoiled. We know what it's like to be with multiple beauties. There's no reason to get tied down in an American relationship with a woman who overvalues herself like many of them do. We're all set the way we are.


There is no way , I could go back to dating in the States, there is no desire at all. I am fortunate because this has been my home for more than 9 years now, I got a dose of reality about 8 years ago, when I was still considering making the DR, my 6 months a year home instead of my all year home. Back in NY, met a extremely attractive woman in her early 40's at a club, an executive in the fashion industry, with an office in mid town Manhattan. I was in my late 40's at the time, went to a few industry parties with her, she paraded me around like her new boy toy even though I had her by a few years. The problem was I had to spend at least $1,000 US, going to those parties, dinners, clubs etc., didn't get close to getting in the panties. Plus had to listen to all the shit about her previous relationships, and all that was wrong with men. The kicker was when I met her 20 something year old daughter, and realized immediately that I rather be with her. Her daughter called from a club in Manhattan that she was at with her girlfriends, and all I could think about was ditching mom, and going there to hang with her and her friends. Realizing that it would never happen, that night when I got back to my place in Queens, after doing the math of the last 4 days with the 40 something, even though she was hot too, and I wanted to get there, I didn't want it that bad, plus that thousand dollars would have went a real long way in Sosua, where I lived at the time. I got on the phone and booked my flight back home to Sosua, still had 3 weeks on the planned trip, haven't been back to the US since, nor do I have any plans to return.

[yayow]

Back in NY, met a extremely attractive woman in her early 40's at a club, an executive in the fashion industry, with an office in mid town Manhattan. I was in my late 40's at the time, went to a few industry parties with her, she paraded me around like her new boy toy even though I had her by a few years. The problem was I had to spend at least $1,000 US, going to those parties, dinners, clubs etc., didn't get close to getting in the panties. Plus had to listen to all the shit about her previous relationships, and all that was wrong with men.

Another reason when I scratch my head when I hear a guy looking down his nose saying, "I don't pay for it!"

Really you don't?

Besides generally what you have to pay in dollars with the costs of dating some of those women, to even get close to it. Then factor in all the emotional bullshit you have to put up with.

Thank you, but ............ NO THANKS!

[j_d66]

Another reason when I scratch my head when I hear a guy looking down his nose saying, "I don't pay for it!"

Really you don't?

Besides generally what you have to pay in dollars with the costs of dating some of those women, to even get close to it. Then factor in all the emotional bullshit you have to put up with.

Thank you, but ............ NO THANKS!

Exactly! I had a buddy who put in 7 dates with a girl and still didn't get laid with her.
She didn't get an 8th date with him cause he got fed up about it.

What I like most is the variety if I want or the ability to wife up for a few days if I want.
All for way less than the cost of a domestic date and likely way better freaky freaky

[Mr. Smooth]

Man....I could take bits and pieces of pretty much everyone's posts here and make it my own. Same deal with many of you regarding lifestyle. Quiet, under the radar at home. Just work during the week and being a homebody about half the time on weekends. Now with football season about to start, that will be easier to do.

Though I love to drink, I seldom go out to bars anymore if it involves driving because of the potential DUI situation. Had that happen in the mid 90's, got the t-shirt, no thanks.

The younger women? Pretty much a no go and like the rest of you, when comparing what is offered to me during the 6-7 weeks a year I travel to other countries to get my share, I seldom find it worth the trouble to pursue anything here worthwhile. Always going to be some sort of strings attached and I prefer a more freelance attitude about such things. And in truth, very few women go for that. Women's liberation only goes so far I suppose.

I flirt with a few at my job but it's pretty tame stuff. Have no illusions about things going very far. Recently a very attractive young lady caught my eye in the breakroom. We talked, she is 21 or 22, told me her aunt had worked at the processing center years ago before transfering to a postal station. Well what do you know? When she mentioned her name to me, turns out I dated her aunt a few times way back in the early 90's!! Obviously, that pretty much crosses off her niece as any potential playmate, unless I was able to get some positive feedback from her but not counting on it.

Unfortunately, she told me that her aunt just found out she has colon cancer and is getting started on treatment to prevent it's spread. I was dumbfounded. Her aunt is a year older than me and is such a sweet lady.

Yeah Jimmy, sucks getting old. :mad:

[Jimmydr]

Yeah Jimmy, sucks getting old. :mad:

But many of us had a great ride into old age.

