The Circuit Breaker Effect with chicas

[Hoseman]

The quick easy answer is that she is probably not a hooker that is 30 years younger than he is.

You are right he is 38 and she is 25.

[DMV]

There is no such thing as non pro "novias" in the DR. They're either pro's or semi pro's

This is one monger I have to meet. He breaks it down so simple even Stevie Wonder can see it, or a caveman

[shredder]

I didn't expect my post to generate so much interest. Thanks for all the replies. My main point was the circuit breaker effect of how the chicas will keep asking for more until they finally ask for too much and loose me completely. Thanks jd426 who got that in post #13. My other point was questioning the wisdom or economics of chasing non-pros and Robert13212 makes a good point on that topic in post #27.

Here are some honorable mention posts:
Post #9 Jimmydr - Exactly...She actually thinks she will sell the shoes and make a profit and pay me back.

Post #15 el toro, Post #19 funseeker, post #21 jd426....all good points.

Post #33 MegasAV...to answer your question: The circuit breaker tripped because she asked for money. The circuit breaker was becoming loaded because of the inconvenience and added expense of visiting her in Samana and interupting my time in Sosua where I'd be having fun finding different girls. For whatever reason, I feel like having no obligations on this trip....and it is my trip afterall.

But the winner for the best post, with the best advice goes to eldorob in Post #8. Thanks. You are right.

[Hoseman]

Most of the girls guys deal with will always need or ask for Money it is just a matter of how much and how often.

[SeaWeed]

Most of the girls guys deal with will always need or ask for Money it is just a matter of how much and how often.

That's on the first page of the "Hookers Manual".

[steviewonder]

My motto living here for 4 1/2 yrs. and counting has always been; The difference between sex for money, and sex for free, is that sex for money usually costs less. ~Brendan Francis

[JD426]

Most of the girls guys deal with will always need or ask for Money it is just a matter of how much and how often.

Which is exactly why its so confounded confusing to us when some claim never to be asked for money....
Im sinceerly not trying to bash anyone any more... its just a matter of fact statement.

Im going to make yet another confession , right here...
An Amiga of mine,
Hoseman you saw us eating at Baileys when you got a haircut that one day . NNJdave also met her and hung with her. She was an Amiga, a "friend" in every sense of the word, I really liked this chica as a friend, NOT to sleep with her, but because she spoke Fluent German and we clicked...she even introduced me to her German NOVIO & screened chicas for me .. We had an understanding, I was off limits with the WU shit,, but one day, the requests came... So I told her,, you do understand that we have NO relationship, I dont even fuck you.. You are my friend.. If you need money, just be honest what its for.. I will give it to you.. she still kept up her bullshit story... I even called and discussed it with a respected sponsor of this board . , Jd give her the Money, you will be rid of her... cause now you know what she really is.... I gave her the money, and told her. Guess what, now we part friends... no strings... dont ever bother me for money..or anything else...
3 trips I made til then.. she texted me every time was in town, but did not have the nerve to approach me any more.. she knows she fucked up. She placed a Dollar value on our friendship.. and now she can go break rocks... because she broke the circuit ( to keep the continuity of this thread)

[Hoseman]

I had 3 of the girls I have cook and for me say they wanted to go home to Santigo last Month I gave them each 500 pesos non of them went home they did not have to lie to me but they are so used to it.Two called me I saying they were hungry I told them they should have went to Santiago the 3rd called saying she did not have room money I told her the same thing.They have never done anything wrong it is just the fact they did not have to lie to me for 500 pesos.You have a good memory JD.

[JD426]

I had 3 of the girls I have cook and for me say they wanted to go home to Santigo last Month I gave them each 500 pesos non of them went home they did not have to lie to me but they are so used to it.Two called me I saying they were hungry I told them they should have went to Santiago the 3rd called saying she did not have room money I told her the same thing.They have never done anything wrong it is just the fact they did not have to lie to me for 500 pesos.You have a good memory JD.

