newbie mistake

[sosuaman]

something i'll never do again ,,, i admit that i have been to sosua ,, 5 times in the last 1 year,,, and i am going again 11-11 for 6 days ,,,

but even so i still consider myself a newbie in mongering and sosua,, but ,,, i am learning ,,, my game has come a long way since my first trip... ,,, i love sosua,, no question,,, however the last time i was there,, which was 3 weeks ago,,,, i clearly made a mistake and it is one that i shall never do again,,,

i was there for 6 days and on my 2nd day there ,, after being with 4 different chicas in the 2 days,,i met a chica,, a tiny sexy chica,, who i kinda latched onto,, for whatever reason ,,, she was hot ,, everyone tried to pick her up when i was with her at the discos,, they stared at her as i was with her,,,blah blah blah,,,she was hot ,,, but i stayed with her,, and the first nite ,, we got drunk together ,, came back to my room ,, passed out ,, but woke up fuckin and suckin,,, gave her 1500 pesos in the morning ,,

but somehow when i went out from my hotel i was walking with her hand in hand,, to the beach ,, having lunch etc,,, ,, pretty soon i bought her a manicure/pedicure,, then i got her a bikini,, and in my mind i was going to use this money as an advance pay towards hot sex,,, so to make a long story short i spent the next 4 days with her .. she slept with me each nite ,,, yet fucked me and sucked me ,, all i wanted,, a true gfe ,,,

i gave her 1500 each day ,,, but she was latched on to me for meals ,, drinks ,, everything,,, wouldn't let me go ,, but she was hot enough that i didn't seem to mind,,,,,,yea i know,,, i should've had the balls to just kick her to the curb ,,, and i'm sure most of you would've,,, but i just didn't do it,,,,,but that all leads to the whole point of the story,,, now,,, the lesson i learned,,, and i never will i do this again,,, is about being with just 1 chica! the last 4 days!,,yet i actually did slip away to passions for a quicky ,,, but other than that!,, she wouldn't let me out of her site!,, yea she was hot ,, but i needed other chicas at this point!!!,,,and i couldn't stop staring at them and making eye contact with them,,, i can't tell you how many hot chicas i saw that eyed me,, that i would have done in a heart beat ,,,

but couldn't because i was with this one chica,,, a hot chica yes ,,and she could suck and she could fuck like a pro ,,, but i need a variety!,, and this was the way for me to learn this!,,, i missed out on soooo many hot chicas by just concentrating on one hot one,,, never again!!,,

i shall take the advice from someone i told my story to at the europa,, he said he just tells the girl that ,,, hey .. this is my vacation,, i want to be with many different chicas,, and if i want to see you again i'll call you,,, now get the fuck out!,,,i like that,,, and it is the approach i shall now take ,,, now i say all of this for the benefit of the newer mongers ,, as the more experienced,, probably have learned this long ago ,, well ....live and learn! ,,, now,,,, on my upcoming trip,, i am spending a few nites at the clubs in puerto plata,, 2 sessions at passions each day ,, one afternoon quicky from a local hunt of the beach...and off to the bars and discos for conquest number 4 of the day and the one who i'm willing to spend the most pesos on for the day ,,,, 2000 max!!.. and guaranteed she'll be the hottest of the day!! so that's the plan ,,, and i'm stickin with it!!,, 4 x 6 is 24 chicas for the week,, not a bad goal!! :D :D :D
don't make the same mistake i did,, be with as many different hot chicas as you an handle!,, good luck! :D

[BrooklynBeas]

You didnt really make that big of a mistake.... Most guys like variety and so do i... If i find a hot one i may stick with her for a few days... The mistake you made was paying her for each day... If she was your gfe then you should have just told her... I like you but im not paying you 1500 every day and paying for everything else... Thats a pro... or a notaputa... If she is smart she would stay with u for next to nothing... Hoping for the future... Last trip i was with one girl 3 times... She also had 2 jobs that she worked so she was with me for a few hours each day... most of that time was in the hotel... Next time you get latched on to a chica... because it probably will happen again (its natural) just tell her u like her but u dont wanna pay and if she wants to leave then she can but she isnt getting more then food, drinks, and maybe a couple presents... If you must have another chica... tell her sorry but u dont want a girlfriend your on vacation... pay her and leave... its your vacation not hers!

Have fun..

