Naw, the funny thing is that when you finally talk to them after not answering 40 of their calls, simply telling them you were busy or sleep and completely ignoring their mouthings about another chica serves to smooth every thing over and an hour later you got her ass turned up in the air, again.
I don't recall any particular or repetitive and annoying issues with chicas that I was friendly with. They would call me up to hang out/fuck. I answered the phone when I wanted, ignored it or turned it off when I wanted and would sometimes leave it at home...
The chicas were never allowed to dictate, demand or cause issues. It was more like friends with benefits and the occasional bit of financial assistance or just a consistent low rate for whatever reason.
I realize that I got more involved than many guys here are interested in or comfortable with. That likely changed the dynamic significantly, but I know a few other expats that had the same thing going. In fact they gave me the idea and schooled me how to pull it off to a large degree but it sure felt natural.
I guess that the difference between guys that want to fuck and move on, almost always with different chicas, short time guys and guys that have the time and inclination to build relationships.
It's all good if you find what makes you happy.
When you can think of yesterday without regret and tomorrow without fear, you are near contentment.
Your opinions are not my problem...
not to sound selfish, but this is truly the "key" to it all. why would you go through life trying to make others happy when you may be miserable with your own existence? an amazing thing happens when the focus for yourself becomes on you. you start to make life good with yourself again. and because of this, you actually start to make others around you happy at the same time. you exclude the one's who basically have given, or give you "nothing" and start to covet and enjoy those (or the experiences) who do.
some don't ever ponder the question of what makes you happy and they probably should. if they looked inside for a moment, they may find that they need to get the hell up and out of what they are doing in their lives........before it is too late.
Vida es buena....
Wayyyyy ahead of you guys!!
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