I would say the percentage is probably very low, and if it did happen, the news would probably get around pretty quickly (especially in a small town like Sosua).
I was in Sosua in January. My buddy and I were walking along the stretch between Sosua Life bar and Bermuda bar during the day and we noticed a guy sitting at a table on the sidewalk having a beer by himself. The guy has a big patch of guaze taped over one of his eyes. My buddy asks me "What do you think happened to him?" I answer "He probably has a bad case of 'pink eye'".
Anyway, a few days later my buddy goes to a bar on PC near Scotia bank during the day for a few beers. He starts talking to a couple of other guys there. The conversation steers toward the dude with the patch of guaze on his face. One the guys at the bar heard the story behind it. It turns out this dude had a session with a puta and he then refused to pay her. The puta went and told her tiguere/chulo about the monger not paying her. The tiguere/chulo seeked him out, found him and smashed him in the eye. That news travelled pretty fast.
As for myself, I have never been in a situation where I had to kick a chica out of the room without paying (although a couple of times I have paid putas more for what we agreed - and after receiving piss poor performance).
It is always in the back off my mind that something could go wrong with a street/bar puta. I try to screen them as best as I can. Fortunately, I haven't had any bad incidences.
The problem is most can't seem to be able to discern between non pros and hardcore sosua hookers. . . . .lol. .
I have seen quite a few non pros . . . .turn more hardcore after getting played and lied to by guys they did fall for. There are many non pros afraid to date gringos as they have seen amigas get played.
I would tend to agree with you that if I knew for sure some chica was trying to play me. . .I would play her but I tended to stay away from pure hardcore chicas in the first place.
Heck I knew a girl that met a bunch of guys online. She left her yahoo mail open on one of my laptops and the message she had just sent was about if the dude sent 4000 pesos so she could buy a phone. . . .she would send him naked pics. . . . .lol. .
She never asked me for money. Would come spend 4-5 days with me. Cook and clean, even came by gua gua at first before I offered to pay for taxis as she came from san cristobal.
One night at 1am she calls and and says she has to ask me something serious. I say OK. She asks if I wanted to be her novio. I said I didn't know her well enough. . . .blah, blah blah. She said since she met me she wasn't trying to meet other dudes. I laughed.
She kept up that story so finally I asked about sending naked pics for a cell phone. . . .. she was shocked. She was not a novia nor ever entered my mind as novia material so I could care less how many guys she wanted to hook up with or send naked pics. . . . .lol. . I was able to use that as an excuse to thwart her novio advance.
We continued to hang out a bit and I sort of poked around and asked why she was trying to get cash from these dudes and never asked me for a dime. She said . . .most guys never come down. . .or if they do they just want to get laid. . ..so it was a game. I lived there and had LTRs before and was not a game etc.
She was not a bad kid and always treated me great. After a while we became buddies and I would go hang in san cristobal just to go dancing etc. About 2 years later she was knocked up and "married" to a dominican guy. Never heard from her again.
Basically she met some guys online. None ever made the trip but tried for phone sex, webcam sex, and sexting. She was smart enough to see they were playing so she tried to get a cell phone. . . . .all good. . .
According to him, he laid it all out for her before they got married. This is what it is... He keeps her pretty happy in the mcmansion,cars, and all ther amenities she could ever want. I guess maybe that was part of the deal in the beginning. But she may be tightening the reigns on him a little bit .. he is slowing down, I did notice . Shes not pure latino, she is mixed, dont want to get too specific.
The most beautiful woman that I have ever known told me--''All is fair in love and war''!
My simple rule. Treat people how they treat me. Like you said if a non pro really likes me but I am not that into her, I don't play any games. I tell the truth, but having said that they sometimes don't want to believe the truth.
If a girl is a scammer or player, I may out play her just to teach her a lesson. It let's her know that all gringos are not pendejos . . . . .
Nah. We became buddies and still hung out once in a while. She is now married and has a second kid with the husband. Well, last I spoke to her any way.
Most of the guys she met online were trying to play her. Asking for webcam sex, naked pics, asking her to meet them at their resort when/if they came down etc. Basically fishing etc.
None of them ever did come down for real. . .so it was a game. She decided to play the game right back. Can't blame her. I would do the same.
I OTOH lived in DR. Had LTRs with dominicanas in the past etc. I was at least a somewhat real option for LTR. She never asked for cash or WU. I bought her a bikini once in Boca Chica. I spent money on food and drink etc. Heck at first she would come to la capital in a gua gua and pay for it herself. If she was a full time player. . . . .that would never happen. Plus I have met so many players. . . . .they are not hard to spot.
when you lie you tend to have to cover that lie with another lie and that lie usually ends up creating another lie.
lies are hard to juggle and keep track of..........so i try hard to never lie............
i may evade a question or two or change the subject, not give a definate awnser,..........but 99.99% ot the time i never lie to anyone about anything....
(except the revenue guys but everyone does that right)
you only live once, but if you live it right once is enough
The ultimate game putas play is the "I'm not a puta" game.
They must be teaching this as a course in the local elementary schools of Sosua because a lot of guys have been falling for it lately!
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