[Mr. Smooth]

But many of us had a great ride into old age.

Yes, but early 50's ain't old. We are far from entering the "wiping the drool from our mouth" stage of our lives. :corky:

[Jimmydr]

Yes, but early 50's ain't old. We are far from entering the "wiping the drool from our mouth" stage of our lives. :corky:

50's for a monger is very old.


In my 30's I was out 300 days a year with all that was out there, with a full load every time.


Now, maybe once a week or two.

[SeaWeed]

One night I was trying to pick up a much younger woman in a bar close to where I live and the young beauty told me she doesn't date her grandfather. :rolleyes::rolleyes:



different cultures.......different thinking......

a few in Jamaica have said that they don't date der father to mi but it's rare.......
don't think anyone has said grandfather yet......lol
but normally it is accepted for us older guys to be with younger ladies in third world countries......
at home in St Petersburg, FL only the hookers will say hi to a guy in his 60's...no normal young lady will......lol

[j_d66]

different cultures.......different thinking......

a few in Jamaica have said that they don't date der father to mi but it's rare.......
don't think anyone has said grandfather yet......lol
but normally it is accepted for us older guys to be with younger ladies in third world countries......
at home in St Petersburg, FL only the hookers will say hi to a guy in his 60's...no normal young lady will......lol


yes it was a definite hit to my ego.
My buddy laughed his ass off about it that night.

But traveling and easily scoring the younger finer girls in other lands makes you think you can do the same at home.
Granted there are financial incentives in the other lands that certainly help.

I surmise if more of the US girls would figure that out without the negative connotations of being a whore they would do it more as well to help support themselves.

[yayow]

different cultures.......different thinking......

a few in Jamaica have said that they don't date der father to mi but it's rare.......
don't think anyone has said grandfather yet......lol
but normally it is accepted for us older guys to be with younger ladies in third world countries......
at home in St Petersburg, FL only the hookers will say hi to a guy in his 60's...no normal young lady will......lol

Same in DR, most of them is looking for an older guy, to help them navigate through life. God knows the younger guys in their country ain't helping them do shit. Just trying to sponge off them.

So guys like me a lot more established, able to help them out, not wanting to abuse them, especially physically, are the prize.

God bless this country and others like it.

[greydread]

There is no way , I could go back to dating in the States, there is no desire at all. I am fortunate because this has been my home for more than 9 years now, I got a dose of reality about 8 years ago, when I was still considering making the DR, my 6 months a year home instead of my all year home. Back in NY, met a extremely attractive woman in her early 40's at a club, an executive in the fashion industry, with an office in mid town Manhattan. I was in my late 40's at the time, went to a few industry parties with her, she paraded me around like her new boy toy even though I had her by a few years. The problem was I had to spend at least $1,000 US, going to those parties, dinners, clubs etc., didn't get close to getting in the panties. Plus had to listen to all the shit about her previous relationships, and all that was wrong with men. The kicker was when I met her 20 something year old daughter, and realized immediately that I rather be with her. Her daughter called from a club in Manhattan that she was at with her girlfriends, and all I could think about was ditching mom, and going there to hang with her and her friends. Realizing that it would never happen, that night when I got back to my place in Queens, after doing the math of the last 4 days with the 40 something, even though she was hot too, and I wanted to get there, I didn't want it that bad, plus that thousand dollars would have went a real long way in Sosua, where I lived at the time. I got on the phone and booked my flight back home to Sosua, still had 3 weeks on the planned trip, haven't been back to the US since, nor do I have any plans to return.
That is EXACTLY what is wrong with Women back in the world. Listen intently as she talks about all her fucked up relationships and then, instead of pandering to a Bitch with "that's right Girl you shouldn't have to put up with that from a Man, tell her "what exactly did you do to cause him to react like that?" she'll light into you like you're the cause of all her fucked up results of all her fucked up decisions.

In the places where we play, Punani is a commodity, a place to start a conversation. In the places we come from, Punani is bait and the hook is sharp and once you get pulled out of the water...well....game over.

There is a type of Man on our home planets who will sit and listen to this type of Bitch complain about his best friend in the world and nod his head like a bobble-head doll, sitting under the Pussy tree hoping for some ripe Pussy to fall off a branch and hit him on the head. This is exactly the type of fellow that we don't need traveling to the places we go. American Women are the way that they are BECAUSE of American Men, that is my opinion as I've seen and heard too much supporting evidence to deny that accusation.