Thats EXACTLY my point... they lie when they dont even HAVE to lie...
its like a disease or something.

[FritoBandito]

Shredder, Dont be a Dummy like me...

Roll up the newspaper, and softly whack her in the ass with it and say "no", she wont do it again, and will respect you more.

I prefer to discipline my chicas by rubbing their noses in the wet spot on the sheets after sex....and saying "no."

[FritoBandito]

Valentine's Day Party at Merengue Club:
http://www.sosuanews.com/sosua_nav.p...nfos/music.php

When approaching the putas on this special and romantic night in Sosua, a true gentleman will respectfully ask of them, "Will you be my valentine and suck my dick, please?"


What the fuck, I'll even pay you for it!!!!!

[shredder]

I prefer to discipline my chicas by rubbing their noses in the wet spot on the sheets after sex....and saying "no."

That's too funny

[DASBOOTY]

I have a non-pro "novia" in Samana. She's fun to be with in and out of bed. She's got a rockin' body. She's worth visiting again. So I've been in contact with her since my last trip and I've been putting together a gift box for her and her daughter for when I returned.

I have a trip to Sosua planned in March and was going to bus my way to Samana for 3 days to see her and bring the gift box. But progressively I was thinking the side trip to Samana would be problematic. She would want me to stay longer or want to come back to Sosua with me for a few days. I could see it play out to my disadvantage and interupt the non-stop fun of everyday being a new adventure that Sosua always is.

Then I get a call from her. She had not asked me for money since my last trip but yesterday she calls and is asking for 12,000pesos so she can buy shoes to sell, yadda, yadda, yadda. I told her I couldn't send her money...she is not giving up, however, and is still pressuring me.

Now don't get me wrong. I'm not trying to be a hard ass. She's actually a quality chica who works hard and has things going for her, but.....this tripped the circuit breaker. You understand how a circuit breaker works. A circuit breaker can tolerate a certain load and everything is fine. But if you overload the circuit, the breaker trips and now you have nothing.

The Samana chica overloaded the circuit and tripped the breaker. Luckily, because of experience, I have not told her of my upcoming trip. I kept telling her I didn't know when I'd return because of work. So now I've decided to not tell her of my trip and skip the Samana visit. I suppose the gift box will go to some lucky Sosua girl.

It all comes down to the economics of chica procurement. As she said 12,000pesos I had my calculator on my desk and I'm immediately thinking, "Wait a minute, that's 8 TLNs....that's 10 to 12 STs. I was willing to spend a little extra to visit her and enjoy the GFE she has always given but she raised the cost and the market has spoken.

If I meet a non-pro where we might have something going I state to her at the beginning that I will not send money via WU. I don't have a problem with giving her some money, buying her gifts or treating her to meals while I am there, but I tell them right off the hop - "No voy a enviar dinero por Western Union."

If they don't like that, then they can leave right there.

[The Sage]

Every two years or so I meet one that's a little special and worthy of a little indulgence. I'll take the bait and play long distance house with them with a defined stop. What the stop is depends on availability, willingness to entertain my deviant side, the amount of joy she brings to my life, her willingness to accept no as an answer, how tight she tries to hold the leash etc. I don't know about yah, but I find the "quasi" normal girls very endearing. They do try really hard and they're usually pretty cute when they're attempting to spin their spells. The key is to set your limits and walk away when they're reached. I don't recommend attempting to maintain a serious relationship, but if you want real passion it helps to provide them with a reason to bestow it upon you. Don't be surprised though if you can't get rid of her. A little tenderness, respect, and empathy go a long way in that country. Most guys think sugar daddy, but that's not quite it. For a lot of young women struggling to make ends meet the ability to have someone you know will help you when you need help is a godsend that they will not abuse.

[DASBOOTY]

Shredder, Dont be a Dummy like me...