[ErikS]

Sosuaman said "4 x 6 is 24 chicas for the week",,

Ah, to be young again!!! 8)

There is an old saying that goes:

"a King is a King.....
....and a Man is a Man.....
but once a Knight is enough!" :D

OK....maybe twice ;)

[Pana]

It's your vacation dont let any one female spoil your fun ;) .

[Apos]

"....let's walk down and fuck them all!"

no reason you can't have both if you play it right. 4 straight trips i had a steady girl BUT she has a job or atleast a kid in another town to keep her outta the way for hours every day. then i'd hookup with others or go to passions or all of the above!. no reason not to have your cake and eat it too. send her home for a day or 2. when she comes back she'll be really glad to see you!

and don't pay her everyday....pay the 1st time, or not, and then it's room and board only. if she walks you'll find another in a heartbeat!

i have to amend my trip report. in past reports i just mentioned the cost for the chica including food and drink and gifts, etc...in this one i said it cost me about 1500 a day this last trip to have the chica around but that also included my bartab and food when we were together. in reality it would be at most 1000 pesos a day, all in, for her.



:D

[Phoenix]

something i'll never do again ,,, i admit that i have been to sosua ,, 5 times in the last 1 year,,, and i am going again 11-11 for 6 days ,,, but even so i still consider myself a newbie in mongering and sosua,, but ,,, i am learning ,,, my game has come a long way since my first trip... ,,, i love sosua,, no question,,, however the last time i was there,, which was 3 weeks ago,,,, i clearly made a mistake and it is one that i shall never do again,,,i was there for 6 days and on my 2nd day there ,, after being with 4 different chicas in the 2 days,,i met a chica,, a tiny sexy chica,, who i kinda latched onto,, for whatever reason ,,, she was hot ,, everyone tried to pick her up when i was with her at the discos,, they stared at her as i was with her,,,blah blah blah,,,she was hot ,,, but i stayed with her,, and the first nite ,, we got drunk together ,, came back to my room ,, passed out ,, but woke up fuckin and suckin,,, gave her 1500 pesos in the morning ,, but somehow when i went out from my hotel i was walking with her hand in hand,, to the beach ,, having lunch etc,,, ,, pretty soon i bought her a manicure/pedicure,, then i got her a bikini,, and in my mind i was going to use this money as an advance pay towards hot sex,,, so to make a long story short i spent the next 4 days with her .. she slept with me each nite ,,, yet fucked me and sucked me ,, all i wanted,, a true gfe ,,,i gave her 1500 each day ,,, but she was latched on to me for meals ,, drinks ,, everything,,, wouldn't let me go ,, but she was hot enough that i didn't seem to mind,,,,,,yea i know,,, i should've had the balls to just kick her to the curb ,,, and i'm sure most of you would've,,, but i just didn't do it,,,,,but that all leads to the whole point of the story,,, now,,, the lesson i learned,,, and i never will i do this again,,, is about being with just 1 chica! the last 4 days!,,yet i actually did slip away to passions for a quicky ,,, but other than that!,, she wouldn't let me out of her site!,, yea she was hot ,, but i needed other chicas at this point!!!,,,and i couldn't stop staring at them and making eye contact with them,,, i can't tell you how many hot chicas i saw that eyed me,, that i would have done in a heart beat ,,, but couldn't because i was with this one chica,,, a hot chica yes ,,and she could suck and she could fuck like a pro ,,, but i need a variety!,, and this was the way for me to learn this!,,, i missed out on soooo many hot chicas by just concentrating on one hot one,,, never again!!,,i shall take the advice from someone i told my story to at the europa,, he said he just tells the girl that ,,, hey .. this is my vacation,, i want to be with many different chicas,, and if i want to see you again i'll call you,,, now get the fuck out!,,,i like that,,, and it is the approach i shall now take ,,, now i say all of this for the benefit of the newer mongers ,, as the more experienced,, probably have learned this long ago ,, well ....live and learn! ,,, now,,,, on my upcoming trip,, i am spending a few nites at the clubs in puerto plata,, 2 sessions at passions each day ,, one afternoon quicky from a local hunt of the beach...and off to the bars and discos for conquest number 4 of the day and the one who i'm willing to spend the most pesos on for the day ,,,, 2000 max!!.. and guaranteed she'll be the hottest of the day!! so that's the plan ,,, and i'm stickin with it!!,, 4 x 6 is 24 chicas for the week,, not a bad goal!! :D :D :D
don't make the same mistake i did,, be with as many different hot chicas as you an handle!,, good luck! :D

I did something similar about halfway through my maiden voyage. Only diff was she just came by every night to party and TLN. I was lazy and let it ride cause she was a nice fuck but I don't think I will do that again. I did whatever during the day but I want more freedom to roll and explore this next time. I will probably wax that ass again though it was nice lol.

