When I was reasearching prior to my trip to Santo Domingo, there was little in the way of consolidated information on bagging the non-pro or regular girl.
My weekend in Santo Domingo illustrated that the "good girl" is very much accessible here for those persons prepared to invest the time to go that route. The other wonderful thing is that there are so many professional options that one can do the novio thing through the day and deal with that throbbing nut later in the evening.
The good thing about SD is that this is a fairly sexually liberated place and also an ecominically challenging place to live. These two facts conspire to mean that the girls will put out if they like you AND they sense that this "affair" will lead to some medium and long term advantage to them.
For what it is worth, here are my tips below:
(a) Age difference is relatively unimportant here. I have seen too many Dominican older men with younger women. Given the economic circumstances here, it isn't hard to figure out that younger women look for the financial means and security that an older professional gentleman can provide.
(b)
Know some Spanish. Do the Rosetta Stone (
www.rosettastone.com) course. It's excellent and can give you functionality in a month if you are prepared to do an hour a day.
(c)
Dress smartly and behave like a gentleman. Your job is to at least pretend that you view her as a lady and that your intentions are noble.
Also, if you dress smartly, then you will look like a professional and not just Joe Tourist in tattered T-shirt and flip flops. Girls who are seen with those kind of men are assumed to be putas.
(d)
Offer to take her on a date. Take her to dinner and afterward, tell her that you would like to invite her back to your room for drinks or for a chat. Do not mention sex. She knows what you wants and so do you. But you do not want to blow the illusion. If you get her back to your bedroom, offer something to drink and take it slow....Offer a massage, etc. or a gentle kiss.
(e)
Lie, lie, lie, lie, lie! For the non-pro, the gamble she is taking is that this liaison is actually going to lead somewhere. This gentleman in front of me actually has some long term interest in me. So, you want to let her know that you are single or seperated from your wife; that you are or will be travelling to the DR often for business; that you can't stand putas; that you are looking for a decent and smart Domincan lady to be your girlfriend/wife, because your friends tell you they are the most faithful and passionate women in the world, etc. These lines - modified as necessary - also can help you to get freebies the second time around from pros or semi-pros.
(f)
Offer her a "gift" of money when you are done. As penance for your lies in (e) above,
the least you can do is offer her some money....but tell her it is to buy a gift for her or her kids, etc. These girls live in hard circumstances.....Unless you bag a rich girl, do offer her something to help her out...
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