Roll up the newspaper, and softly whack her in the ass with it and say "no", she wont do it again, and will respect you more. then when you see her, fuck her brains out, and pay her to leave.
I'm also seeing that this GFE "Novia" thing is not all its cracked up to be. So far its only tuition money being asked for, but it builds to a crescendo, and then like you said eventually they trip the switch...
give em enough rope, they will always hang themsleves with it, they cant seem to help it. And thats why we move on.

EXACTO!

Move on. There are thousands more in the pool!

[Chief Papi Lindo]

Novia = A chick you bang more than once.

i call that a favorite...the word 'novia & wifey' are too deep in my book...'

[Chief Papi Lindo]

Thats EXACTLY my point... they lie when they dont even HAVE to lie...
its like a disease or something.

thats my main complaint about d.r. women..they lie and they do not need to lie which kills the whole 'friendship' for me...i try not to judge but that shyt is a deal breaker..

[The Sage]

Here's a story. I have a favorita. She works at a hotel in POP. Met her in Clasicos and took her home. At the house I asked her why she was in Clasicos parading her wares (no ho clothes she was wearing a calf length dress). She told me straight up that her job didn't pay enough and that on occasion it was necessary to supplement her income. That was 3 years ago. I've not seen her in Clasicos again and I lived there 2 out of those 3 years. She's very humble. She once asked me to bring her a purse. When I asked why didn't she buy it there she responded it was 2,000 pesos which was damn near her rent and she couldn't afford to spend that kind of money on a purse. The funny thing was she was under the belief that I could pick it up here for far less than the price there.

Over the course of our relationship we worked out an arrangement. I paid her 2500 peso rent every other month. In return I've gotten some of the best sex I've had. Many times she's left the apartment only asking for publico money. Typically I'll put 500 to 1,000 pesos in her purse because she's always broke. A few months ago her and her room mate fell out and she needed to get another apartment. She needed 3,000 pesos for the down payment. This is how she asked me; "baby I need you to help me, but I understand you don't have much money. I found a new apartment and I don't have the 3,000 for the deposit (she speaks pretty good english). If you can't help me I'll understand, no problem." Needless to say she had her money by the end of the day. Shit based on what she gives me, and what I pay strange hoes to try to give me, I owe her a whole bunch of pesos. Now what would I do if I saw her on this site with a dick in her month? I'd drop her like yesterday's news.

[shredder]

Here's a story. I have a favorita. She works at a hotel in POP. Met her in Clasicos and took her home. At the house I asked her why she was in Clasicos parading her wares (no ho clothes she was wearing a calf length dress). She told me straight up that her job didn't pay enough and that on occasion it was necessary to supplement her income. That was 3 years ago. I've not seen her in Clasicos again and I lived there 2 out of those 3 years. She's very humble. She once asked me to bring her a purse. When I asked why didn't she buy it there she responded it was 2,000 pesos which was damn near her rent and she couldn't afford to spend that kind of money on a purse. The funny thing was she was under the belief that I could pick it up here for far less than the price there.

Over the course of our relationship we worked out an arrangement. I paid her 2500 peso rent every other month. In return I've gotten some of the best sex I've had. Many times she's left the apartment only asking for publico money. Typically I'll put 500 to 1,000 pesos in her purse because she's always broke. A few months ago her and her room mate fell out and she needed to get another apartment. She needed 3,000 pesos for the down payment. This is how she asked me; "baby I need you to help me, but I understand you don't have much money. I found a new apartment and I don't have the 3,000 for the deposit (she speaks pretty good english). If you can't help me I'll understand, no problem." Needless to say she had her money by the end of the day. Shit based on what she gives me, and what I pay strange hoes to try to give me, I owe her a whole bunch of pesos. Now what would I do if I saw her on this site with a dick in her month? I'd drop her like yesterday's news.

Good stories...thanks

[Mr. Smooth]

jd426, I gotta say dude, you have some real bad luck stories to tell. I get depressed reading your posts in some of these threads sometimes. Next thing you're gonna tell us you have a one-eyed, 3 legged dog with one ear chewed off who goes by the name of "Lucky".

Post some happy shit once in a while.