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cuddler
02-21-2008, 04:34 PM
:wink: OK you're at the Merengue Bar doing the lap of honour. Or at Classicos surveying the talent. There are 50 or 100 chicas, nearly all young, mostly stunningly dressed, many beautiful, a lot sexy, all willing. Some look blank as you pass, some look you in the eye, some smile, some grab your hand, some rub you up. There's too much noise to talk and get to know her, even if you did have a common language.
So how do you choose? And I don't mean "how should one choose"? I mean what makes you, personally, pick out one from the lineup?
I'll kick off and tell you how I choose (or, sadly, more accurately "chose").
I don't think I exclude too many because of looks, except for too much fat. I've known enough plain girls who were great in bed, and the opposite too. Sexiness, smart clothes and good carriage always attract, but make me wary too (they often think too much of themselves). And I love tall girls (as long as they're not men).
But I suppose, after some bad Jekyll and Hyde experiences (and I haven't even written about the worst), I was first and foremost looking for someone who looked as if she wouldn't change into a harpie the minute we reached the hotel room. So I would watch how they talked to their friends for clues about their personality. Any sign of toughness and they were out.
If she obviously liked dancing it was a good sign, e.g. was already dancing alone or with her girlfriends. I always looked at those before the onlookers.
Then I don't like the ones who grab me. Not a promising sign. The disco fondle, though delicious, is too calculated, a sign of too much professionalism that tends to produce too mechanical an act in bed. However a sexy dancer (I mean sexy when dancing with me) never fails to turn me on, and tends to make me hand over control to the autonomous regions.
But I guess it's all about the contact. A little smile always helps. And if she keeps on smiling once she's got me on the dance floor it makes a difference. Especially if she then actually looks at me occasionally, which very few of them actually did. Too much chatting to the girfriends while dancing with her back to me was always a turnoff.
Now I don't pretend my method was good. It's too superficial, and it usually made me end up with girls who were a bit too shy. And quite a few times it ended up with me going home alone.
But I'm not asking for advice or criticism. We're all different. What I'm asking is - what makes YOU pick one out?

greydread
02-21-2008, 04:54 PM
But I'm not asking for advice or criticism. We're all different. What I'm asking is - what makes YOU pick one out?
Pretty much using the criteria you just listed. My dick will point out the short list. After that it depends on my mood. Sometimes I'll want a puta to "jungle fuck" and I'll pick a sturdier Chica with a few miles on her and that is usually a two hour deal. Sometimes I'll want a puta to provide the full GFE and that's where it gets tricky. What I look for most in choosing a TLN is a Chica who doesn't like being in the joint. I'll see her sitting back and not interfacing with more than one or two others. She will also be reluctant to run up on incoming clients. This usually equates to "new to the game" and after a little TLC and maybe a little "Y" dining to orgasm this type will get you the best TLN value. You'll have to peel her off you the next day. If they warrant an encore performance, this type of Chica will usually show her appreciation by curling your toes up really tight and trying all her freakiest tricks on you. In a year she'll be just like the rest of them so hit it like it's melting.

agua chico
02-21-2008, 04:57 PM
I usually just go for the shy, wells dressed and clean looking ones. Motion her over to check out the chemistry and decide from there. I never go for hardcore or smokers.

whynotme
02-21-2008, 05:16 PM
if i get a five pound chubby on just by looking at she's the one:rofl:

ErikS
02-21-2008, 05:25 PM
To twist an old American television commercial a bit ("Starkist"???),

"I'm looking for Tuna with good taste!"


I'm fortunate enough to be able to spend enough time in the DR that I don't feel presured and can be somewhat selective.
There has to be a certain degree of chemistry involved (even realizing that it may, to a certain degree, be somewhat artificial).