[Dawkins]

I just found Sosua last year, I have been 6 times. All I think about is how I can move to the DR permanently. I have not even looked in the direction of an American women since the second trip. It has ruined me and opened my eyes at the same time.

[The Sage]

I go to a weekly event here in LA where predominately 35-45 year old women attend. Yesterday the event served as a gathereing point for HBCU graduates. The sponsors were obviously new school because the house was full of lovelies in their twenties. Took me back to how LA was in the seventies and eighties. The amazing thing was that most of these women were in shape. The obesity epidemic was on limited view. That crowd of young women rivaled and exceeded the crowd in Classicos on a busy weekend night. It was all I could do to maintain my composure. On a typical Sunday at this event I might see a couple of women that excited me. Yesterday I was completely overwhelmed. I was not alone. You should have seen the look of disbelief on the faces of some of the guys. They were in a state of nirvana. The old bitties that usually show up were feeling something completely different, shock. One commented to a friend of mine on her way out the door that the place was like a high school dance. Not being the center of attention drove many more of them out the door. They knew there was no competing with those youngsters who no doubt reminded them of how much they'd lost. I had a great time just basking in all the vitality that those young women projected. Put me in the right frame of mind for my soon to be vacation where I can do a little more than just watch and enjoy. I'm looking forward to trasitioning from a grandfather to a predator.

[Jimmydr]

I just found Sosua last year, I have been 6 times. All I think about is how I can move to the DR permanently. I have not even looked in the direction of an American women since the second trip. It has ruined me and opened my eyes at the same time.

Another new poster, :clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:

[Shogun Warrior]

I go to a weekly event here in LA where predominately 35-45 year old women attend. Yesterday the event served as a gathereing point for HBCU graduates. The sponsors were obviously new school because the house was full of lovelies in their twenties. Took me back to how LA was in the seventies and eighties. The amazing thing was that most of these women were in shape. The obesity epidemic was on limited view. That crowd of young women rivaled and exceeded the crowd in Classicos on a busy weekend night. It was all I could do to maintain my composure. On a typical Sunday at this event I might see a couple of women that excited me. Yesterday I was completely overwhelmed. I was not alone. You should have seen the look of disbelief on the faces of some of the guys. They were in a state of nirvana. The old bitties that usually show up were feeling something completely different, shock. One commented to a friend of mine on her way out the door that the place was like a high school dance. Not being the center of attention drove many more of them out the door. They knew there was no competing with those youngsters who no doubt reminded them of how much they'd lost. I had a great time just basking in all the vitality that those young women projected. Put me in the right frame of mind for my soon to be vacation where I can do a little more than just watch and enjoy. I'm looking forward to trasitioning from a grandfather to a predator.


That entire room has about a 35% chance of ever getting married. Those that do, over 50% of them will divorce and never marry again. The reality to this is those hot & sexy black women you saw were just that, hot & sexy women before they summarily select a piece of shit dude that "THEY THINK THEY CAN CHANGE" that is going to fuck her good , "Thug Style" as they like, & then leave them with kids to raise on their own. No sympathy whatsoever here as these women practically have unlimited access to birth control. Most often it is the woman got rid of them as he would never meet up to her expectations as a husband or father. (Wow, where in the DR have we heard that scenario before? Let me think. On Pedro? Maybe? maybe?)

A part of that process is these same black women gaining body weight during childbirth & not being able to lose it. Hard to go to the gym & fuck up a hairdo when she is trying to compete with the "Becky with the good-hair" in the workplace. Ohh by the way, Becky is single with no kids. Most college educated black men want a woman (of any race) with no kids to begin a relationship with.

The majority of the chicas on Pedro do not have a college education nor access to a court system that demands child support payments or jail. They just happen to be sexy as the fuck even with 1, 2 and sometimes 3 children. They also are known to be more appreciative than spoiled American women that have access to the gravy train.

[The Sage]

I can't argue that many of those young women won't make mistakes yet we all deserve our days in the sun. They were looking youthful and full of promise yesterday. Hopefully many more than just a few will find happiness.



