06/2012 - Todo la Noche? Or Short Term, Which is Better?

[Tonto4]

I'm strictly ST if wifey is in town. I prefer it when I'm on my own, but I spend more time if I'm feeling good about a chica.

[explorador negro]

I feel you on that. I like the chicas that have that nice natural curly hair that even when they've straightened it out they don't mind jumping in the pool or shower and just wearing it curly after that.

In the US I seem to date "weave queens" I call them for some reason. My ex taught me more shit about a black womans hair and weaves than any man should know. I want a chic with dreads or a natural now.

I get amazed by how many of these chicas think all guys want is long fake hair. I co-sign on the preference for natural hair, especially the curly long. I'd jump over the dance floor and across the club to pull a girl with natural hair. It a rarity in DR that I enjoy.

EN

[Jimmydr]

This is all IMHO....

Why take em all night? (10,704)
Do you really want some chica, you do not know, who lives in a distant third world country - sleeping next to you?
Do you really trust that situation right after meeting them?

The reason they leave early or try to leave early is because they don't want to sleep over. Guys want todo la noche but the chicas don't - even though they may say they do.

I say, do your business - get your nut, 1, 2 or 3 - how ever many you need, take a couple hours, whatever and out she goes - get a great, peaceful night sleep, wake up in the morning, chill, do your own thing at your own pace and head off again.

Yea, if they stay over you get another nut in the morning - which is the main reason to have them sleep over - but then you have the other hassles of a greater potential for them to steal from you, them getting themselves together in YOUR bathroom in the morning - possible additional moto money to get home, and just another chance for them to hit you up for some more doe. I personally don't think it is worth it however.......

IF you are going to take them all night - you best be sure you get her to completely understand what you want, how much you are paying for all night AND how much you are paying if she leaves early - negotiate both prices - or you will have drama - the chica will respect you more the more specific you can be in your negotiations. Talk about how long she will be there, what you want done and how many nuts you want - you must take charge in the talks. IF you get any hesitation or "no I don't do that" about anything - you best move on to the next one - because she will probably be trouble.

A suggestion for success in todo la noche would be - if you just meet a chica up in Classicos or where ever and you have been talking to her for ten minutes - I wouldn't go the todo la noche route right away - test her out first - take her back to the room, bang her, do whatever you want, see how she does - and then if all goes well, arrange a FUTURE todo la noche - maybe the next night - this develops a little chemistry which leads to a tiny bit of trust - which finally leads to a successful todo la noche - drama free - you both know what to expect, how much will be paid and all is well.

It's all IMHO but I say, get your nut(s) at night and pay em to go! Life and your mongering time will be alot simpler.

Very good topic.

[greydread]

Very good topic.

Very over-discussed topic.

[Jimmydr]

Very over-discussed topic.

Never ever

[greydread]

Never ever

Okay fine, allow me offer synopsis:

Some Guys like ST

Some Guys like TLN

Some Guys like to mix it up between ST and TLN

Some Guys Like to do TLN in some locations and ST in others

Any questions?

[Jimmydr]

Okay fine, allow me offer synopsis:

Some Guys like ST

Some Guys like TLN

Some Guys like to mix it up between ST and TLN

Some Guys Like to do TLN in some locations and ST in others

Any questions?

Some like it with beer, others without.

[greydread]

Some like it with beer, others without.

In recent years I like to start any new acquaintance out in ST mode and allow TLN to develop if it's there. I don't like having arranged a TLN and then asking her to leave after the 1st few hours because I'm already tired of her. This has happened often enough to be a thing with me. Then again, there's no better feeling than to fall asleep, exhausted in the arms of a complete stranger only to wake up refreshed and hit it again to say "Welcome to (location here), have a nice day".