Seems to me these chicas are ''B-Girls'' seeking drinks and salidas for daytime sex. Any opinions?
Seems to me these chicas are ''B-Girls'' seeking drinks and salidas for daytime sex. Any opinions?
never really hung out at any of them.
just the black box and toms place.
and we know how hard robert tried with milandi to no avail.
tom place, no one ever came across to me as wanting to be salidad.
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In my experience, any chica that works at a bar that allows you to salida them, is "open for business".
If the bar is the type that doesn't do salidas, then YMMV. It will depend either upon whether or not the chica likes you, or the size of your wallet. Some chicas working at the beach bars won't go with tourists for whatever reason. Others are just picky about who they go with.
If there's no salida, then you shouldn't automatically assume she's a working girl. But if you want her, you also shouldn't hesitate to throw on the charm a bit and test the waters. Who knows? It's Sosua after all.
My question would be why even focus on the chicas who have a legit daytime job at the Beach Bars, no matter how hot she is .. Why not make friends with them (tip them nicely) , and make friends with the owners as well , SO that when a HOTTIE walks by they can help you break the ice with her, esp if ones spanish is weak.. Obviously they are going to tell the hottie walking by what a great guy you are, and that they know you a Long time, bla bla ...
To me, as a Visitor (not an Expat) , this would be a much better strategy than hitting on the chica working there, and maybe ruining her Gig & making it unpleasant for me to return to a beach spot I enjoy.. Also it provides entertainment for the guys there when we hit on passerby's. whereas when you hit on the girls serving the drinks, it may make it awkward. I know they are all available.. but there are so many "softer" targets..
But you guys who living there, maybe its different for you and its the thrill of the chase or something ..
Exactamente.
There are dozens of bars in town. One can go to these bars during the day, chat with the barmaids, offer to buy them something to drink, and feel them out to see if it may lead to something more.
Visiting bars/chatting with barmaids during the day gives an added dimension to Sosúa (to go along with the massage salons/suck shacks and the ladies of the night).
It is not as if I intentionally go to these bars to try to pick up barmaids. First and foremost, I like to go to these places to have a few frosty presidentes and chill. If the barmaid is open to conversation, then it provides me with a great opportunity to get to know about her (and to work on my Spanish as well).
And if it leads to some extra-cirricular activity........well that is a bonus.
Last edited by DASBOOTY; 09-03-2011 at 10:02 AM. Reason: removed extra word; changed 'bar girls' to 'ladies''
Yes, but Even in Sosua, there are SOME Bars and restaurants where a little more discretion is required, some where its VERY or almost impossible (usually where the owner is a Female and always watching her employees, thats a hint) ,
and others where its WIDE OPEN, pay the salida, walk out with chica.
..Its does not take more than a trip or 2 to know which is which, but as you also said there are restaurants for example where the lines are more fuzzy, and if you put the time in it will most likely pay off for you.
Unfortunately there are also guys who confuse this little charade of discretion with "oh i just bagged me a Non Pro" ...Fine, if thats what a guy wants to believe, more pleasure to him.
However, if a barmaid or waitress is refusing your advances for like the 10th time, guess what, that job is more important to her than your couple pesos..
Guys should recognize that subtle cue, most do, some dont..
disclaimer:
we're all just talking here.. noone is being sigled out here or specifically mentioned.
That's why I said throw on some charm, not offer her pesos. I understand that some guys don't know how to flirt without being obnoxious. But it doesn't have to be awkward. And dominicanas, especially the attractive ones, are used to being flirted with. They've been hit on by dominican guys as soon as they started to develop. It's a natural part of they're lives. It's only awkward if you make it so. And if they are interested, most chicas won't have any problem responding in kind.
I've been fairly successful with barmaids, waitresses, and store clerks with just some light flirtation. If she responds to it, cool. If not, you let it go. No sense in wasting opportunities though. Barmaids need pinga too.
JD hit is on the head and answered his own question... A lot of dudes do it because they want to say they fucked a non hooker.
That's cool and all but dont kid yourself they are running a game too.
To be honest i flirt with everyone in dR. from the second i get off the plane. I kick it to the girls who gives me he visitors card, the one who stamps my passport, the girls in duty free, the girl at the rental car counter, the waitress, bartender, i think you get my point.
to answer the original question what do i think about bar girls:
I think that you are on vacation, you should take every opportunity to talk to girls, flirt with girls, and network with girls. You should also do it discretely, and with respect.
You dont want to get someone in trouble with their boss, boyfriend, husband, brother, etc. because you are being a over confident ass
Sure, it makes sense. But then, a lot of younger guys don't have a lot of cash to spend on the younger chicas.
If the chica can't find a younger guy with cash, then she has two options:
A younger guy with no cash, or
An older guy with cash
Me thinks, they tend to go with option no. 2 (especially in places like the DR ).
And besides, an older guy can control certain things, like being in good shape through diet and excercise.
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