That entire room has about a 35% chance of ever getting married. Those that do, over 50% of them will divorce and never marry again. The reality to this is those hot & sexy black women you saw were just that, hot & sexy women before they summarily select a piece of shit dude that "THEY THINK THEY CAN CHANGE" that is going to fuck her good , "Thug Style" as they like, & then leave them with kids to raise on their own. No sympathy whatsoever here as these women practically have unlimited access to birth control. Most often it is the woman got rid of them as he would never meet up to her expectations as a husband or father. (Wow, where in the DR have we heard that scenario before? Let me think. On Pedro? Maybe? maybe?)

A part of that process is these same black women gaining body weight during childbirth & not being able to lose it. Hard to go to the gym & fuck up a hairdo when she is trying to compete with the "Becky with the good-hair" in the workplace. Ohh by the way, Becky is single with no kids. Most college educated black men want a woman (of any race) with no kids to begin a relationship with.

The majority of the chicas on Pedro do not have a college education nor access to a court system that demands child support payments or jail. They just happen to be sexy as the fuck even with 1, 2 and sometimes 3 children. They also are known to be more appreciative than spoiled American women that have access to the gravy train.

[Mr. Smooth]

I just found Sosua last year, I have been 6 times. All I think about is how I can move to the DR permanently. I have not even looked in the direction of an American women since the second trip. It has ruined me and opened my eyes at the same time.



Hey......welcome to the club pal!

And welcome to the board as well! :clap2:

[ezsmile]

I don't think anyone of us has the privilege or the resources to have 4 smoking hot, twenty-something year olds fuck the living shit out of you in 1 day. Being able to do it for $135.00 makes Sosua my favorite playground. Motherfuck Las Vegas!!!

When I had the physical capability I never did that. Now I don't have the physical capability even if I have the resources. Like Jimmy said somewhere else, getting old sucks!

[ezsmile]

I to lead a much quieter life at home than when I travel and when I travel I do it to have a good time

Where I live you have to drive to get to the bars and thus drinking and driving becomes an issue.

My friends are pretty boring here and the women in comparison to what I experience when I travel are not even in the same league as what I can get in the DR, Thailand, Jamaica etc.

One night I was trying to pick up a much younger woman in a bar close to where I live and the young beauty told me she doesn't date her grandfather. :rolleyes::rolleyes:

I just smiled knowing that what I was getting in other lands was far better than she could ever hope to be.

Except for a certain 23-24 year old that I scored a several month affair with, (I have talked about her at length in green) there simply is not much in my area that interests me.

If I want to monger domestically, I take my game to Vegas but otherwise there is just to much good stuff in other lands plus you get the bonus of getting away from the home life.

I just can't get excited about dating someone in my age range (I am almost 50) as the quantity of attractive women in that group are getting fewer by the day and their attitude stinks.

I don't need to settle for those types of women when I travel.

Once you start traveling and experiencing what else is really available in the world, why would you want to keep your game at home.

I think if you lived in Latin America (no idea about Asia), you do not have to date women in your age range. Dating outside your age range only seems to be frowned on in North America (maybe the UK too?).

[The Sage]

Here in the states folks tend to lump everyone of a certain age into the same group no matter how you wear your age. My experience in the DR is that you're viewed more by how well you show your age than by how old you actually are. I once asked my Dominican favorita what makes one an anciano (old man). She pretty much said you were viewed in that category when you're too old and feeble to have sex. Definitely a vastly different point of view than what we have here in th US.




I think if you lived in Latin America (no idea about Asia), you do not have to date women in your age range. Dating outside your age range only seems to be frowned on in North America (maybe the UK too?).

[Mr. Smooth]

Here in the states folks tend to lump everyone of a certain age into the same group no matter how you wear your age. My experience in the DR is that you're viewed more by how well you show your age than by how old you actually are. I once asked my Dominican favorita what makes one an anciano (old man). She pretty much said you were viewed in that category when you're too old and feeble to have sex. Definitely a vastly different point of view than what we have here in th US.

How many times do we hear about the problems with loneliness regarding the older folks, especially the men? How no one pays attention to them? How society shuns them, women don't find them desirable as mates (unless they have wealth), how their kids and grandkids never visit, etc.

Look at the pop culture in America. Everything is geared toward the younger people. Advertising, movies, tv shows, music, fashion. The only time you see someone over 45 in a commerical, it always ends with "see your doctor".