But in re-reading your original post, I probably should excuse myself as nowadays I rarely go to Classicos to find chicas.
More often, If I'm in Classicos/Merengue with a chica, it's because I've met her elsewhere.
(hard to find chicas with good taste IN Classicos!) :rolleyes:

Hemp
02-21-2008, 05:31 PM
Thanks to Jagu & Greydread

what they mentioned here is pretty much my criteria...i almost always leave with a chica who doesnt really interact much with other chicas or gringos and just chills in the cut to herself looking nice, pretty, neat and well dressed. NO SMOKERS! and if she is merely nursing a presidente even better...i dont like those wild, flashy all over the dance floor, bouncing from club to club putas :icontd:



I usually just go for the shy, wells dressed and clean looking ones. Motion her over to check out the chemistry and decide from there. I never go for hardcore or smokers.



choosing a TLN is a Chica who doesn't like being in the joint. I'll see her sitting back and not interfacing with more than one or two others.

TPdog
02-21-2008, 05:50 PM
Great question......First of all there has to be an attraction, depending on my mood it could be a lot of different types. Second, once the initial connection is made she has to be into me.....pretending is fine but if I buy her a drink she better be paying attention to me and start with some body contact and shit like that. Next, is on the dance floor...same thing, has to be into me with a lot of contact. Lastly, for now she has to speak or understand a little english...unless it is purely a sexual thing and I want a ST...I'm more into the all nighter so a little conversation goes a long way.
Over the past year I have walked away from a lot of chica's on the dance floor because I just don't feel the "vibe"...this is my fantacy and if they want to be in it and receive $$$ then these have to all be in place.

Jimmydr
02-21-2008, 05:52 PM
Why choose? You see 10 that you want, you try them all out over your vacation.

MyTio
02-21-2008, 05:55 PM
Why choose? You see 10 that you want, you try them all out over your vacation. the most I can do in a day is 3 and that on the first day I going to the gym every day now I will try and do better

Jimmydr
02-21-2008, 05:56 PM
the most I can do in a day is 3 and that on the first day I going to the gym every day now I will try and do better



In Colombia I take a Cilias every other day, I try to sample 5-6 a day because there are so many.

MyTio
02-21-2008, 06:01 PM
In Colombia I take a Cilias every other day, I try to sample 5-6 a day because there are so many. you are a my hero I will try and do better

Hemp
02-21-2008, 06:03 PM
and we have debated over breakfast about your animalistic behavior!!!!! your attention span is all of 2 minutes...:eek:

that 6 a day stuff is a waste in my opinion...if i cant bust 6 times, its a waste to me.



In Colombia I take a Cilias every other day, I try to sample 5-6 a day because there are so many.

Jimmydr
02-21-2008, 06:05 PM
you are a my hero I will try and do better


For $15 a session, I will try them all.

Jimmydr
02-21-2008, 06:07 PM
and we have debated over breakfast about your animalistic behavior!!!!! your attention span is all of 2 minutes...:eek:

that 6 a day stuff is a waste in my opinion...if i cant bust 6 times, its a waste to me.


When you are on your dealth bed with $100,000's or even a million left over, you will realize, its not really a waste.

MyTio
02-21-2008, 06:07 PM
and we have debated over breakfast about your animalistic behavior!!!!! your attention span is all of 2 minutes...:eek:

that 6 a day stuff is a waste in my opinion...if i cant bust 6 times, its a waste to me.
I wish I was 18 and had the time and monie I have now .I wish they could event a pill that gave me more juice
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Hemp
02-21-2008, 06:08 PM
your just a freaking slut...admit it!!!!!!!

plain ole slutty...



When you are on your dealth bed with $100,000's or even a million left over, you will realize, its not really a waste.

Jimmydr
02-21-2008, 06:19 PM
your just a freaking slut...admit it!!!!!!!

plain ole slutty...