[Escort_King]

Hey last trip I kept one for 4 days but she became driver, interpreter and would talk to women for the crew.... plus she cooked breakfast for the crew a couple of times...

and she had no problem if I wanted other women... did one threesome but was not really into it....

would I call her again... maybe... but she would just be an extra so the circumstances would have to be right... like maybe the night I arrive in Santiago as she has a car to drive me to BBs the next day and can introduce my mates to her friends....

[PapiQueRico]

Yeah, like BB said the only mistake was paying her every day. If you were happy with her then that's no problem. If you wanted variety and were paying her like a ho then that also should not have been a problem.

One word of caution. A regualr girl who is a hottie is like a weding ring here. She becomes somewhat of a chica magnet. The other girls see you with her a few days and that makes you more desirable to them. Some o the hot looks you got form the other hotties were because you were with her!

[David Smash]

I see it as an experience. You did something YOU didn't like. I wouldn't call it a mistake. You have plenty of DR trips left in you so I wouldn't look at that as a newbie mistake. Just some missed opportunites

[WSJ3]

Only mistake made was not posting any nudes of this hot chica...

LOL...



:eek:

[sosuaman]

wsj3 ,, thanks for the advice from you and all,,,,i'm gettin better at mongering and just starting to get into the habit/swing of reporting my trip experiences through words and hopefully in the future through pictures ,,i hate to admit it but i am totally illiterate as far as downloading pictures on to a computer,, i'm sure once i learn it's as easy as pie,, but right now i don't know and have never done it ,, i shall learn before my next trip in 2 weeks,,,, bought a new canon camera/video and look forward to posting my exploits in pics!!,,, :D :D

[gdogg]

If you have pics, we'll help you post them. Let us know...we perves are never satisfied!!
:twisted:

[WSJ3]

If you have pics, we'll help you post them. Let us know...we perves are never satisfied!!
:twisted:

You know that photobucket.com is the solution that most mongers on the board use...

Very user friendly...we can walk you through the steps after you have registered for a free account...

[Escort_King]

I agree about the pay at the end... the one I spent time with knew I would give her something but not how much...

[psriches]

you did well!!

[Rubicon]

I've always found it funny when these girls try to latch on to me and act like I have some obligation to stick with them during my trip. I have no problem with doing one girl in a particular place, going back out to the bar and drinking for an hour and observing, and then grab another girl and doing her. These girls know what they're there for, and what you're there for.

I recall a trip to Acapulco when I had fucked some girl at a place called Foxy's. After screwing her we went back out into the dance area and I started making some conversation with another girl. The first one started acting funny and reminded me that I was with her. I told her straight out "I'm not your boyfriend and you're not my girlfriend. I do what I want." She got the hint (not that she should have needed it) and backed off.

I have never been interested in doind a TLN, as part of the reason for me mongering is because I'm not interested in a relationship, or anything that even comes close to resembling one. I take them, I fuck them, and then I send them on their way.

Sosuaman, maybe I can catch up with you while you're in Sosua. I will be in POP from November 8-14, but I plan to stop in and spend a night in Sosua on the evening of the 11th, hit Rocky's for some ribs, and hit Classico's.

[sosuaman]

perfect attitude rubicon,,, i like it!!,,,
see you at rockies,, presidente is on me!,, :D :D

[Rubicon]

Sosuaman, I plan on hitting Rocky's at 9:00pm and start heading over to Classico's about 11:00pm. Since I will be with a group of 4 others, let me buy the presidentes instead.

[ErikS]

Sosuaman, I plan on hitting Rocky's at 9:00pm and start heading over to Classico's about 11:00pm. Since I will be with a group of 4 others, let me buy the presidentes instead.

Sosuaman & Rubicon,

In the interest of preventing an argument, I'll meet you at Rockys at 9pm on Nov 11th and you can BOTH buy ME a Presidente! ;)

(I'm there 11-20 Nov :D :D )

[sosuaman]

deal!,,, :D

[Rubicon]

Sounds good. ;)