After having been involved in this game for 30 years in some form or fashion, and have seen the rebirth and vitality of so many older men in the various places I have traveled to, it's a wonder why there are not more older American men picking up stakes and leaving their lives behind, at least for part of the year, and relocating overseas to some of these places and enjoying the potential for unlimited companionship.

Whenever any type of show about retirees taking off for other countries is seen, it only is shown through the context of married couples, never the single older male traveler. I guess the stigma of possibly promoting the "dirty old man" scenario is still taboo for most broadcast media, unless it's about a mail order bride coming to America.

Seeing grown ass men swapping spit on tv is a sign of progress, love and the "new" normal of civil rights.

But seeing an old guy doing the same with a woman young enough to be his daughter, or granddaughter as the case may be.......oh no! How terrible, just look at that dirty old man doing that to that sweet, young girl. How uncouth, how disgusting, he ought to be ashamed of himself, he needs to be arrested and locked up, we can't have this in a civilized society.........and on and on it goes.

You know what? That guy is my hero! Let him live out the sunset years of his life in his own fantasy for as long as he can afford to, financially and health wise.

Too many of us, as it's become painfully aware, already are dealing with enough of the cruel realities of being old.

We don't need society to be shoving it in our faces.

[Shogun Warrior]

@Mr. Smooth

Let the church say amen!!!:bigthumbup::bigthumbup::bigthumbup::bigthumbup::bigthumbup:

[Jimmydr]

When I had the physical capability I never did that. Now I don't have the physical capability even if I have the resources. Like Jimmy said somewhere else, getting old sucks!

I only did because I was paying and found it in my early 20's.


One Friday evening between 9PM - 3AM, I had 4 BBBJ's by skinny streetwalkers.

[greydread]

How many times do we hear about the problems with loneliness regarding the older folks, especially the men? How no one pays attention to them? How society shuns them, women don't find them desirable as mates (unless they have wealth), how their kids and grandkids never visit, etc.

Look at the pop culture in America. Everything is geared toward the younger people. Advertising, movies, tv shows, music, fashion. The only time you see someone over 45 in a commerical, it always ends with "see your doctor".

After having been involved in this game for 30 years in some form or fashion, and have seen the rebirth and vitality of so many older men in the various places I have traveled to, it's a wonder why there are not more older American men picking up stakes and leaving their lives behind, at least for part of the year, and relocating overseas to some of these places and enjoying the potential for unlimited companionship.

Whenever any type of show about retirees taking off for other countries is seen, it only is shown through the context of married couples, never the single older male traveler. I guess the stigma of possibly promoting the "dirty old man" scenario is still taboo for most broadcast media, unless it's about a mail order bride coming to America.

Seeing grown ass men swapping spit on tv is a sign of progress, love and the "new" normal of civil rights.

But seeing an old guy doing the same with a woman young enough to be his daughter, or granddaughter as the case may be.......oh no! How terrible, just look at that dirty old man doing that to that sweet, young girl. How uncouth, how disgusting, he ought to be ashamed of himself, he needs to be arrested and locked up, we can't have this in a civilized society.........and on and on it goes.

You know what? That guy is my hero! Let him live out the sunset years of his life in his own fantasy for as long as he can afford to, financially and health wise.

Too many of us, as it's become painfully aware, already are dealing with enough of the cruel realities of being old.

We don't need society to be shoving it in our faces.
I just wanted to look at this again. F'ing beautiful.

If I can manage to get out and go to work every morning, work shoulder to shoulder, head to head with guys half my age and look good doing it and make enough money to do whatever the fuck I want to then I say fuck 'em, let those Bitches come to me. I seriously haven't seen an American Woman who I thought was worth the trouble in years other than the same ones I've been dealing with since my last divorce. The number of horribly out of shape, self centered, self entitled, lazy ass poop-butt Bitches under 30 in the USA is ridiculous. I ain't got time for this shit, ain't nobody got time for this shit. I see guys with good material, reasonably well maintained running after these hags and can barely refrain from laughing out loud.

60+ suits me well. I may not be as good as I once was but I'm better once than I ever was.....

[Jimmydr]

How many times do we hear about the problems with loneliness regarding the older folks, especially the men? How no one pays attention to them? How society shuns them, women don't find them desirable as mates (unless they have wealth), how their kids and grandkids never visit, etc.



Six of the married guys at work over 50, that I bother with have no friends other than the husbands of their wives friends.


The average active guy on here has about 6-12 that he can travel with.


Who is lonely?