Slutty with cash to burn.

cuddler
02-21-2008, 06:37 PM
Why choose? You see 10 that you want, you try them all out over your vacation.
Well, well, I wondered who would derail this thread and in what direction. You're good at your job, I must say, Jimmy, stirring the guys up to good f(l)ights of fantasy.:wink:

ErikS
02-21-2008, 07:01 PM
Well, well, I wondered who would derail this thread and in what direction. You're good at your job, I must say, Jimmy, stirring the guys up to good f(l)ights of fantasy.:wink:


Well since we are "threadjacking".......
Cuddler, how is/was brother Weyland doing?
We Americans are interested in your take on a fellow "Continental" and OBE recipient? ;)

BCell
02-21-2008, 07:37 PM
I like picking 1k st's early in classicos and then going back for more, for example:

http://news.insearchofchicas.org/forum/imagehosting/767247be16571aba4.jpg

Otherwise, if it's late, I'll wait it out..even if there's one I want, sometimes I'll have in my head(s) something better may pop up. Sometimes it happens, other times I leave solo- no importa, chances are I had daytime action anyway! You can read a lot off body language, that's the key for me.

The Sage
02-21-2008, 11:42 PM
I've been going after attractive girl next door types who I meet in and around Sosua or in POP who are happy to take the 1500 or less pesos I'm willing to pay. I'm totally fed up with high maintenance, highly dolled up over priced hoes that think you should be overjoyed to pay them 3,000 pesos for half ass service. Once you get out of Sosua and survey the available talent it becomes obvious that for the most part what's typically in Classicos and on the strip are worn out shadows of their former selfs who are not representative of the beauty that's available on that island. I can't even think of when I last took a chick out of Classicos, Merengue, or Latino. To be honest I've been totally not excited about the talent I've seen in these places over my last few trips.

Jimbo44
02-21-2008, 11:59 PM
Since I like deancing to the Latin music, that is first and foremost if I am out at night. She has to be into it as well. I prefer chicas with long hair, who look hot in heels, and have a bubble but of course. I look at their nails, both hands and feet, their teeth is important as well. I speak enough spanish to get by, but if she speaks a little english, this is a plus as well. I like to flirt in the clubs, so I try to wait until sometime between 1 and 2 am b4 I start to get serious. I also do not like the grabbers. I do not like to repeat, unless it is during the daytime. I feel pretty good so far for my 6 trips, have had around 70% above satisfactory chicas thus far

BCell
02-21-2008, 11:59 PM
I've been going after attractive girl next door types who I meet in and around Sosua or in POP who are happy to take the 1500 or less pesos I'm willing to pay. I'm totally fed up with high maintenance, highly dolled up over priced hoes that think you should be overjoyed to pay them 3,000 pesos for half ass service. Once you get out of Sosua and survey the available talent it becomes obvious that for the most part what's typically in Classicos and on the strip are worn out shadows of their former selfs who are not representative of the beauty that's available on that island. I can't even think of when I last took a chick out of Classicos, Merengue, or Latino. To be honest I've been totally not excited about the talent I've seen in these places over my last few trips.

I don't have near the DR time as you, but I "expand my horizons" a little more each trip and my next one I plan to go out further. Thanks for your posts!:iconTU:

continentalmike
03-04-2008, 11:17 AM
I dance with them...

Jimbo44
03-04-2008, 12:03 PM
In Colombia I take a Cilias every other day, I try to sample 5-6 a day because there are so many.

I know u r not cumming with 5-6 everyday. I sometimes have did 3 in one day but only came 2x. The middle one was usually a 500-700 peso bj and quick doggie fuck.:p

Inconego
03-04-2008, 12:06 PM
In Colombia I take a Cilias every other day, I try to sample 5-6 a day because there are so many.

Jimmy your dick will explode, or you'll poke someone's eye out:eek:

Cialis every other day!!! Didn't you make a post about not using any drugs a while back...

Just don't OD man...... We don't want to lose you so young--and in your prime...

Inconego
03-04-2008, 12:08 PM
When you are on your dealth bed with $100,000's or even a million left over, you will realize, its not really a waste.

