Re: 07/2019 - Current situation in Sosua
Originally Posted by
bailar
My question is ,,,, once you have one on retainer , how do you go back to just being occasional amantes?
I have one that I still like to hit once and awhile, but as far as the relation ship thing,,, the thrill is gone!
Yes that is the question, and I don't know if there is one answer to it. It depends on the guy and the chica and how it was broken off. I have always enjoyed female friends. When I lived in NY, I always
could go back to the ex, except one that I recall if I wanted, mostly I think because for me, it wasn't really a nasty break up, it was just time for me to move on. Even my ex wife, who I haven't had sex with for more than 15 years, now have a cordial relationship and we communicate, she is a true bitch, but now that I don't have to deal with her every day, I can deal with her and we have common interests mostly our daughter but also some financial considerations. We get along better now to be truthful better than when we lived together.
Both of the Dominican chicas who I have considered as girlfriends for a time, I have no doubt I could be with them again sexually if I wanted on occasion. The first I don't see any more because we lost contact, but for the first two years after the relationship changed we would run into each other and we have been friendly. Also the second and most recent ex, sends me messages often, just this week most recently. May not communicate for two or three months then she will send a message, I never initiate contact. She will send a message that she wants to visit the beach, have even let her sleep over, but no more sex for only one reason. She wants to use a condom now, because she knows I am a hound as el Toro described me. I don't go back, if we were together sin condom as obviously any girlfriend would be with me, if we are going to have sex again it would have to be the same way, sans condom.
Damn even my first real girlfriend from college and I still communicate via Facebook on occasion. If you have been a significant part of my life, I tend to keep you, I don't throw away people unless there is no other option.
Why should I limit myself to only one woman when I can have as many women as I want?
George Gershwin
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