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    05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Asking my veterans, those who have been around and seen a lot of things.

    Is it possible for a Sosua chica to change...meaning, being a regular girlfriend or wife...

    Curious minds want to know...

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    Re: Is it possible for a chica to change

    Anything is possible, but a working girl changing is improbable.
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    Re: Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by realkewl View Post
    Is it possible for a Sosua chica to change...meaning, being a regular girlfriend or wife ...
    One or two have changed so that they could be husbands. Don't know about "regular" though.

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    Re: Is it possible for a chica to change

    There are thousands of chicas living in Sosua who are regular girlfriends or wives.

    Or is the poster under the delusion that "chica" means "prostitute"? It simply means "young female", whether child or woman.

    Even if he does mean "working girl", I guess that most eventually become wives or permanent partners once they retire from the game, or the game retires them.

    But what he is really asking is, "is the working girl with whom he is currently infatuated likely to be a satisfactory partner or wife". Probably not, but that depends on lots of factors such as her nationality (a better chance with a haitiana than a dominicana), relative attractiveness to the opposite sex, relative ages, interference from her family (and possibly his) and, above all, relative wealth, income, intelligence and level of education, etc, etc. Also important is the question of where the pair will live, his country or hers.

    Not much difference from the chances of any other pairing making it long-term, then.

    Last year I finished an eight-year co-habitation with a (very part-time) working girl which was generally very happy and worthwhile for both parties. We parted on good terms and are still good friends a year later. I have to admit though, that it was a relationship I blundered into (long story), and I got lucky because she turned out to be an honest and good-natured person. I could have been badly burned and I would not advise others to do the same.

    Certainly no-one should entertain the idea of shacking up with the hardcore whores of Sosua, but the majority of working girls there are part-timers who drift into and out of the game as opportunities and needs arise, and would indignantly deny that they are "putas" (even though they are).
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    Re: Is it possible for a chica to change

    They will change immediately once they get older and no one will pay for them anymore. just watch the loyalty appear.

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    Re: Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by BlueDevil View Post
    Anything is possible, but a working girl changing is improbable.
    She has a better chance than me.

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    Re: Is it possible for a chica to change

    If we’re talking hard core, as in frequently out looking for customers, they can change when for what ever reason selling pussy becomes difficult for them. They’ll let you know when they’re ready. It’s nothing that you can guide them into. If you got your eye on one just stay in touch until you can see the change. Maybe by then you’ll be over your “like”.

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    Re: Is it possible for a chica to change

    Sosua chica's changing

    I knew a chica who used to work Sosua, we are Instagram friends. I saw her campaigning for President Medina last year. She is always dressed nice in her IG photos and she advised she retired from Sosua although I do not know what she is doing now that the election is over.

    I can recall a few who got pregnant and I have not seen them again in Sosua. I can also recall quite a few that were regulars and dropped off the map. I know what they say about assuming but it appears as if the chics who have not returned to Sosua have changed something.

    A little off topic but in the same vane I know a couple of ex-cons who turned their lives around and are now very productive members of society so I believe change is possible for anyone who has the desire and will to change.

    It seems to me that one of the greatest motivators for change is circumstances, when circumstances change so do we or else we get left behind.

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by realkewl View Post
    Asking my veterans, those who have been around and seen a lot of things.

    Is it possible for a Sosua chica to change...meaning, being a regular girlfriend or wife...

    Curious minds want to know...

    -Peace
    The question is why do you want an uneducated chica from Dr that will never get a better job than Burger King?

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by Atlantic City Jimmy View Post
    The question is why do you want an uneducated chica from Dr that will never get a better job than Burger King?
    I dunno...free fries and blowjobs.
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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by greydread View Post
    I dunno...free fries and blowjobs.

    is your adjective associated with only one, or both nouns in your response? Please clarify.

    Vida es buena....

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Free mayo with the blowjobs for your fries too after the job is done.

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by Irie View Post
    is your adjective associated with only one, or both nouns in your response? Please clarify.

    Everything is negotiable. 😉

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by CentralNJDude View Post
    Free mayo with the blowjobs for your fries too after the job is done.
    Mayo don't go with fries...

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by greydread View Post
    Mayo don't go with fries...
    If you are ...

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    ...you can put mayonnaise on anything...haaaaaaaaaaa!

    ...seriously though Dominicans put mayo on fries in their yaroa...it will give you a heart attack for-real!

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by greydread View Post
    Mayo don't go with fries...
    In some places they do.

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by greydread View Post
    I dunno...free fries and blowjobs.
    At what BK is that a combo?

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by Atlantic City Jimmy View Post
    At what BK is that a combo?
    Jeez, Yimmie!

    The one where your novia works. She brings home the fries and blows you while you eat them. Have you no imagination?

    For 6 months I was with a Woman who worked at Red, Hot & Blue. She came home every night with brisket sandwiches and ribs and chicken and mac & cheese and collard greens (with the bacon in them) and we'd eat until we got the "Itis" and then fuck our way out of it. I gained 20 lbs. during that 6 months and had to cut her loose.

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    Quote Originally Posted by greydread View Post
    Jeez, Yimmie!

    The one where your novia works. She brings home the fries and blows you while you eat them. Have you no imagination?

    For 6 months I was with a Woman who worked at Red, Hot & Blue. She came home every night with brisket sandwiches and ribs and chicken and mac & cheese and collard greens (with the bacon in them) and we'd eat until we got the "Itis" and then fuck our way out of it. I gained 20 lbs. during that 6 months and had to cut her loose.
    Grey, it wasn't until I moved into the hood a few years back that I learned the term you refer to as the "Itis." I think it may have gone over a lot of heads.

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    Re: 05/2018 - Is it possible for a chica to change

    This topic is difficult to discuss without talking about the different ways sex work is seen in different societies.

    In Thailand, for example, young women are sent off from the village to "work off" family debt in the bars we frequent (at least the lucky ones, those less fortunate work in places that cater to Thais and I understand the conditions are much worse). After a few years they return to the village and although it is an open secret where they were and what they were doing, they often resume their lives without stigma.

    Just as interesting a question as "Is it possible for a chica to change" is, is it possible for a monger to change. In the past I have wondered if hoing has ruined me for more typical relationships. Has the ease of sex with hot young women, without the compromise involved in a relationship "broken" me in terms of something long-term and more emotionally meaningful. We write about seeking the GFE but really we want the PSE dressed up as a girl friend thing. We certainly don't seek many of the other aspects of having a steady girl friend or wife.


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