Yeah, fuck your kids, your family, and all others that come behind you...:)

But I hear you, I want to go out in a hail of foreclosures and credit card freezes... who cares at that point...

...Ahhh... the perfect storm...

Inconego
03-04-2008, 12:12 PM
I've been going after attractive girl next door types who I meet in and around Sosua or in POP who are happy to take the 1500 or less pesos I'm willing to pay. I'm totally fed up with high maintenance, highly dolled up over priced hoes that think you should be overjoyed to pay them 3,000 pesos for half ass service. Once you get out of Sosua and survey the available talent it becomes obvious that for the most part what's typically in Classicos and on the strip are worn out shadows of their former selfs who are not representative of the beauty that's available on that island. I can't even think of when I last took a chick out of Classicos, Merengue, or Latino. To be honest I've been totally not excited about the talent I've seen in these places over my last few trips.

I definitely agree... the talent is just not up to par IMHO ...

sommy
03-06-2008, 08:44 PM
I thought Cialis was good for 72 hours, why would you take them every 2 days, are you not afraid you might have a heart attack?

whynotme
03-07-2008, 07:17 AM
I thought Cialis was good for 72 hours, why would you take them every 2 days, are you not afraid you might have a heart attack?

it is.............if you are married and just wantta bang the old lady once or twice:D

but if your banging different 18 year olds several times a day you need a boost every second day;)

Jimmydr
03-07-2008, 07:35 AM
I thought Cialis was good for 72 hours, why would you take them every 2 days, are you not afraid you might have a heart attack?



Its good for a day and a half.

Ram
03-07-2008, 11:32 AM
From the Cialis website


How should you take CIALIS?
Take CIALIS exactly as your doctor prescribes. CIALIS comes in different doses (5 mg, 10 mg, and 20 mg). For most men, the recommended starting dose is 10 mg. CIALIS should be taken no more than once a day.

Looks like you can take it everyday.

Mad Mike
03-07-2008, 11:41 AM
took 1 LaPela (basically cialis but smaller dosage) and was good for about 2 days (im younger though). Hard to tell the difference for me as im naturally pretty much good to go, but noticed an extra 'boost'.

3somefan
03-07-2008, 04:23 PM
Why choose? You see 10 that you want, you try them all out over your vacation.


In Colombia I take a Cilias every other day, I try to sample 5-6 a day because there are so many.

I think Jimmy may have ADD or better yet CADD (Chica Attention Deficit Disorder)!!! :D

weyland
03-07-2008, 05:40 PM
From the Cialis website

How should you take CIALIS?
Take CIALIS exactly as your doctor prescribes. CIALIS comes in different doses (5 mg, 10 mg, and 20 mg). For most men, the recommended starting dose is 10 mg. CIALIS should be taken no more than once a day.

Looks like you can take it everyday.

How many mg is the standard 50 peso La Pela pill? I've got one in my travel bag but I am too lazy to look for it now. Whatever it is, you don't need it every day and more than 4 a week might be unwise. I'm old, but I have low blood pressure so I can take these things reasonably safely. Dominican Billy introduced me to Levitra. I only took two (with days in between) and it worked great with nil side-effects, but that's not enough to judge. I will do further research next trip. :)

And 3some, your new avatar is worse than your old one. That stuff is not you. You wouldn't find her in Laura Ingalls Wilder.

DRJones
03-07-2008, 10:02 PM
Weyland, please research the question of taking these meds with low blood pressure. I understood from my reading that the meds lower blood pressure and that people with low blood pressure can have trouble.

greydread
03-07-2008, 10:27 PM
Weyland, please research the question of taking these meds with low blood pressure. I understood from my reading that the meds lower blood pressure and that people with low blood pressure can have trouble.
True. Viagra was the first hypertension med found under test to have the "stiffie" side effect. It didn't do well as a hypertension med so it was marketed as a "stiffie" drug. The rest is history.

carolinajack
03-09-2008, 12:37 PM
You're right on point - I hate that back to me while we're dancing so she can chat with girlfriends - if her back is to me it better be to arch her back and put that ass up against me...love it if she's looking over her shoulder too - smiling - or making the effort to let me know she's into it - not just a mechanical ride.

Juggles
03-11-2008, 05:58 PM
I tend to go for the relatively shy, or rather, more understated ones. The girls that let their demeanor and confidence speak for themselves. Next, I go in and spend the prerequisite time with them- an interview period, more or less. If I detect the slightest problem or red flag, i.e. the girl looks disinterested, wants you to provide a steady flow of drinks for her and her friends, keeps flirting with other guys as if to find a better option- then she is gone.

The next phase is conducted on the dance floor. Bodies have to be in sync- as this is essentially a gauge as to how the sex will be. If you don't like the way she moves, her energy, or if the movements of your bodies don't jive- then she's gone.

Finally, negotiations. I save this for last as I MAY be willing to spend more for a girl who performs exceptionally in the first few phases. However, if her quote is astronomical and unbending, then she is gone.

Only after a chick passes all phases, along with some chemistry and a bit of magic, does she get the job. That is how I choose her.

terrierist
03-11-2008, 08:11 PM
At my young age... (not)
with my remarkable good looks... (not)
fit muscular physique... (not)
advanced Spansih language skills... (not)
sharp sense of humour (not)
poise and grace (not)
and my financial generosity, (not)
if it's female and walks upright....I'll give it a try...sometimes they're desperate!!! Especially consider the older hookers with the rotten tooth smile and missing prosthetics. They don't turn me down quite as often as the beautiful young nubile touristas.

Hemp
03-11-2008, 08:23 PM
true...

i was on the strip recently...and the body language out there was no bueno :icontd: quantity of chicas are still filled to capacity on the main drag but quality has been on a steady decline. which is prolly why me and the boys have been spending time "else where"

spent some time at passions :eek: ( i know...i know...hemp and passions who would have thought) but i had a blast there recently!!! :rolleyes:



I like picking 1k st's early in classicos and then going back for more, for example:



Otherwise, if it's late, I'll wait it out..even if there's one I want, sometimes I'll have in my head(s) something better may pop up. Sometimes it happens, other times I leave solo- no importa, chances are I had daytime action anyway! You can read a lot off body language, that's the key for me.

weyland
03-11-2008, 08:28 PM
Weyland, please research the question of taking these meds with low blood pressure. I understood from my reading that the meds lower blood pressure and that people with low blood pressure can have trouble.
Thanks for your (and Greydread's) concern. I have probably misunderstood but either way my doctor cleared me to take Viagra or Cialis after checking my blood pressure history. I now take pills very rarely, anyway. 18-year-old haitianas do the same job better.

Reading up now, I see it is also good for keeping cut flowers from wilting. I shall have to try that stuff they sell in garden centres for that purpose. It should work out a lot cheaper.

carolinajack
03-15-2008, 01:48 AM
I see quite a few guys like myself dont go for the chicas who smoke.

A question to those in that category: Do you find yourself missing out on some quality girls because of this, or does it balance out?

...another one - what percentage of chicas do you think have implants?

Personally love the titas - but hate hate hate implants:icontd: !

Hemp
03-15-2008, 08:57 AM
[quote=carolinajack;433416I see quite a few guys like myself dont go for the chicas who smoke.

A question to those in that category: Do you find yourself missing out on some quality girls because of this, or does it balance out?

for the most part i dont think your missing out on much quality.

there has only been one i have seen who smokes and looks a bit "hardened" by the strip that i have had my eye on (she is very attractive to me with a killer ass). recently...i tested the waters with her...i was leaving susannas with my wingman moshy2k and pointed her out, he didnt know her! so i kept my eye on her the next couple days...me and moshy were having drinks and lunch at dominoes bar and she was there...told our waitress to give her a presidente...she looked all confused at the waitress then the waitress pointed to me and chica turned around and smiled and said thanks...i continued to observe her in the clubs, i just see her hanging out, having beers and chatting it up with her homegirls...hmmm, I'll be back down there soon...and its about time me and shorty took all this flirting to the bedroom :lol:

...another one - what percentage of chicas do you think have implants?

Its DR not Brazil or Colombia...you wont run into many who have implants on the strip if any!, when you get to crystals, el bohem those high end working girl spots...you'll run into that.

Personally love the titas - but hate hate hate implants:icontd: ![/quote

pachederm
03-16-2008, 02:01 PM
I usually take them up to the disco....if they're into you and start getting all hot and bothered...take them back....they'll bone you till the crack of dawn....these girls blow you every time you start to pass out

BadGoodMan
05-05-2008, 05:01 AM
HEY What You Guys Mean on choosing her??? I See MY Best Bet Is THE Biggest Tits And Biggest ASS You Choose.. Why its so hard just pick the most curvy one thats my attitude.. I love a Super Busty Super Big Ass And Super Hairy bush Thats the best for me for sure.. SO I figure that is the best way for sure.. I am a TIT Man in my late 30,s I am not sure Why Just THE Bigger THE Better,, Is it True Too THAT Like Dominican Girls are one of the most Bustiest IN Latin Countries??? I am thinking them PR And Colombian,Brazilian and Venezeulan Girls The Best on this,, The Bigger The Better for sure,,, A.M.

Guychen_lu
05-05-2008, 07:37 AM
you always write the same sh...t. arecho monger

BadGoodMan
05-05-2008, 07:44 AM
YES I DO Cause lot of everyone else does HERE.. I ask for Help on Big TIT Girls no responses,, I ask on more info on Ricos World I get some responses Thanks TO Cheeno I am happy with Info But In the past I asked Before ON info ON Natasha From Ricos I got a little info at least.. Guychen Is this Site not called IN Search of Chicas.. I am searching for chicas So I am not doing nothing wrong on this.. I never been to THE DR Yet So Excuse ME if I am trying my best,, Please Understand,, Sincerly AM....

Guychen_lu
05-05-2008, 09:12 AM
nothing wrong with that- I think I have to excuse me (not you)

Sam
06-15-2008, 08:52 PM
To twist an old American television commercial a bit ("Starkist"???),

"I'm looking for Tuna with good taste!"


I'm fortunate enough to be able to spend enough time in the DR that I don't feel presured and can be somewhat selective.
There has to be a certain degree of chemistry involved (even realizing that it may, to a certain degree, be somewhat artificial).

But in re-reading your original post, I probably should excuse myself as nowadays I rarely go to Classicos to find chicas.
More often, If I'm in Classicos/Merengue with a chica, it's because I've met her elsewhere.
(hard to find chicas with good taste IN Classicos!) :rolleyes:

Actually, it's "I'm not looking for a tuna with good taste. I'm looking for Tuna that taste good.":rofl:

bentwire
06-15-2008, 11:53 PM
looks and class are important when i am in that mood, other times i like a dirty slut who knows what she is and isnt worried that you know it.
The hunt in general is often where i gain that bit of ego bost that i enjoy so much.
I also try a few out each trip that you guys have disscussed in your post, I am into nailing the chicas that are at work, in a bar, bank, or whatever, real working girls turn me on for some reason,,
also like the exotic type (YMMD)\
I think we all change our type of chica desired day to day, many influances of the days activities bring us to want a different type than we had the last time

Sam
06-16-2008, 01:05 AM
I always let the girl choose me. Since I'm too damn old to be picky, if I'm given a sign like a girl giving me a look (not the other kind of look) and a smile,:love: she has me for the night. :quicky: